Confidence And Charisma More Important Than Hair?

[hairblues]

My girlfriend orgasms every time and I'm not doing sh*t, I'm just on my f*****g back.

She always asks me if she can c*m and I always have to tell her to hold it otherwise she gets too sensitive and well, I'll surely be jerking off then.

I've been with 31 different girls, and here too, it's just black or white. There were the ones I could make c*m without doing much, and others that came once in a blue moon despite me trying to perform like a pornstar.

So I don't actually think you can become "good in bed" either, it depends on the girl, whether she can c*m fast, and whether she's really turned on by your looks or not.

There's a reason we don't have a universal manual on how to be good in bed. Just like there is no manual on how to seduce women that works. You can't teach something that's mostly about compatibility between two people.

Your GF comes every time you just lay there and she's on top of you...every time. LOL

Sorry i smell bullshit.

Either that or she's great at her kegel exercises and knows how to fake milking you and she's a great actress.

Why do you guys listen to him its comical.

fuckign 30 women does not make you good in bed. and it definitely does not make you an authority on how women think feel or biologically function.

 

[Dante92]

These last pages are depressing as f***.

 

[hairblues]

Of course you can get better with positions, lasting longer and working your tongue, but haven't you learned that some women can simply c*m from you just sticking it in. Has nothing to do with how you rode her, and how dirty you talked. All LOOKS bro. Some women simply get off faster then others. building up tension, good fore play before hand can help loads in determining how fast a women gets off to

Even when I was a lazy lay, type of guy who busts and is done for the remainder.. I still could make a girl orgasm by simple movements.

don't be in denial of your 'skill set' determining any of this.

However I do feel that women who have trouble getting aroused, wet and reaching orgasm probably watch to much pornography.




Depends. Could be aggressively watching pornography for release. Which will not make you crave or care much about what you were missing out on.

I doubt your just laying there the way you talked in past i think you warming them up and yo probably know how to move your dick.

 

[buckthorn]

Thank you, Fred, I appreciate that a lot.

Exactly, I don't hate women, but the opposite is painfully true. Obviously nobody supports me, I can only shut up and "man up" or be judged by white-knights such as bucktorn if I dare to complain. Getting some support once in a while feels good.

I have supported you as much as I have given you sh*t. The only reason I have given you sh*t is because you do, indeed, talk down about ALL women. that's just not fair man. there are many women that are in the SAME situation as you, only with guys. They are ugly and discredited by society and treated like sh*t by men. so... you're just a simple hypocrit.

 

[hellouser]

These last pages are depressing as f***.

I agree, reality sucks.

 

[tellersquill]

I have supported you as much as I have given you sh*t. The only reason I have given you sh*t is because you do, indeed, talk down about ALL women. that's just not fair man. there are many women that are in the SAME situation as you, only with guys. They are ugly and discredited by society and treated like sh*t by men. so... you're just a simple hypocrit.

Agreed.

I can never hate women - I was raised by a single mum. If anything I should hate men as they were the ones who've let me down throughout my life. The women were loyal.

 

[hairblues]

Of course you can get better with positions, lasting longer and working your tongue, but haven't you learned that some women can simply c*m from you just sticking it in. Has nothing to do with how you rode her, and how dirty you talked. All LOOKS bro. Some women simply get off faster then others. building up tension, good fore play before hand can help loads in determining how fast a women gets off to

Even when I was a lazy lay, type of guy who busts and is done for the remainder.. I still could make a girl orgasm by simple movements.

don't be in denial of your 'skill set' determining any of this.

However I do feel that women who have trouble getting aroused, wet and reaching orgasm probably watch to much pornography.




Depends. Could be aggressively watching pornography for release. Which will not make you crave or care much about what you were missing out on.

when i say skill set i just mean beyond physical attraction...If not an attraction skills dont matter because no one wants to be touched by someone not attracted too...BUT once your attracted to one another being good in bed together is definitely a factor in staying together.

If a girl sucks at oral and a man has a particular preference for oral--i dont care how equal in all other areas-they should NOT be together.

 

[hellouser]

I have supported you as much as I have given you sh*t. The only reason I have given you sh*t is because you do, indeed, talk down about ALL women. that's just not fair man. there are many women that are in the SAME situation as you, only with guys. They are ugly and discredited by society and treated like sh*t by men. so... you're just a simple hypocrit.

