Balding is a death sentence for online dating

[vondoom]

And I believe that their company as well as Instagram, Facebook, etc.. definitely have some secret information on what traits make the person attractive/popular, and the opposite.

hair, jaw, strong bones...
we got that “knowledge” in like every thread here^^

im honestly more interested in how often those traits change...
like for example what people think is thicc, or however they call it, used to be fat when you think about how popular super skinny was (and i still think like that)... or for how long beards havent been considered attractive, now everyone has to have the standard
beard to be considered attractive...

 

[justinbieberscombover]

hair, jaw, strong bones...
we got that “knowledge” in like every thread here^^

im honestly more interested in how often those traits change...
like for example what people think is thicc, or however they call it, used to be fat when you think about how popular super skinny was (and i still think like that)... or for how long beards havent been considered attractive, now everyone has to have the standard
beard to be considered attractive...

I don't think jaw and facial bones are as crucial as people think for online dating.. rather ratios, symmetry, eye and mouth shape, smile. Outgoing features.

 

[vondoom]

I don't think jaw and facial bones are as crucial as people think for online dating.. rather ratios, symmetry, eye and mouth shape, smile. Outgoing features.

lol yeah, me neither...
im quite sure that being reasonable good looking goes a long way already... of course depends on what you swipe...
a lot of people complain about getting no matches, but im sure they just swipe on women that are ten times above their level and dont swipe right on women who would actually even date them...
i mean i didnt get matches either, but that might also have been my own fault for not swiping on women who swiped me right... youll never know...

what men consider attractive about themselves is also to consider, most pictures i see on social media, the only thing i think is “cringe”, or “gay”... and i wouldnt be suprised if a lot of women are put of by that either...

 

[justinbieberscombover]

lol yeah, me neither...
im quite sure that being reasonable good looking goes a long way already... of course depends on what you swipe...
a lot of people complain about getting no matches, but im sure they just swipe on women that are ten times above their level and dont swipe right on women who would actually even date them...
i mean i didnt get matches either, but that might also have been my own fault for not swiping on women who swiped me right... youll never know...

what men consider attractive about themselves is also to consider, most pictures i see on social media, the only thing i think is “cringe”, or “gay”... and i wouldnt be suprised if a lot of women are put of by that either...

Yeah bro this is very true, that's what I meant when I said be better than the 90%. Sure we have no control over our facial structure, but how we present ourselves can still carry us a long way. Most of the extremely good looking women will never swipe back anyway, they are there to promote their Instagram.. but with some work I believe that a lot of guys can have consistent success with women in the 7-8/10 range.

 

[yurguardianangel]

Online is great for random fun though!
More random people have taken a liking to me since I worn the hair system online...
Whereas before random people when I was shaved bald skipped over me like I was nobody...
As in likes,compliments, Skype cam fun even sometimes etc...

I might experiment with femboy pics to get even more people to like me!

 

[JaneyElizabeth]

Yeah bro this is very true, that's what I meant when I said be better than the 90%. Sure we have no control over our facial structure, but how we present ourselves can still carry us a long way. Most of the extremely good looking women will never swipe back anyway, they are there to promote their Instagram.. but with some work I believe that a lot of guys can have consistent success with women in the 7-8/10 range.

Estrogen provides some control over facial structure and generally small deviations towards a female/juvenile facial structure are seen as improvements in attractiveness. Some will also see a narrowing of the face and changes around the eyes. Since men in general are ugly, this makes sense. I was such a sought after commodity at 17 and by 20, I had an incipient bald spot and lost all of my confidence, well which didn't even matter before because the girls came to me. Being attractive is the overall goal of having more hair and I have seen 'fros like Larry David's and Son of Sam's that would have looked better bald. Larry, this doesn't work, doing the Bozo imitation:

 

[vondoom]

Yeah bro this is very true, that's what I meant when I said be better than the 90%. Sure we have no control over our facial structure, but how we present ourselves can still carry us a long way. Most of the extremely good looking women will never swipe back anyway, they are there to promote their Instagram.. but with some work I believe that a lot of guys can have consistent success with women in the 7-8/10 range.

yeah that is the same here... most are just there for attention and see how
many likes they get, my coworkers used tinder and they outright said “no way im going to meet anyone from there, dudes are ugly, creepy and pathetic”...

the insta promotion usually backfires... usually when there was some good looking woman and she had her insta in her bio, i lost all attraction after checking that... stupid travel pics, filter/photoshop, showing off wealth they most likely dont have and so on...

 

[Notdifferent]

Estrogen provides some control over facial structure and generally small deviations towards a female/juvenile facial structure are seen as improvements in attractiveness. Some will also see a narrowing of the face and changes around the eyes. Since men in general are ugly, this makes sense. I was such a sought after commodity at 17 and by 20, I had an incipient bald spot and lost all of my confidence, well which didn't even matter before because the girls came to me. Being attractive is the overall goal of having more hair and I have seen 'fros like Larry David's and Son of Sam's that would have looked better bald. Larry, this doesn't work, doing the Bozo imitation:

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I think that looks cool. How old was Larry in this pic?

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Lol Tinder banned me. And there my little adventure is over. Actually feel bad for all the girls who will think I unmatched them.

 

[BurningCoals]

Lol Tinder banned me.

Why did they do that, did you leave nothing for the rest of the users lol

 

[vondoom]

dont feel bad, most likely they wont even notice...

 

[disfiguredyoungman]

Lol Tinder banned me. And there my little adventure is over. Actually feel bad for all the girls who will think I unmatched them.

lmao you are a piece of work.

 

[Norwoodcel]

Let's get real guys...

If you have to even use these garbage apps to meet a woman.. it's over.

Game. set. match.

 

[justinbieberscombover]

Let's get real guys...

If you have to even use these garbage apps to meet a woman.. it's over.

Game. set. match.

bLaCkPiLl

iT's OvEr

 

[Norwoody]

musd haf teh whimmen

 

[Norwoodcel]

bLaCkPiLl

iT's OvEr

It's definitely over when you have 1973 posts on a balding forum

 

[justinbieberscombover]

It's definitely over when you have 1973 posts on a balding forum

What do you mean "it's definitely over"? Care to elaborate?

 

[randolf_faust]

my friends back in germany are like 90% bald (choice, or fate)... none ever had any issues with dating, but nobody really used online dating as far as i know...
im in asia now and you should see what bald(ing) people end up with here... except for some rich old dudes with their sugar babies...

because balding is very rare in asia

 

[Norwoody]

Gunners up again? lol

 

[Diffused_confidence]

because balding is very rare in asia

I heard in asian countries it is heavily stigmatized and you can't even get a job as a bald man. But I also read there is an increase in the rate of balding in younger citizens so that's why there is a lot more effort going into finding treatments.