uncomfortable man
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There is this sentiment that If you are loosing your hair beyond a certain point that you should just shave it all off and get on with your life. Well, I have tried that and I still get sh*t on for it so why shouldn't I wear a hat whenever I am out in public? There is this unspoken policy of honesty when it comes to hairloss that urges you to be open and upfront about your situation, but when I am honest about it I still get the bad looks, whispers and rude comments so I have come to the conclusion that honesty is not the best policy. Why should I be obligated to expose my glaring flaw for everyone to criticize? Why should I be expected to subject myself to that kind of ridicule? Sure, if I wear a hat all the time it will seem suspicious and people will eventually assume that I am bald anyway, right? Yes, but at least they don't have to SEE it. What about people coming to the conclusion that I am insecure about being bald? I AM INSECURE ABOUT BEING BALD! Take a look around, CAN YOU BLAME ME? I just want to be normal. I just want to fit in. Being bald makes that impossible for me so I wear a hat and avoid the social tension. If it makes me feel better, more secure then why shouldn't I?