Joe you're probably the youngest guy in the thread, and what we're saying must seem like medieval male chauvinism to you. But it's the truth, although the truth is, as usual, the opposite of the celebrated social narrative, and when you get your soul-pulverizing lessons from the school of life it will all make sense. I'm 27 myself, and a year or two ago I would've punched my own face in for thinking like this. But experience must win over self-delusion.