ali777 said:Eureka said:Attractive is such a subjective term. One that we have turned into a very narrow minded margin.
Obviously double d's and 6 packs are not the keys to happiness.
Exactly..... We all have different likes and dislikes.
Statistics show couples that get together based on attraction and love are more likely to get divorced. Most of us in this forum keep repeating that being shallow or seeking a girl based on looks only is not good, yet CCS doesn't listen.
I really wonder what CCS' understanding of hot and average is. Someone 29 should have stumbled across at least one average girl... I find that hard to understand.
CCS said:s.a.f said:CCS said:And I'm annoyed at SAF for implying I just want to go around banging 20 year olds. He just loves taking stuff to far extremes rather than addressing what I actually say.
What?!
You've said it yourself, you dont want an average woman. You want the kind of young girls from your campus.
If I do take examples to extremes its because I'm trying to show you how other people see your views and shock you into normality.
Colin297 said:WHo the hell wants to be with an insecure pussy who is worried because his nose isnt as straight at the good looking guy over there?
This is completly true, lets say for example CCS does hook up with a hot chick how long is it going to last? Girls want someone who is going to be fun to be around.
A few scenario's:
Hot chick " Its friday night lets meet some freinds for a few drinks"
CCS " No way I cant drink its a waste of money and it ages you, anyway I have to get some rest tonight because I want to workout tommorrow. If you really loved me you would'nt keep asking me to take you out for meals. "
Hot chick " OK we'll just stay in and get a takeaway"
CCS " No way I've got my abs to think about, I'm just going to have some canned Mackeral and beans"
Hot Chick " I was thinking we should go on vacation together this summer, how about somewhere in Europe"
CCS " No way I cant waste money on holidays, I'm saving up for BHT, if you want a vacation you can come with me to India when I go to get it done. Anyway I dont like to get too much sun it ages your face ".
Hot chick : "This apartment is a mess, it needs refurnishing"
CCS "I'm not wasting money on furnishings when I've still got bodyhair that needs lasering" (CCS then goes into the bathroom for 45mins to perform his secret wig maintenaince).
And finally:
Hot Chick "CCS I'm leaving you, we never have any fun and you wont do anything because you're obbsessed about your looks, infact for the past month I've been seeing the guy next door whenever you were at the gym"
CCS "what!?! he's at least 10lbs overweight and he's a NW2.5, he's only a 7.3, I'm a 7.7"!
Hot Chick " Yeah but at least he knows how to treat a woman"
CCS " You gold digging b**ch I brought you 4 meals it cost me $37!"
"I know the real reason its because of my big pores is'nt it?" "Well you just wait until I get my facial skin lotion, and this time next year I'll have 15 inch biceps and you'll be begging me to take you back."
life is so much easier for people who are naturally good looking and don't have to work for it and have years to go before they would start showing signs of aging. That is why it is hard for me to date even average looking women. Most of them blow their money on immediate fun stuff, and don't plan to save for anything.
One thing I did learn about dating, from experience, is you need to date someone who sleeps as much as you do, and at the same time you do. This one girl sleep 4 hours per night and needed my attention the rest of the time. I enjoyed giving her attention, but she wore me out in just 48 hours of me not getting sleep. And when I did sleep, she wanted me to cuddle her the whole time, which cut off circulation in my arm. Cuddling was fun, but I was exhausted the next day and happy to go home and see her later.
ClayShaw said:I think all those saying that looks don't matter are correct to a certain extent, and CCS is correct to a certain extent. Yes, women are interested in things beyond looks. I know a guy girls think is hot, but no women I know would date him because he's kind of a douche, treats women like crap, and brags about his conquests to anyone who will listen. I know a bald guy, and Norwood 4 or so, who has an attractive girlfriend (not hot, but certainly pretty enough), who is also very smart.
I think in the end, you can't get by on looks alone, and you can't get by on personality alone. If you're going to be in a sexual relationship with someone, there has to be a certain amount of physical attraction, or it won't work. At the same time, relationships based solely on physical attraction will not work. There has to be a balance between compatibility and attraction.
