You Guys May Like This - Women On Ageing

CaptainForehead

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Yeah I don't think wrinkles are the problem at all, it's sagging.

You might be onto something. There is this girl at work, 35. Her face has started sagging. Her upper arms sag. Usually she wears full sleeves, and looks decent, but sometimes she's sleeveless and I'm like aaaaaaah. Doesn't go to the gym /but watches what she eats). Whenever I look at her face, I cannot notice her face sagging. My mom's face started sagging at like 50 I think.
 

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I'll admit to not reading all of this thread but



Yep.

I've always rolled my eyes at mid 30s+ women who are starting to visibly age and complain about it. Especially in the case of attractive women, who I feel are at their best looking in their thirties to forties as they've lost most of the "baby face"

I get the existential side of it, of course, but at this point they likely have done more than their share of partying, sleeping around, etc. and it's not like their chances of finding a mate are suddenly zero because they're a bit older.

Most men in their 30s aren't balding to a significant degree. So if you're balding then, you're at a greater disadvantage than most women your age.

If you're a below age 30 person who is balding and significantly, you definitely have a right to b**ch because you're being robbed before you've really had your chance.

Hairloss has shown me, more than anything else, that while we might be around a very long time, the time we have to really enjoy life to its fullest is tragically short.

Plus MILFS are very popular, not my personal taste but to pretend that an attractive +35 year old is going to be put apart by everyone is simply not true and if they were never that attractive and aging made them even uglier at least they can dress well, use makeup and have a decent haircut to try and balance things out.
 

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Plus MILFS are very popular, not my personal taste but to pretend that an attractive +35 year old is going to be put apart by everyone is simply not true and if they were never that attractive and aging made them even uglier at least they can dress well, use makeup and have a decent haircut to try and balance things out.

I will say this I am 45...I do have good aging genetics on my side with parents and my older sister..not perfect but probably better than a lot---I never felt aged or worried about aging from an esthetic perspective.

But the idea of hair loss????? THAT made me feel like i was 45 potentially going on 90.

I would gladly take a few wrinkles if someone said to me you never have to worry about hair loss again.
I would try to laser them or chemical peel them off--but I would rather tackle that problem then hair loss.
 
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There is no comparison. Aging is expected and inevitable for everyone, you can age better if you take care of yourself. Hair loss hits you when you least expect it, during "the best years of your life", and you can't "bald better" by taking care of yourself, you can just bald less.
I guess it depends what age it hits you.

If it happens at 21 it is awful but if it happens in your late thirties then it just looks like normal ageing like the majority of men.
 

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Plus MILFS are very popular, not my personal taste but to pretend that an attractive +35 year old is going to be put apart by everyone is simply not true and if they were never that attractive and aging made them even uglier at least they can dress well, use makeup and have a decent haircut to try and balance things out.

I dig MILFs. Even celebrity women I think are hot are all 10 or 20 years older than me..

Girl I dated in college was 30 (most attractive woman I've been with) and I was 21.

Didn't work out because of the age difference, but was fun while it lasted.
 

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There is so much more to life then "partying " though. I've given up on dating or even making friends, and I still have good days. The issue is balancing the good and the bad. Distraction is the key if you don't want to go insane. Even if you are the ugliest man who ever walked the earth you can still have good days if you distract yourself with something you enjoy
 

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There is so much more to life then "partying " though. I've given up on dating or even making friends, and I still have good days. The issue is balancing the good and the bad. Distraction is the key if you don't want to go insane. Even if you are the ugliest man who ever walked the earth you can still have good days if you distract yourself with something you enjoy
like gaming and programming stuffs right?
i enjoy them a lot.
 

shookwun

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There is so much more to life then "partying " though. I've given up on dating or even making friends, and I still have good days. The issue is balancing the good and the bad. Distraction is the key if you don't want to go insane. Even if you are the ugliest man who ever walked the earth you can still have good days if you distract yourself with something you enjoy
What you forget to mention is that baldness has inhibited your desire, and chances for creating healthy relationships.


It isn't a a matter of growing older, but hair loss making you more distant from this gathering.


Hair loss tends to turn people into sheltered recluses. The anxiety, turmoil and a mixture of self-esteem issues will rekt you.


I have lots of loser full head friends who have huge social gatherings, and live the night life. I WONDER WHY? Oh, let's not forget to mention late twenty something baldo telling me he's growing out of the scene. Has no more interest :rolleyes: Indirect effect of his boldness


meanwhile career bound early thirties men are snorting rails of young sl*ts legs in club bathrooms, and getting there knobs gobbed on that following night.
 

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meanwhile career bound early thirties men are snorting rails of young sl*ts legs in club bathrooms, and getting there knobs gobbed on that following night.

You watch too many movies.
 

shookwun

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You watch too many movies.

The hypnotic control that cocaine has over women is real.


I have brought back women back to my place so many times simply based on the fact that I had the snow back at the crib.

If she is interested in you physically, and you mention partying back at your place, and hint at what you got... It's in the bag, buddy.




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The hypnotic control that cocaine has over women is real.


I have brought back women back to my place so many times simply based on the fact that I had the snow back at the crib.

If she is interested in you physically, and you mention partying back at your place, and hint at what you got... It's in the bag, buddy.




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cokes makes a lot of women horny. I don't know about men. But i think men are just horny regardless.

Its was never my kind of high--i'm way too anxious/high strung i was always more into a 'mellow' high..but my friends all did a lot of coke way back when and that was the feedback i always heard.
 

shookwun

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cokes makes a lot of women horny. I don't know about men. But i think men are just horny regardless.

Its was never my kind of high--i'm way too anxious/high strung i was always more into a 'mellow' high..but my friends all did a lot of coke way back when and that was the feedback i always heard.

Women that are into the club, and bar life will almost always come back to your place if you have cocaine. Granted you don't come off creepy, talk for a bit, make her laugh, and both have interest in each other,.


The amount of times, I have bought shooter, and bartender chicks back to my place through small talk, and letting them know what's going on afterwards is surprising when I look back.


It does. They get so horny off it, and start wanting to strip, and take there clothes off for no reason. Shortly after they they are the ones making a move to kiss, and beg for the dick to suck.
 

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Women that are into the club, and bar life will almost always come back to your place if you have cocaine. Granted you don't come off creepy, talk for a bit, make her laugh, and both have interest in each other,.


The amount of times, I have bought shooter, and bartender chicks back to my place through small talk, and letting them know what's going on afterwards is surprising when I look back.


It does. They get so horny off it, and start wanting to strip, and take there clothes off for no reason. Shortly after they they are the ones making a move to kiss, and beg for the dick to suck.

I can confirm this to be true after extensive field research on NYE.

Probably helped that the party I went to was full of NW3/4 estrogen males. Easy pickings

hair = life
 

blackg

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They get so horny off it, and start wanting to strip, and take there clothes off for no reason. Shortly after they they are the ones making a move to kiss, and beg for the dick to suck.

Now you've been watching too many p**rn scenes.
 
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