seb said:
C.Forehead-I am just under 6ft 3,103k body weight.Most of it is muscle,although I am more built like a rower than a bodybuilder.Used too be more muscular when I was competing in powerlifting.I was 18st,but was carrying more fat as well.
I am a good size,but not massive by any means,but obviously compared too the average guy,coupled with the way I look,I am deemed big.Most call me big Seb(usuallly with a smirk on their face),but I find it condesending,and constantly ask people too just call me Seb.Call me paraniod,but these people are really calling me a c**t,but haven't the minerals too come out with it in simple terms.
Man, I dont get you guys (you and UM). I would love to be called "big" whatever. You guys want to be just one in the crowd.
Have you seen Human Target? The pilot starts with the following voiceover:
"Blending in...You have no idea what
it’s like, always blending in... You
forget who you are. Eventually, you
start to forget who you ever were...
They push you and push you further into
the margins. Treat you like dirt, take
away your manhood. Make you small..."
And yes, people may be condescending towards you, but thats just their insecurities. See, if you are equal to them in other respects, then overall they will inferior to you because of your size. Thus, to protect their sense of self worth, they MUST believe that since you are big, you MUST be inferior in other ways to balance it out. And since they cant figure out what these other things are, they just call you big seb.
If you try to be their equal, you will be considered inferior. The only resolution is that you must make clear your abilities, dress well, your intellect etc, ie, make yourself superior. THEN they will bow down.