Balding is a death sentence for online dating

[czecha]

Makes sense. Similar experiences when out and about. Assuming you're in the Czech Republic?

Germany
I only shaved like 1.5 years ago though and due to corona i was maybe only like 10 times in situations like that in that timeframe (social, girls there, fun etc)
However I had bdd and bad confidence and still did well lol. I could probably „slay“ irl if I had giga confidence, which I am working on

women are also starved for irl validation/experience though so maybe that plays a role

 

[jd_uk]

Germany
I only shaved like 1.5 years ago though and due to corona i was maybe only like 10 times in situations like that in that timeframe (social, girls there, fun etc)
However I had bdd and bad confidence and still did well lol. I could probably „slay“ irl if I had giga confidence, which I am working on

women are also starved for irl validation/experience though so maybe that plays a role

Which part of Germany our of interest? I think Germany may be a bit better for bald guys than the UK (based on my experiences anyway).

 

[czecha]

Which part of Germany our of interest? I think Germany may be a bit better for bald guys than the UK (based on my experiences anyway).

west
but I think east would be better actually for masc baldcels. best would be eastern europe

 

[vondoom]

thought balding is common in both countries... so should be the same for both countries...

 

[czecha]

thought balding is common in both countries... so should be the same for both countries...

i think hairline mockery is rly common in US and UK, much more so than here

 

[vondoom]

my friends back in germany are like 90% bald (choice, or fate)... none ever had any issues with dating, but nobody really used online dating as far as i know...
im in asia now and you should see what bald(ing) people end up with here... except for some rich old dudes with their sugar babies...

 

[vondoom]

i think hairline mockery is rly common in US and UK, much more so than here

ah yeah, thats possible... most of the extreme stories are always from the states... but what do you expect from people who think chris pratt/evans/hemsworth are attractive, or even standard...

 

[czecha]

my friends back in germany are like 90% bald (choice, or fate)... none ever had any issues with dating, but nobody really used online dating as far as i know...
im in asia now and you should see what bald(ing) people end up with here... except for some rich old dudes with their sugar babies...

well asians can't run masc game at all
all they have is hair

 

[vondoom]

was talking about white people...
with asians you are also a bit mistaken, they just bald later, or even way later...
though i guarantee you that a lot of people are on finasteride/dutasteride at least, i see it so often and the first thing that was sold out when the pandemic started was the minoxidil version they got here (followed by some thickening shampoo and other topicals)...

 

[Norwoodcel]

I've come full circle recently and started to believe in "Game" and approaching in real life if you're an average or above-average man. If you're ugly it's pretty much over.

I've just come back from 2 months in Mexico and Las Vegas and had some awesome experiences meeting women.

I slew some women in Mexico but that was a given because I'm a white British guy. In America, I met some cool women and they were clearly flirting with me.. I made out with a hotty in a bar

Online is garbage.. Unless you're a top Chad. Every single woman online is getting flooded and bombarded with desperate men spam messaging. Make a fake tinder of a female profile and stick an apple as your profile picture and see what happens. 99+ likes within minutes.. every single right swipe is a match etc. The sheer mathematics, demographics and algorithm make it pretty much impossible. Match group are out to make money through the most efficient means possible. Not help average joes find his girl next door.

 

[czecha]

I've come full circle recently and started to believe in "Game" and approaching in real life if you're an average or above-average man. If you're ugly it's pretty much over.

game is just being average to above average and being yourself (which ideally should be high t because you are not chad)

I've just come back from 2 months in Mexico and Las Vegas and had some awesome experiences meeting women.

