Would You Reject Someone Just Because Of Your Hair

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Dante92 said:
That's why I'm treading lightly about transplants. Not ideal for young people with aggressive hair loss, and I surely don't want to spend thousands of euros only to keep balding anyway. I'll wait 1-2 years, if no better treatments come out (or if I grow desperate enough) I'll do it.
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that's smart man. from what it sounds like, you are receding. God forbid, you get a transplant and just recede more. you'll be in the position I am in, which is diffused thinning hair with thick 2-3 graft transplants sticking out of the hair line. I have to pluck those fuckers every couple weeks just to look normal.

I hope by the time you're late twenties you can put this unfair, bullshit nightmare behind you.
 
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haha, me too man. I'm just playing ;)
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This is kind of embarrassing but since you raised the issue of me wearing makeup and we're all anonymous here I'm going to share a funny story.

A few of us guys got tipsy one Halloween night in Houston and our girlfriends took advantage and put makeup (yes eyeshadow, lipstick, and other facial makeup) on us and blouses too. We did keep our jeans on. So anyway then we all (3 guys and our 3 girlfriends) went to some classy restaurants/lounges and then to one strip joint.

First we went to a few classy places, and the classy waitresses there already flirted with us whenever we went in those places, but when they saw us in makeup and blouses they went totally moonstruck. They picked up on us hard right in front of our girlfriends. They liked us even more with makeup and blouses on than without that stuff. Is that crazy or what? It was all they could do to restrain themselves. You would not believe how wowed they were. We got kicked out of all the classy places after being at each place maybe 10 - 15 minutes and the women at those places wanted to go home with us. I swear the one that liked me the most looked like she was devouring me with her eyes. She was practically crying when I left while her boss was standing there giving me the stern evil eye.

After getting thrown out of the classy clubs we went to a strip joint because we figured we might not get kicked out since strip clubs aren't so classy. We were in there 10 - 15 minutes and while we were there about a dozen cowboys were grousing and acting like they were getting ready to gang up on us so we started leaving. I was the last one in our line heading for the door. I swear the stripper comes down from the stage and blocks me from leaving and 2 more strippers come from backstage and also blocked me from leaving. They were trying to get me to stay and go home with them. My girlfriend was already at the door. And those stripper chicks looked disappointed/sad as I squeezed past them to the exit.

When we walked into that stripper club the stripper who was dancing stopped dancing and went to the backstage and she was raving about us to the other dancers backstage. She was talking about us (or at least one of us) and she tells the other strippers, "You have to come see this". The cowboys started acting like they were getting ready to get after us and there wasn't enough of us guys to balance things out so we were leaving. The girl on stage and two girls from the backstage come out and stand side to side in front of me and try to stop me from leaving while they ordered the cowboys to cool it. As I was squeezing past the strippers they were trying to make it physically difficult for me to leave and trying to talk me into staying and going home with them, especially the one that had been dancing on the stage when we walked in. All of this happened over a period of about 10 - 15 minutes. I swear it's the honest truth.

That's the only time I ever wore makeup. I'm not into makeup at all. I would never wear it again. I only ended up in makeup because I was half drunk and our GFs took advantage (of us being high) and put makeup on us for Halloween. All that having been said, I honestly think that women may actually like it when men wear makeup.

Crazy huh?
 
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nameless said:
You're right.

This is another concern I have about hair transplants. I have a lot more hair in my donor hair than elsewhere. It's kind of thick. But it has thinned some. What if it keeps thinning? The transplanted hairs could be lost over time and then I would be left with scar tissue over my head and then even new revolutionary treatments might not work because it might be impossible to grow hair in scar tissue. If I got a transplant and a lot of that hair was lost over time and I had a bunch of scar tissue all over my head I could become suicidal. I have to think about what's best for my mental health down the road. I can't just think about my hair.
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Have you considered FUE? You wouldn't have to worry about scars.
 
