Would You Reject Someone Just Because Of Your Hair

[nameless]

I 'think' so but hair loss is very fucked up...i think it can be completely mind f*****g..up/down better/worse.

So I think i am going to hold my breadth for the next several months...IF i get regrowth for a few months..I am at least at a reprieve. And i will appreciate this. I won't take it for granted especially being here and learning as much as i learnt about hair loss on this site.

I just can not wait to hear about some of the treatments coming It just sucks that everything seems to be not more information for another year..Follicer brotzu histogen etc.

I was posting earlier how I wished Tsuji would give updates more often because that would help us stay positive. Right now it's hard to stay positive because there is no news. I think that's why I've been especially depressed the past few months.

 

[hairblues]

I was posting earlier how I wished Tsuji would give updates more often because that would help us stay positive. Right now it's hard to stay positive because there is no news. I think that's why I've been especially depressed the past few months.

its going to be a long year 2017.

 

[nameless]

its going to be a long year 2017.

Is it just me or have we really hit a dry spell in terms of information?

It's probably just me because I really only have faith in a few products to help me because I have a lot of hair loss and it's been going on for a long time. I think I'm going to need a really revolutionary treatment. I really think only Tsuji can get me out of my mess.

I think in your case there could be numerous potential treatments that might work. You could get some good news sometime next year. It only takes one good treatment to get you out of this mess. If the Italian lotion works you could be out of this mess soon.

 

[hairblues]

Is it just me or have we really hit a dry spell in terms of information?

It's probably just me because I really only have faith in a few products to help me because I have a lot of hair loss and it's been going on for a long time. I think I'm going to need a really revolutionary treatment. I really think only Tsuji can get me out of my mess.

I think in your case there could be numerous potential treatments that might work. You could get some good news sometime next year. It only takes one good treatment to get you out of this mess. If the Italian lotion works you could be out of this mess soon.

DR Cots Follercer (can't think spelling) might work for you..wont be a cure but could get you some decent regrowth if its creating new follicles. Its hard to speculate how many follicles they can make per treatment.

 

[nameless]

DR Cots Follercer (can't think spelling) might work for you..wont be a cure but could get you some decent regrowth if its creating new follicles. Its hard to speculate how many follicles they can make per treatment.

I'll keep my eyes on that treatment - Cots Follercer. I'm tired now so I'm going to bed. Thanks for talking to me today, I was feeling low but now I feel good enough to face some more time in this living hell. Again, thanks for your ear. Goodnight. And stay positive.

 

[tellersquill]

the biggest thing for me honestly is that my hair loss will effect my work life in long run.

I don't want to say what i do but its very physical and its also in a very stylish industry that works very long hours

So if i had to wear a hair piece or even powders its not very practical.

I think my only recourse would be to do a weave...which is very high maintenance.

Also I freelance and i don't want to worry about being judged on my appearance as 'sick' or whatever.

I have to have a ton of confidence to sell myself to people who entrust me to do a job that is insane hours and skill.

One whiff of self doubt--forget it..Next.

The other thing can take full on i know the person but its not what i really want to do and its very very physical and again a wig is not practical.

Dating--i don't think its that big a deal BUT i was seeing someone this summer i liked and this obsessive worry kept me from really enjoying him and allowing myself to get to know him or him me...i found i really turned him down a lot and i can NOT be with someone right now with this burden on my mind...Its too much..Its not something I want to share but its also all i can think about for now. So its hard.
Im not even talking to many friends..
Im a little reclusive right now.

Are you planning on doing this career until retirement? (because it sounds exhausting!)

 

[cocohot]

Mmm you sure about that...are you not being kind of fake right now?

I mean half the forum called out @tellersquill for being disingenuous.

You wanted a dig at me for my age as a woman.

Lets keep it real.

Yeah, you're half right, I was asking you an honest question that I knew would hurt hyour feelings. Then I felt bad about it and lied. I wasn't having a dig at you but I knew as a woman you would be sensitive about it and it might hurt your feelings, just like frank posts about baldness could hurt my feelings.

 

[rclark]

There's an old thread here at this very site wherein a balding poster complains that owing to his hair loss he can't get women anymore. Further, he also complains that the man (in his group of friends) who gets all the female action is the attractive (as in p-r-e-t-t-y) man with long blond hair and an average build. And his bitterness over women wanting his attractive friend is actually equal to his bitterness that women aren't interested in him anymore. He comes off as disgusted and full of grievance towards women because they like the attractive man with the plain build. But I give this guy credit for one thing - at least he's figured out the score.

What matters is how women would rate at man IN THE CLUBS at night where the competition takes place. In the clubs women aren't seeing tellersquill's "sexy ripped english footballer" look. He's sitting at a table drinking with friends and they're seeing him dressed (without his 8-incher hanging out) and they're assessing his appeal on the basis of things like his attractiveness from the neck up, his GENERAL body frame from the waist up, his demeanor, his interaction with her and others, his clothes, and things like this. If he rips his shirt open to show her his "sexy ripped English footballer" look most women would get turned off and if he plops out his "8-incher" to show it off to her it will shock her in a negative way.

The way to win at the clubs is to be attractive, laughing, clean, dressed well without overdressing, and happy. And you don't need to be ripped with a washboard stomach. You just need to be generally in shape. In other words, don't be significantly fat.

Any questions?

It's all in the alchohol. That's all that matters to get sex. More alchohol, + more women. Cloud their judgement.
Give them drugs/booze.

Even the hottest chick will f*** anything with enough drugs in her system!

