Baldingat188
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Also Fred that is encouraging to hear going bald wasn't as bad as you thought , but I have a weird head shape so I really feel like I need my hair to be decent looking
That explains thingsI wasn't finished, read the rest of my post .
As I've explained, the fear of being bald is worse, way worse than being bald itself.
Of course we all need hair.
I've pretty much accepted my current situation: thin NW2.5 with a nearly bald crown.
What I would never have accepted: slick bald NW6, which is what I'm supposed to look like without my hair transplant.
I have a huge head, the doctor that delivered me said it was the biggest she had seen in her career.
And it's true, it's huge, and without that thin veil of hair my transplant gives me, I would look like Megamind.
I hope you can find a solution that works for you, don't forget that you have the luck to be only 18 now.
Ah, we've covered this many, many times before.
@DoctorHouse ?
Fun fact: the whole time I was in psychiatry, I was not even bald.
No, you are correct.I wasn't trying to take a jab at older guys with hairloss , I'm just saying thin hair on a 50 year old looks a bit more natural . I'm afraid if a girl sees my hair now she wouldn't give me a chance because she would assume if the balding already started at 18 I'm f*cked. And she would be right
He is white, 6'2 and a full head.
He looked pretty much like the guy on the right in this video (but with rotten teeth):
Does your opinion still stand? Could you 'make it' looking like this guy?
I'm afraid if a girl sees my hair now she wouldn't give me a chance because she would assume if the balding already started at 18 I'm f*cked. And she would be right
That is like your stock standard looking white guy. With a better haircut and no glasses I don't see how its not possible for someone to look like that to get a sub 5 to 5 gf which is what the guy desires (with the caveat he is in shape and has good teeth). Everything just looks normal. None of his features stick out as ugly other than his goofy smile and dumb and dumber haircut.
Not this guy again!
nerd with stubble > bald beast
Don't worry, she'll just assume you're in your late 20's minimum.
Sorry, trying to make light of a dark situation ey?
what the hell why is life so unfair
Yesterday my 31 year old friend told me that he had never had sex with someone besides prostitutes. He told me that more than anything he wanted a relationship and to hopefully get married some day.
His problems are a little extensive but I will try to list them below.
Cons: 100lbs overweight, rotten teeth, not a great face, recovering alcoholic. slightly ginger.
Pros: Hugely intelligent, a full head, 6ft 2, well educated.
As he is now he is probably a 3 or maybe a 4, but if he lost some weight and improved his teeth he was easily be a 5.
He came to be for advice because he knows I've slept around in the past and I was honest enough to tell him that everyones experiences will differ. I asked him what his expecations was, did he hope to sleep with stunners, and he told me that he has very low standards but he is afraid of rejection.
My advice, which was not great, was to go on tinder, get some good pictures, and just play the numbers game. But the thing is, this works for me, but i'm not sure it will work for him.
Anyway, what should I have told him?
I really want to give him better advice next time - I just didn't want to depress him with too much red pill stuff because he is in recovery.
(will share an image of him in PM but not on here)
The only thing that makes life unfair is the delusion that it should be fair.
Just be the second guy and you're good.
I'd be interested to see how this guy looks like too.
I won't share the picture of course.
Just warn me if it could make me recoil from my screen.
I think he looks alright even now, based on the pics. A haircut and combing it right, fashion that suits him, and some measure of charisma, sure some girls could fall for him. If his teeth are yellow he could use whitestrips or similar and have white teeth in a few days, I dont think dental work is essential. Doing these things would work wonders. He could date girls that look normal and are good and smart people, assuming as you said that hes a good and smart person.