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hairblues said:
He is an eccentric.

I mean this as a compliment...i was kind of hard on him the other night...i don't believe all his writings BUT i don't think he is a liar either..its something in-between.
Kind of dreamy.
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You said "kind of dreamy" so you think I'm "dreaming" all of this stuff about my past.

If it was all dreams I would know the difference between dreams and reality.
 
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Are you saying that I'm dreaming all of this stuff about my past?
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I find some of it hard to believe--but i don't think you are a liar either.

i think some truth is there but time can make some stories seem different.

Like i believe you slept with a lot of women...but the way you describe the women sexual experience i believe is with rose colored glasses
 
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Some of the things women tried with me constituted sexual assault. And I don't mean once or twice. I'm talking about hundreds of times they sexually assaulted me. For example, they'd stick their thumbs out and I'd pick them up in my car and they'd start necking on me and pawing me while I'm trying to drive.
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Were you wearing a seatbelt?
 
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blackg said:
Were you wearing a seatbelt?
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I never wear a seat belt. I always drove sports cars - camaros. They'd be walking on the sidewalk, see me through the car windshield, and stick their thumbs out. They'd get in the car and start kissing on me. If it was just me in the car it usually ended up with us having sex. But sometimes I would have a male friend in my car so things would not get far between the woman and I. She would just neck on me, and have her hands all over me, and tell me that she wants to get together with me later. After the woman would leave my car my friend and I would go someplace, like a party, or a different friend's house, or whatever, and when we'd get there my friend would exclaim to everyone, "You would not believe what just happened. This chick gets in his car and starts necking on him and running her hands all over him." And then everyone would start laughing.
 
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nameless said:
Some of the things women tried with me constituted sexual assault. And I don't mean once or twice. I'm talking about hundreds of times they sexually assaulted me. For example, they'd stick their thumbs out and I'd pick them up in my car and they'd start necking on me and pawing me while I'm trying to drive. I'd be at a party laughing and happy and some woman would just start kissing on me and pawing on me. These aren't dreams. It's what happened. They would stand in front of me when I was walking and try to prevent me from walking past because they wanted me to make some bold move on them. Women trying to force themselves on me was common in my life.

Now I'm not saying I didn't like them kissing on me and stuff like that but make no mistake about it many of them tried to force themselves on me.
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I understand

one time i was driving the car and a guy i was dating was bombed in passenger seat...on parkway he started giving me oral now giving a man oral while driving is one thing...you can do it and be safe
BUT
giving woman oral while she is driving IS NOT SAFE--ABORT ABORT!

Almost crashed the damn car like 5 times
 
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hairblues said:
@nameless Do you have fantasies of women forcing you to have sex?
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No. I don't want to be forced to do anything.

But they were big girls and they know what they were doing. They would get in the car and start kissing/necking on me and running their hands all over me because they knew that would get my motor running. And she knew that once she got my motor running I would make nice-nice right then, and if I didn't/couldn't at that very moment I would come back around later to finish things since by necking on me she would get herself inside of my head. And I admit that their plan worked because I slept with almost all of the women who put the moves on me like that. So I'm not saying I didn't like it or anything like that. My point is that they would put the moves on me like that out of the clear blue without me doing anything to make them think I would be cool with it. Of course I was interested once it started but I didn't do anything to intimate that to them before they started kissing on me.
 
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nameless said:
No. Not specifically forcing me to have sex. But they know what they're doing. They would get in the car and start kissing on me and running their hands all over because they knew that would get my motor running and even if it didn't go the distance at that moment it would still get her in my head and maybe later something more would happen. And I admit that their plan worked because I slept with almost all of the women who put the moves on me hard like that so I'm not saying I didn't like it and I didn't really want to have sex. I'm just saying they would put the moves on me out of the clear blue without me doing anything to make them think I would be interested in that.
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I bet an older woman maybe a friends mom seduced you as a teenager.
 
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