Would You Reject Someone Just Because Of Your Hair

[nameless]

All those semi-virgins-aggressors. It's disgusting!

Well, I know you're trying to be cute but I'm not saying they were disgusting. I thought they were nice and I liked them. I'm just saying they had crushes on me. But I guess the way I said it sounded like I was badmouthing them but I liked them and I'm just saying that they initiated the action the bulk of the time.

 

[hairblues]

Some of them tried. My girlfriend's moms would call my mom and say, "My husband says he's a hippie but I don't think that nameless of yours is a hippy at all. He's the only one of these young men who can absolutely justify long hair." That's right, even the female parents (who hated long hair on males) of my girlfriends liked long hair on me, That's why I always say even if long hair isn't fashionable when I get my hair back it won't matter in my case.

Like samson

 

[buckthorn]

Na, we love you. The way you tell things really is funny.

this woman is the KINDEST person to ever be on this forum. are you really this nice??

 

[nameless]

Now tell us the truth @nameless: Is your realname SAMSON?

Actually my REAL name NOW is Disfigured Zero.

 

[nameless]

LOLOLOLOLOLOL

I thought it was funny too.
But I can't post my real name.

 

[hairblues]

No. My real name is Disfigured Zero.

Oh no don't say that--that makes me sad

 

[nameless]

Oh no don't say that--that makes me sad

I'm just being honest.

 

[hairblues]

I'm just being honest.

I know but its still sad

 

[hairblues]

I'm just being honest.

You should write your memoirs of your exploits with women.

 

[nameless]

You should write your memoirs of your exploits with women.

The only reason I think about the past is because the present is just plain fucked. It feels good (for a bit) to relive the past but the reality of the PRESENT always comes back into focus. I wish I could live in my reminiscing.

When we get our hair back we can all create new futures for ourselves. And then the past won't matter anymore because you see, when good times are happening we will forget the bad times.

 

[hairblues]

The only reason I think about the past is because the present is just plain fucked. It feels good (for a bit) to relive the past but the reality of the PRESENT always comes back into focus. I wish I could live in my reminiscing.

When we get our hair back we can all create new futures for ourselves. And then the past won't matter anymore because you see, when good times are happening we will forget the bad times.

see you are kind of poetic.

 

[nameless]

You should write your memoirs of your exploits with women.

I would never share this stuff publicly. I just do it here because it's relevant to the issue of hair and I escape my present for awhile when I think about my past. If I do get it back and I get interviewed you would be very surprised at what I would say. The interviewer would ask me if getting my hair back has improved my dating life and I would say something like "Nah, every guy in town has more women than me." That's the kind of sh!t I used to say when I had my hair. I really keep my sex life private when I have my hair.

 

[nameless]

Ahahah
Mary me!

I don't know how old you are but I'm almost 50. Let me introduce you to a younger guy named Buckthorn.

 

[hairblues]

I would never share this stuff publicly. I just do it here because it's relevant to the issue of hair and it lets me escape my present for awhile to think about my past for awhile. If I do get it back and I get interviewed you would be very surprised at what I would say. The interviewer would ask me if getting my hair back has improved my dating life and I would say something like "Nah, every guy in town has more women than me." That's the kind of sh!t I used to say when I had my hair. I really keep my sex life private when I have my hair.

You can publish anonymously..Like the author of 9 1/2 weeks she kept her identity secret for many years.

Turns out she was a publisher at Ms Magazine part of the feminist movement having this secret D/s affair

 

[nameless]

see you are kind of poetic.

Thanks hairblues. What would you do if you got your hair back? Please tell me some ways that getting your hair back would change your life. If you don't mind.

 

[hairblues]

Thanks hairblues. What would you do if you got your hair back? Please tell me some ways that getting your hair back would change your life.

I have most of my hair still...I can't say exactly how much i lost but i would say maybe 25% or 30% of my top is thinned.
I can still hide it but i cannot part hair in middle anymore which in big picture is not end of world but side parts starting to get a bit thin..
I have been very worried and stressed and i have been misdiagnosed several times..so its been a crazy journey.
I was not sure what to expect--still don't.

