You Guys May Like This - Women On Ageing

[Patrick_Bateman]

A big gut and skinny arms and legs is quite a sexy look on some men.

Can't tell if you're kidding. Either way here's Jeremy Clarkson who has 'quite a sexy look' as you put it.

 

[Marky]

You already know you look great with a buzz cut. Actually, I saw photos of you on another forum and you look so much better with a buzz cut than with your hair grown out. You will always be able to date no matter how old you are so that is not a true limiting belief. My mom's neighbor who is 90 is still dating. My grandfather dated until he was 90 and even carried v**** with him just in case he could convince someone his age to have sex but most of them declined. As far as your career, anything you do with an act of "paying it forward" will be enough to keep you appreciating what you do. You have alot going for you. I would gladly trade places with you any time.

The thought of senior citizens doing it is so gross to me. And we have drugs to thank for this

 

[hairblues]

After shookwun posted Dolph's picture, I googled in other pictures where he had a great many wrinkles and looked every bit his age--still gorgeous to me. It doesn't look like he's turned back the hands of time too much like some women try to do. I don't doubt male celebrities and wealthy men have cosmetic work done. I live in the suburbs. The men and women with whom I interact do not have work done. I will agree the "average working-class men" (not all) I know could take better care of their bodies, but I think their faces look just fine, some handsome, some average. Our worlds are entirely different, though.

I agree he's gorgeous in spite of his extreme wrinkles...slap those wrinkles on an average man with not so great bone structure it's not looking good. They are just going to hang with the rest of his face.

It's his bones..this is why a lot of super models aged well because bones are good.

Carol Alt is great example i saw her in person she was breathtakingly gorgeous and i am sure she has to be in her late 50s by now. Her body was flawless her face incredibly beautiful. She does not look 'done'. if she is or isn't i have no idea.

Dolph though his skin is extremely wrinkled i dont know if this is his heritage/genetics I mean my Father is 80 and does not have this many wrinkles in his face and he has spent about 5 to 6 hours outdoors for about 40 years in tropical Sun with no sunblock..so genetics has a lot to do with it.

PS no way to know if Dolph gets his neck lifted/lower face lift combo. it is possible.

 

[hairblues]

Can't tell if you're kidding. Either way here's Jeremy Clarkson who has 'quite a sexy look' as you put it.

This is what happens to a lot of men as they age...

why i dont know and i would say its similar to what happens to women in a way it probably has to do with hormonal changes.

 

[hairblues]

The thought of senior citizens doing it is so gross to me. And we have drugs to thank for this

I know its hard to take but old people are doing it and they are doing it to an extent that STDS in old age homes are on rise.

 

[cocohot]

Can't tell if you're kidding. Either way here's Jeremy Clarkson who has 'quite a sexy look' as you put it.

That's not aging that's called being an alcoholic. His arms and legs have just stayed as thin as they always were.

 

[cocohot]

You don't have to grow a baby on your body and then give birth to it. It might help a little

This is true.

 

[Marky]

I know its hard to take but old people are doing it and they are doing it to an extent that STDS in old age homes are on rise.

You think theres' alot of getting around in nursing homes?

Maybe one of my favorite priests was right - lust doesnt go away until 3 days after they bury you

 

[hairblues]

That's not aging that's called being an alcoholic. His arms and legs have just stayed as thin as they always were.

I agree thats similar to a 'sugar' gut that people get when they eat too much white carbs like bread and pasts...i think its the sugars similar to alcohol maybe..

 

[hairblues]

You think theres' alot of getting around in nursing homes?

Maybe one of my favorite priests was right - lust doesn't go away until 3 days after they bury you

I misspoke not nursing homes..the retirement homes condos. Not same thing.

nothing wrong with a little lust...

loosen up.

 

[Marky]

I misspoke not nursing homes..the retirement homes condos. Not same thing.

nothing wrong with a little lust...

loosen up.