 

[hairblues]

Yeah, you're half right, I was asking you an honest question that I knew would hurt hyour feelings. Then I felt bad about it and lied. I wasn't having a dig at you but I knew as a woman you would be sensitive about it and it might hurt your feelings, just like frank posts about baldness could hurt my feelings.

I don't hold baldness against men.


To be honest the only thing i would say is 'shallow' about me and i did not even realize it until recently is that every man i have ever had a relationship with, dated, even just had sex with has been in good shape.
I never was with anyone over weight or even 'flabby'.

I don't care that a man in the 20 30s or even 40s does not want older women that does not hurt my feelings

But when people intentionally try to 'cut me' because of my age--which is only happening 'here' that hurts my feelings.

i have younger guys who are friends and co workers they are like little brothers and no one treats me like that.

 

[hairblues]

It's all in the alchohol. That's all that matters to get sex. More alchohol, + more women. Cloud their judgement.
Give them drugs/booze.

Even the hottest chick will f*** anything with enough drugs in her system!

Pretty sure you are bordering on rape there buddy.

 

[Aaron1998]

Yep, im in a situation like this right now. I broke it off with the girl that I loved more than anything, even my family because she gets me so well and knows a lot of the stuff that is hiding deep down in my soul causing me problems. I started dating this girl when I was 16 (I'm 18) and my confidence is so shot that I can't even show myself to her anymore, I just stay in my room in isolation pretty much. She says she doesnt care about my hair, but my self esteem wont allow me to see that and truly believe it. My hair is basically causing all of the problems between us, sadly I'm just not the same mentally as the person that she fell in love with. Couple the hair loss with chronic depression since 13, anxiety, with shitty self esteem, Idk I just had to break it off because I feel like life is too short to bring her down with me. I want her to have someone better to show to her friends, she moved to a college in California and I would be embarrased for HER to have to show me off as her boyfriend. I do have good facial features and would always get attention before hair loss and still occasionally do, but it's just too early for me to have to deal with this. (Been having noticeable hairloss since 16)

 

[cocohot]

I don't hold baldness against men.

I can try to put pics of men i have been with if i can cut out faces but i feel like its disrespectful to them...one is dead i mean i can do his pic cut out his face.

Most have been lets say 'hair challenged'

Its never been a factor in my looks assessments of men.

To be honest the only thing i would say is 'shallow' about me and i did not even realize it until recently is that every man i have ever had a relationship with, dated, even just had sex with has been in good shape.
I never was with anyone over weight or even 'flabby'.

I don't care that a man in the 20 30s or even 40s does not want older women that does not hurt my feelings

But when people intentionally try to 'cut me' because of my age--which is only happening 'here' that hurts my feelings.

i have younger guys who are friends and co workers they are like little brothers and no one treats me like that.

I wasn't trying to "cut" you or insult, I just knew that even raising the topic could be insulting to a woman and that's what I'm apologising for. Because I know women are very sensitive about that and I asked you very directly about it anyway.

You sound like you are a lucky woman who has aged very well anyway from what other posters have said.

 

[hairblues]

I wasn't trying to "cut" you or insult, I just knew that even raising the topic could be insulting to a woman and that's what I'm apologising for. Because I know women are very sensitive about that and I asked you very directly about it anyway.

You sound like you are a lucky woman who has aged very well anyway from what other posters have said.

I appreciate your apology.

but i think this line was intentional to be cutting.

. Are you just bitter that men your age aren't attracted to you?

It's not about being sensitive.

 

[buckthorn]

It's all in the alchohol. That's all that matters to get sex. More alchohol, + more women. Cloud their judgement.
Give them drugs/booze.

Even the hottest chick will f*** anything with enough drugs in her system!

yes, very creepy. very rapey. who wants to have sex with a passed out girl anyways?

 

[buckthorn]

lol

you "liked" his rape post. why? it's f*****g creepy as f***.

 

[hairblues]

yes, very creepy. very rapey. who wants to have sex with a passed out girl anyways?

I hope he was being sarcastic but who the heck knows.

 

[cocohot]

I appreciate your apology.

but i think this line was intentional to be cutting.

It's not about being sensitive.

It was actually just a direct question. In general men don't like older women and women don't like short, bald or poor men, let's all just be honest here. There are lots of exceptions and lucky for you it sounds like you're one of them.

It wasn't meant to be cutting, the apology was simply because it could be perceived that way.

 

[nameless]

It's all in the alchohol. That's all that matters to get sex. More alchohol, + more women. Cloud their judgement.
Give them drugs/booze.

Even the hottest chick will f*** anything with enough drugs in her system!

Don't the courts frown on that type of behavior?

 

[hairblues]

It was actually just a direct question. In general men don't like older women and women don't like short, bald or poor men, let's all just be honest here. There are lots of exceptions and lucky for you it sounds like you're one of them.

It wasn't meant to be cutting, the apology was simply because it could be perceived that way.

saying to me when i was not even talking to you this line.

Are you just bitter that men your age aren't attracted to you?

was a dig...to purposely to get a rise.

If i said to a short guy on this forum out of the blue--
'aren't you just bitter because women are not attracted to you because you're short?"
that would be kind of a 'dick' thing for me to say to someone for no real reason.

It's not even really a question it's a passive aggressive statement.

It's not about what you are attracted to or not.

I could care less your personal preference in what you want to stick your dick into.

I care about purposely being a jerk to someone--then pretending to be just curious and innocent.

maybe you are the bitter one.

 

[rafiles]

Anyone who's seen sex and the city can refer to Charlotte and Harry. I know it's fictional but would you reject a great gal who used to date 8+ just because you're bald? Or that because she might not accept you once she knows more about you?

OK you reject her as Norwood 3, two weeks later she introduces her new boyfriend with Norwood 6. Now you are happy.