I slew some women in Mexico but that was a given because I'm a white British guy. In America, I met some cool women and they were clearly flirting with me.. I made out with a hotty in a bar

slayer ngl

Online is garbage.. Unless you're a top Chad. Every single woman online is getting flooded and bombarded with desperate men spam messaging. Make a fake tinder of a female profile and stick an apple as your profile picture and see what happens. 99+ likes within minutes.. every single right swipe is a match etc. The sheer mathematics, demographics and algorithm make it pretty much impossible. Match group are out to make money through the most efficient means possible. Not help average joes find his girl next door.

tinder works for htn's with hair and nt pics. my friends are proof. you are coping hard

that being said women on tinder (so most women) are trash. product of a degenerate society

 

[vondoom]

well, as shitty as it might seem to be, if i were a woman and could bang more or less what i wanted to, when i wanted to, i would do the same...
unfortunately my slayer times are behind me^^

 

[Norwoodcel]

game is just being average to above average and being yourself (which ideally should be high t because you are not chad)

slayer ngl

tinder works for htn's with hair and nt pics. my friends are proof. you are coping hard

that being said women on tinder (so most women) are trash. product of a degenerate society

Maybe it does for younger ages.. 18-30.. I only have experience with 30+. I have friends who've used tinder and the story is the same.. - It's crap.
The hotties on Tinder are there farming attention and Instagram followers, the rest are garbage fat single mums with huge ego's and standards

 

[czecha]

Maybe it does for younger ages.. 18-30.. I only have experience with 30+. I have friends who've used tinder and the story is the same.. - It's crap.
The hotties on Tinder are there farming attention and Instagram followers, the rest are garbage fat single mums with huge ego's and standards

imagine dating roasties from tinder bro, wtf

 

[vondoom]

imagine dating roasties from tinder bro, wtf

well that one is similar here, too...
not as fat as they seem to be in the west, but most white dudes got mediocre women, or (the majority) women about ten years older... also often: women where you can see they have been part of the party scene and i dont mean that in a good way^^

 

[czecha]

i'd rather take a bullet to my head than date women in their thirties from tinder. thats as low as it gets ngl. seamaxxing is better even.

@Norwoodcel if you are avg or better EEmaxx asap and ascend

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Thats wrong tbh, males who do well in online dating have no failo. They are at lesst average in everything and above average in other things
Have no failo is no 1 rule
Some failos can be frauded online, like height
If you look frail, your out
If you are norwooded, out
Prey eyes? Out

aesthetics = societal averageness but a bit better basically
Think ryan gosling but slightly uglier. Zero halos necessary

With pics of 4 months after the transplant, I made a new profile with a fake number and changed my location to New York (I want to preserve the girls in my area for later when my hairline looks better). I have 100+ matches after a couple days..

Y'all have to find a way to brand yourselves and stand out, be the 10% that gets all the likes. Don't be like everybody else.

@Wolf Pack

 

[DoctorHouse]

With pics of 4 months after the transplant, I made a new profile with a fake number and changed my location to New York (I want to preserve the girls in my area for later when my hairline looks better). I have 100+ matches after a couple days..

Y'all have to find a way to brand yourselves and stand out, be the 10% that gets all the likes. Don't be like everybody else.

@Wolf Pack

Isn't it true when you are new on a online dating site or change your location, you get the most matches at first since you are the new kid on the block? Hopefully some day you will post your result. I always like to see good results and from what you are saying, you got them.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Isn't it true when you are new on a online dating site or change your location, you get the most matches at first since you are the new kid on the block? Hopefully some day you will post your result. I always like to see good results and from what you are saying, you got them.

When Tinder detects you as new yes, location - no not anymore I think, they changed it since they realized people abuse it. But there's levels to it. I've used the same device for Tinder before so I doubt the system detected me as a completely new user. I'm sure their code is very advanced and complex by now though, and they have a secret "attractiveness" score for every person. And if you do amazingly, apparently you get invited to the secret Tinder which celebs use. Our world is very pathetic, isn't it?

I will upload my result when I hit the 6 month mark.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

And I believe that their company as well as Instagram, Facebook, etc.. definitely have some secret information on what traits make the person attractive/popular, and the opposite.