A little lust can turn into alot like a little alcohol or drugs.

Still barf to imagine seniors going at it

 

[hairblues]

A little lust can turn into alot like a little alcohol or drugs.

Still barf to imagine seniors going at it

For a holy man you are very judgmental.

 

[Marky]

For a holy man you are very judgmental.

Im not holy but beleive its what we are striving for in life

 

[hellouser]

I've often though that one of the most challenging aspects of hair loss is the loss you have in looks. As others have said, you can take a man and judge him a 6 or 7, but if you were to take away his hair then he would become a 4 or a 5. Obviously this is devastating. The man could have dated easily in the past, but now he has lost most of his seductive power and he must now be either celibate or settle for less than desirable females.

This is, of course, quite brutal.

But it had me thinking - perhaps everyone goes through this. After all, we all age at some point. And so I had a quite search across the internet and found that women have the exact same issues. In fact, many of them found it just as devastating losing their looks with age as you men do with your hair.

They bemoan no longer getting hit on; no more flirting; no more privilege; less sex; feeling ugly etc.

So here is the thread that showed me that we go through it and that ageing (or becoming uglier) is something we all go through on a long enough time scale: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromo...iful_women_of_reddit_how_have_you_dealt_with/

They should grow a vagina, stop crying, woman up and own it.

 

[hairblues]

You might be right but most men are taking better care of themselves too so we might collectively age better than the last generation, it remains to be seen. You're definitely right about people in general aging badly not just women, but I think the big difference is in women's bodies versus mens. A man can have the same body at 65 as he had at 18 if he just never gets fat or stops working out, women it's more like 50 max.

People are better looking nowadays than they used to be because everyone is making more of an effort because it's more important, most people go to the gym and watch what they eat etc. I really don't think appearance mattered as much even a few years ago as it does now.

I'd agree there but again, the point was that it's easier for males to keep their basic shape until late in life, the same shape they had when they were 30.

Keep in mind a lot of men who are gay and older want very young men as their lovers and worship young men...

if most men age well or better than women--why do so many gay men want much younger men?

I don't know a lot of full-on lesbians but the few I do know are not chasing super young women.

 

[FootyStar]

Ageing deprives you of a second youth. Premature hairloss deprives you of your actual youth.

This so much. In fact, depending on the extent of the hair loss, it even deprives you of your very humanity.

 

[Roberto_72]

Keep in mind a lot of men who are gay and older want very young men as their lovers and worship young men...

if most men age well or better than women--why do so many gay men want much younger men?

I don't know a lot of full-on lesbians but the few I do know are not chasing super young women.

Younger men, or very cool older men. Poor George Michael's last boyfriends was 43 and they met when he was 39.

 

[Marky]

Keep in mind a lot of men who are gay and older want very young men as their lovers and worship young men...

if most men age well or better than women--why do so many gay men want much younger men?

I don't know a lot of full-on lesbians but the few I do know are not chasing super young women.

Cause gay men have pedophile predisposition too

Just checkout wavey davey on youtube, just screams I prey on teenage boys

 

[nameless]

They bemoan no longer getting hit on; no more flirting; no more privilege; less sex; feeling ugly etc.

So here is the thread that showed me that we go through it and that ageing (or becoming uglier) is something we all go through on a long enough time scale: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromo...iful_women_of_reddit_how_have_you_dealt_with/

Women do not bemoan no longer being hit on; they bemoan no longer being hit on by cute guys.

 

[nameless]

I just want to add

If the women of the age group are 18-25 now are more picky about mens looks then when i was 18-25 which it sounds like.

These women are not going to be as open on average to older men who are average looking or average pay check.

They dont sound like they are going to be 'okay' with aging men since it sounds like they are not even okay with men their age group who are average...Im going by what men here post for this..other than what is posted here i have no idea.

Lookism--is going to affect men who are aging more so in the coming years then it has in past or present.

Unless science finds a way to turn back the human aging clock.