:roll:CCS said:And age does not matter either. Just what you look like. Take a 40 year old who looks like a hot 20 year old,
s.a.f said::roll:CCS said:And age does not matter either. Just what you look like. Take a 40 year old who looks like a hot 20 year old,
More pearls of wisdom from the worlds least successful 'expert'.
Freedom Coder said:[quote="s.a.f":z6f6599l]:roll:CCS said:And age does not matter either. Just what you look like. Take a 40 year old who looks like a hot 20 year old,
More pearls of wisdom from the worlds least successful 'expert'.
s.a.f said:f*ck me I have'nt got that much time. :woot:
How about I just point out all the imperfect guys out there who are'nt 30 yr old virgins and get girlfreinds without resorting to every kind of cosmetic beauty treatment.
ali777 said:The problem is that there millions, maybe billions of girls having exactly the same conversation in their bedrooms. Maybe they are more concerned with men not being emotionally developed, but they are still talking about how they aren't good looking enough, that they have a few extra pounds of fat around the hips, etc....
I'm trying to say that both sexes have insecurities. Instead of theorising about it, go out and meet someone and give her a chance. I'm pretty sure she will give you a chance... All those girls are waiting for someone to pay some attention to them, and that's what you should do. Pay some attention to her, and the rest is easy...........
Smooth said:CCS is like a cat that wants to be a tiger, I belive that deep inside hes having this dream that only a few men gets to live, being a babe-magnet, but that wont ever happend, two reasons:
A) CCS (like most normal men) doesnt have a model like looks, and thats ok, but you have to accpet that, you can change into a hot (like that 44yo) but it takes a huge deal of effort, time, money and steroids.
smooth said:B)Attitdue, you have to be a basterd (im sorry to say, but thats the truth) a "bad boy".. and all that sh*t, and you are not, your a good quality guy and although i know CCS only from posts on this forum, i cant belive he can actually hurt a girl (eg; f*ck her and tell her to f*ck off!).
Exactly most women are'nt as gullible as men they wont stand for a less than equal relationship. I think as men we actually have it easier than women when it comes to finding a good partner.smooth said:For a "regular" guy it is possilble to find an extreamly good looking partner, but not nearly as often and as fast as the model-badboys...you need to accept the fact that you might never be like that, and MOVE ON (!) with your life, always say that you pospone socialyzing untill finished hair remova/fixing hair line have muscle and all that sh*t, throwing the best years waiting!! CCS your 30yo stop waiting ! WAKE UP!! your dick will commit suicide if you wont get him some ponnany! and yeah... you HAVE to spend money on dinners even if your extreamly hot! dont expect your date to pay for herself dude, she will think your some sort of cheap basterd and thats probebly the no1 turn-off in womens mind!
s.a.f said:f*ck me I have'nt got that much time. :woot:
How about I just point out all the imperfect guys out there who are'nt 30 yr old virgins and get girlfreinds without resorting to every kind of cosmetic beauty treatment.
Freedom Coder said:[quote="s.a.f":37lbr01y]f*ck me I have'nt got that much time. :woot:
How about I just point out all the imperfect guys out there who are'nt 30 yr old virgins and get girlfreinds without resorting to every kind of cosmetic beauty treatment.
Freedom Coder said:Yes, but I'd point out all the guys who want really hot chicks, but eventually learn to accept getting second rate plane Janes. CCS refuses to settle. Good for him. I respect that a hell of a lot more than I do some loser who just takes what they can get. Women also respect this - a guy fighting against the mainstream and refusing to conform to society's norms is attractive to women.
Freedomcoder" said:Note the amount of notoriety CCS has gained on this web forum. He is literally famous in the little universe that is this forum. He just needs to learn to project that larger-than-life persona in real life. That is, imo, a far better option than to go against his instincts and pander, like so many people on here suggest he do. That is weak, no one respects that. I'm advising the complete opposite - he needs to keep doing what his instincts are telling him, but just more of it, louder, and more eccentric.
CCS, in real life do you come across as confident and outgoing? Or are you shy and reserved, and let loose on the internet to release your feelings? If it is the latter, then what you need to do is communicate in real life exactly the way you do on here - be brutally honest with women, say the kind of sh*t you say that might offend them, talk about your cynical theories, etc, etc, etc. It is pure gold, and chicks will love it.