Young Girl Mocks Uncle's Baldness - Reddit

[blackg]

Next time she comes to visit, I would put one of her dolls in the microwave.

(humor), for those wondering.

 

[EvilLocks]

And most women. That's why I can't feel sorry for balding women at all.

Not all women are the same you know, we all have different backgrounds and stories. I don't get why you judge women as a whole, instead of individuals. It's clear you hate women but have some compassion and understanding please.

 

[I.D WALKER]

I cried "Uncle"! when merciless male pattern baldness first struck. It didn't help.

 

[Saurabhaj]

If I were that uncle I would hold onto that note and specifically cite it as the reason she was left out of my will.

Haha

 

[EvilLocks]

I show women the same empathy and compassion they have shown me. That's all, I don't give a f*** about backgrounds and stories.

Don't go all Elliot Rodger now... Anyway, my point is just that not all women are the same. You can't judge every single woman as a whole unless you know every single woman personally, which you don't.

 

[EvilLocks]

Finally some honesty! The truth at last. The one and only reason why you're showing """empathy""" is because YOU are suffering from baldness, too. That's it. Otherwise you'd be out there, mocking and rejecting people like me like every other normal woman. That's why I can't feel sorry at all.

I've never mocked anyone for any reason in my life. And for your information, I've also dated a balding man BEFORE I experienced hair loss.

 

[Dante92]

I've never mocked anyone for any reason in my life. And for your information, I've also dated a balding man BEFORE I experienced hair loss.

As you say.

I'd say that's enough, I suggest we end this off-topic.

 

[EvilLocks]

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As you say.

I'd say that's enough, I suggest we end this off-topic.

Fine. There's no point in trying to sway your opinion anyway, you're too set in your I-hate-women ways anyway.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Last night, I was out to dinner with some people and showed pictures of my baby niece (~1 day old) to some people.

One of the comment from a woman aged 45 or 50: "She has more hair than Kevin".

Everyone burst out laughing at this random, spontaneous, unprompted comment.

[Kevin was the guy sitting across from me, he's NW5.5 or so, in his mid 40s I think].

That comment was basically mocking Kevin. I don't get why women do this.

 

[blackg]

That comment was basically mocking Kevin. I don't get why women do this.

Everyone at that table should thank their lucky stars (the southern cross) that Canberra doesn't have a "concealed carry" law and that Kevin was not packin' heat.

 

[Joan]

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Fine. There's no point in trying to sway your opinion anyway, you're too set in your I-hate-women ways anyway.

Have you ever wondered, though, since joining HairLossTalk.com how it would feel to be so unattractive that no guy ever looked twice at you and guys actually insulted you due to one or several aspects of your appearance over which you had no control (the latter of which has happened to me)? I have, especially since my closest friends have been males, and I don't think I'd have had their friendship if they weren't initially attracted to some physical characteristic. Maybe I'd feel like Dante and CF if I were their female version. I don't know. I'm not attempting to create another firestorm; it's just a question out of curiosity from one female to another. It's something that I think about in an attempt to understand people here better, as I do with others I know in my life who hold negative opinions about other issues.

 

[EvilLocks]

But I'm not saying his pain isn't justified, I'm just asking how he can hate all women without knowing all women. I try to understand his situation the best I can, and in return I think I deserve the same.

 

[EvilLocks]

I could say I hate all men too, because my ex-boyfriend dumped me because of hair loss. But I know this isn't true; I know good guys exist who don't care about that stuff. Just like I want Dante to know good women do exist.

 

[Joan]

I've been hurt too, EvilLocks. Mostly women have sh*t on me, though. But the fact that we can say we have exes, regardless of why they became our exes, means we were at one time found pretty and desirable and that other men have found or will find us that way too. What if we never experienced being loved or simply having casual sex because no men wanted to come near us? I am ashamed to say that I just might have a negative opinion regarding all men.

 

[Joan]

boy, women really do love a project don't they?

I'm sorry. I know I philosophize about things way too much for my own good.

 

[cocohot]

I've never mocked anyone for any reason in my life. And for your information, I've also dated a balding man BEFORE I experienced hair loss.

Well does that means Norwood 1.0001 or actually balding?

 

[EvilLocks]

Well does that means Norwood 1.0001 or actually balding?

Lol, actually balding. If we're talking about Norwood 1.0001's I've dated more than one.

 

[EvilLocks]

I was not always like this of course, but 24 years of miserable and humiliating experiences would change anyone for the worse.

I'm sorry to hear you've lived such a miserable and lonely life (truly), but just know that good people who will understand and love you do exist (I'm not talking about me). Just yesterday I met a guy I went to high school with on the bus, and this guy is both fat, short and balding. But he was with his girlfriend, a cute and normal looking girl, and they looked so in love. She couldn't stop kissing him, stroking his back and holding his hand. She was PROUD to be his girlfriend. If you just opened your eyes a little and realize not everyone is out to mock or reject you, maybe you could find a girl like that too. But only if you take a good, hard look at yourself.

 

[cocohot]

Do any of you who go to psychologists find it actually helps you? To me these things that depress me seem rational and it's the rest of the world that's insane.

 

[cocohot]

I tend to think that balding doesn't matter much to women because I spend my time almost exclusively with girls that are attracted to me.

Spending time with girls who are not attracted to me, I find it to be a waste of time. I don't have this large mixed group of friends a lot of "normal" people have.

It wasn't always that way for me. When I was 19, I hung out with a few groups like that, you know, to go out on a Friday night, to go on holidays with. People I didn't even like that much but I thought that was what you were supposed to do.

In these mixed groups, the women will often not be attracted to you at all. I know they weren't, especially since one of them had a discussion with another girl (that was outside the group) who said: "Fred is so cute!" and she replied: "What? Fred?! Oh no! Not my type at all!"

I was 19 at the time, and I seemed to have a full head of hair to the outside world. But a few months later, I was at that the house of that "friend" (with a lot of quotation marks) and I got drunk (you know, what normal people do!).

I open my eyes in the middle of the night in her living room and there she is: "Fred! You're becoming bald?!"

That's when my psychological struggle began. Girls or people who will say that kind of thing to you are not your friends. And they're not women who would ever be interested in you, but that's another story.

If I were in David's shoes, I would stop hanging out with the people who made the comment about the baby having more hair than Kevin. These people are not on your team as I often say, and they would tear you apart the first chance they get.

Hang with people who truly appreciate you, with women who are attracted to you (sometimes even despite your balding or baldness!) and you'll find life way more bearable and you'll end up happier for sure.

With all the people I'm frequently seeing now (my friends and the girls I'm dating), I could easily think "hey, baldness doesn't matter, does it?" But I would be wrong. There will always be assholes out there would will jump on your insecurities at the first occasion.

Just don't hang out with them and ignore them. But it can be hard at your workplace or when you're out at a bar for example.

People are quite nice to me at my workplace but that's because they think I shave my head. My bald colleague gets mocked practically every day.

One ability I do have is I have always been absolutely incredible at insulting people and making them a laughing stock, anyone who has tried to mention balding has never done it again. The most important thing is to not appear annoyed.