I am now doing minoxidil and topical spironolactone--this past week i am having some progress...its too soon to get too excited..but i am not shedding the small hairs anymore..and my long hairs is dramatically decreased shedding...and i have some regrowth when i look in magnifying mirror.
Its not 'cured' but i feel at least a little relief that maybe i can make it to when their is a better treatment or cure.

 

[nameless]

I have most of my hair still...I can't say exactly how much i lost but i would say maybe 25% or 30% of my top is thinned.
I can still hide it but i cannot part hair in middle anymore which in big picture is not end of world but side parts starting to get a bit thin..
I have been very worried and stressed and i have been misdiagnosed several times..so its been a crazy journey.
I was not sure what to expect--still don't.

I am now doing minoxidil and topical spironolactone--this past week i am having some progress...its too soon to get too excited..but i am not shedding the small hairs anymore..and my long hairs is dramatically decreased shedding...and i have some regrowth when i look in magnifying mirror.
Its not 'cured' but i feel at least a little relief that maybe i can make it to when their is a better treatment or cure.

It sounds like perhaps you have at least halted the losses. This sounds really good.

 

[hairblues]

Thanks hairblues. What would you do if you got your hair back? Please tell me some ways that getting your hair back would change your life. If you don't mind.

the biggest thing for me honestly is that my hair loss will effect my work life in long run.

I don't want to say what i do but its very physical and its also in a very stylish industry that works very long hours

So if i had to wear a hair piece or even powders its not very practical.

I think my only recourse would be to do a weave...which is very high maintenance.

Also I freelance and i don't want to worry about being judged on my appearance as 'sick' or whatever.

I have to have a ton of confidence to sell myself to people who entrust me to do a job that is insane hours and skill.

One whiff of self doubt--forget it..Next.

The other thing can take full on i know the person but its not what i really want to do and its very very physical and again a wig is not practical.

Dating--i don't think its that big a deal BUT i was seeing someone this summer i liked and this obsessive worry kept me from really enjoying him and allowing myself to get to know him or him me...i found i really turned him down a lot and i can NOT be with someone right now with this burden on my mind...Its too much..Its not something I want to share but its also all i can think about for now. So its hard.
Im not even talking to many friends..
Im a little reclusive right now.

 

[hairblues]

It sounds like perhaps you have at least halted the losses. This sounds really good.

I 'think' so but hair loss is very fucked up...i think it can be completely mind f*****g..up/down better/worse.

So I think i am going to hold my breadth for the next several months...IF i get regrowth for a few months..I am at least at a reprieve. And i will appreciate this. I won't take it for granted especially being here and learning as much as i learnt about hair loss on this site.

I just can not wait to hear about some of the treatments coming It just sucks that everything seems to be not more information for another year..Follicer brotzu histogen etc.

 

[nameless]

the biggest thing for me honestly is that my hair loss will effect my work life in long run.

I don't want to say what i do but its very physical and its also in a very stylish industry that works very long hours

So if i had to wear a hair piece or even powders its not very practical.

I think my only recourse would be to do a weave...which is very high maintenance.

Also I freelance and i don't want to worry about being judged on my appearance as 'sick' or whatever.

I have to have a ton of confidence to sell myself to people who entrust me to do a job that is insane hours and skill.

One whiff of self doubt--forget it..Next.

The other thing can take full on i know the person but its not what i really want to do and its very very physical and again a wig is not practical.

Dating--i don't think its that big a deal BUT i was seeing someone this summer i liked and this obsessive worry kept me from really enjoying him and allowing myself to get to know him or him me...i found i really turned him down a lot and i can NOT be with someone right now with this burden on my mind...Its too much..Its not something I want to share but its also all i can think about for now. So its hard.
Im not even talking to many friends..
Im a little reclusive right now.

I'm there. I'm very reclusive too. I hope you know I understand exactly how you feel and I feel the exact same way. Everything you're saying also applies to me except I have more hair loss and it's probably been going on longer.