Alright. As long as you arent making chads out as universally some james bond/most interesting man in the world type characters haha
If anything mediocre looking 4-6 guys are the coolest. Uglies, like 3 and under actually seem to often be sh*t too though, theyre often idiots. Hot guys are often generic and boring
I've told you more about my sex life than most on here and the most enjoyable "conquests" have been from women who had literally no interest, wouldn't care if I was dead. Would move on without giving a sh*t what I say to them, and even hope not to see me again.
I'm talking about putting in effort to f***
even more girls lol, or at least during slayerdom days. That's not to say an attractive guy can't rely on always getting laid pretty easily by simple putting himself out there. OK to break it down, sometimes it's so easy you could be an aspie and still get your dick wet, other times it involves some form of social awareness at least, and then, probably when it's most worth it, you have to really try, and put in that effort.
I guess this is relating to what
@SmoothSailing was saying about forming a real relationship, and this is what's constantly is on my mind as I haven't had a real deep and meaningful relationship in some time.
I really don't enjoy fighting with you but I obviously get very hostile when I get labelled as this "confidence" pusher because I see that as a delusion and possible insanity, so I'm never going to let that sit with myself easily.
Whenever I talk about these Chads who don't get laid often (or at least, often enough for what they look like, still way more than most average single guys) I'd guess I've known at least a dozen or maybe more, but one always sticks in my mind because he was a close friend who couldn't understand why he wasn't getting any, at least with decent looking women (he resorted to like 4/10 fat girls at a point). And he was hilarious and impressionable, smart too, Italian guy who always criticised his own English in a humble way, but his English was great! And definitely 8/10 minimum, every girls eyes lit up when they saw him and they'd often talk about how cute and great he was.
So that's the prime example.
Was it ever easy for him? Oh f*** yes. After months (maybe 4 or 5) of getting nowhere with any attractive woman, he came out one night with me and friends, he ordered one drink and this like 7/10 blonde eastern european bar girl starts chatting him up, blatantly and without any awareness of anyone around her. I didn't hear this part but she just outright asked if he wants to go back to hers, she left like an hour after her shift started, got in real trouble with her boss (I went to this place regularly and knew them all).
She risked her job to f*** a Chad! And he just sat there dumbfounded as she came on to him. I have many other depressing stories involving myself that back up how easy it can be
at times, but a lot of the time you do have to work for it.
I guess I am quite focused on the more important girls who tend to be smart, meaning they're cautious of f*****g a guy who will move on quickly. They realise this at some point in their 20's and every girl has that horny part of them that wants to f*** a hot guy, but many of the smart ones start to realise it's actually damaging and counter-productive in the long run.
So to smarter aware girls, the more hot you are = the more options you have = the more likely you are to not really care about their feelings and move on to another hot b**ch.
While being aesthetically pleasing is of course undeniably a positive in every way, it can also work against you. (lol if someone thinks I'm whining right now then I'm going to f*****g find them)