But think about it this way; if he WAS a woman, he'd be making the same complaints. The reason why we b**ch about the downfalls of women is because we WANT them in our lives but have to jump through hoops in order to do so. Now if any one of us was gay, i'm sure those complaints WOULD be about men.

 

[hairblues]

But think about it this way; if he WAS a woman, he'd be making the same complaints. The reason why we b**ch about the downfalls of women is because we WANT them in our lives but have to jump through hoops in order to do so. Now if any one of us was gay, i'm sure those complaints WOULD be about men.

Smartest thing said on this site.

 

[buckthorn]

But think about it this way; if he WAS a woman, he'd be making the same complaints. The reason why we b**ch about the downfalls of women is because we WANT them in our lives but have to jump through hoops in order to do so. Now if any one of us was gay, i'm sure those complaints WOULD be about men.

what? I think I understand... but, why should there be no rebuttal, in either scenario, to hating an entire sex based on personal experience. He can call me a white knight if he wants, but if I HATE women saying things like, "all men are pigs" and this and that... and on facebook, or any social outlet, I dispute this crap as well. So WHY am I looked down upon for questioning him?

 

[hairblues]

what? I think I understand... but, why should there be no rebuttal, in either scenario, to hating an entire sex based on personal experience. He can call me a white knight if he wants, but if I HATE women saying things like, "all men are pigs" and this and that... and on facebook, or any social outlet, I dispute this crap as well. So WHY am I looked down upon for questioning him?

Your not wrong for calling him out..

I have friends who have been brutalized by men physically..i had two friends killed by men..i have had several raped by men..
I never blamed 'men' for this horrible acts..i blamed those individuals who committed the acts.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Your not wrong for calling him out..

I have friends who have been brutalized by men physically..i had two friends killed by men..i have had several raped by men..
I never blamed 'men' for this horrible acts..i blamed those individuals.

Who, what do you blame?

 

[hairblues]

Who, what do you blame?

Huh?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Huh?

For the awful events you mentioned.

 

[hairblues]

For the awful events you mentioned.

i wrote it there---i blame the individuals.

 

[hellouser]

what? I think I understand... but, why should there be no rebuttal, in either scenario, to hating an entire sex based on personal experience. He can call me a white knight if he wants, but if I HATE women saying things like, "all men are pigs" and this and that... and on facebook, or any social outlet, I dispute this crap as well. So WHY am I looked down upon for questioning him?

Well I don't think any guy can really hate absolutely all women. I make these kinds of statements myself all the time where things come off as blanket statements but really it's just easier saying it that way to blow off steam. So, yeah I get it saying 'women suck' when you're pissed about a certain thing about them, but any reasonably rational thinking person will come back and say 'yeah, not all women'.

 

[blackg]

I interact OK with them whenever I need to. With attractive or no (I avoid to speak with fatties since I have a weird phobia they will rape me, they always look like they plot something maybe they just hungry all the time idk).
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I think you need to see a psychiatrist.

 

[Joan]

Yes, but it doesn't change the fact that it's a sample of three (four if we include you). I also think your hair loss might affect your post-hoc interpretations of your relationships with the bald men.

Likely the bald men you dated would be a self-selecting sample of guys who pulled off the look and were able to remain attractive. For many guys this will not be the case.

And either way, it's not like all women are repulsed by baldness. My point was that a majority seem to be. Otherwise, why would we have A/B experiments with hair systems on dating sites where a guy gets zero responses without hair and a 90% response rate with? Why does my current partner tell me that she left-swiped all bald men without exceptions?

I was never asked out by a bald man in my youth, so I'm just wondering in what way hair loss might affect hairblues' post-hoc interpretations (I'm not sure if EL dated the bald guy before her hair loss started).

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

@hairblues, what's the approximate threshold at which you consider a man "overweight"?

It's most likely true that "huskier" men aka men with more masculine bone structure can aesthetically support a higher body fat percentage.

 

[hairblues]

@hairblues, what's the approximate threshold at which you consider a man "overweight"?

It's most likely true that "huskier" men aka men with more masculine bone structure can aesthetically support a higher body fat percentage.

you know its similar to the way i look at women its a lot about body fram and height and for women hip to waist ratio

I mean i dont know for sure with men a soft pot belly is fine...but some men put on weight and it starts to make the body feminine..some women put on weight and it makes body masculine...its weird

Im a classical realists artist by hobby--i studied on and off for years..and I'm very particular with form and proportion.

For instance i equally dont like men who are over pumped up with muscles if their frame can not handle it because the male form gets distorted.