This is a big day for you, admitting a fault, even if peppered in bitterness afterwards.
Point being, you put your thoughts out on a forum for people to react, and if they react positively you lap it up, but if negative- "they're judging me! I'd never do that! I don't diagnose others! Wahhhh!" and put it on this psychological projection issue.
I'd love to always think criticism of me is completely unfounded waffle, like you do, but I just can't be quite that deluded to think I'm so perfect if anyone finds fault then it must be their fault and their own issues. Sometimes you're just wrong.
Did you have an overbearing overly encouraging mother by any chance?