Do you want to have kids?

[swingline747]

John Stamos, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, and Rob Lowe all look good in their 50's even if they are getting some cosmetic help. What do they all have in common? Lots of hair. Its hair that makes you look younger in some perspective. These guys can grab women half their age simply because they are celebrities. If swingline was a celebrity he would clean up too even with his current situation. Moral of the story. Its what you make of yourself that really counts. When you tell a woman you are a doctor, you see their eyes light up. You tell her your a cashier at Walmart, you see her eyes dim with disappointment.

can I be a cashier at walmart and STILL say Im a doctor?

 

[marco75]

John Stamos, Brad Pitt, Tom Cruise, and Rob Lowe all look good in their 50's even if they are getting some cosmetic help. What do they all have in common? Lots of hair. Its hair that makes you look younger in some perspective. These guys can grab women half their age simply because they are celebrities. If swingline was a celebrity he would clean up too even with his current situation. Moral of the story. Its what you make of yourself that really counts. When you tell a woman you are a doctor, you see their eyes light up. You tell her your a cashier at Walmart, you see her eyes dim with disappointment.

I agree with most by what about Bruce Willis, Stratham who is banging one of the best looking etc?

 

[EvilLocks]

A natural beauty, not overdone. You have good taste in women.

Wolf Pack is like HairLossTalk.com's beauty expert lol

 

[Wolf Pack]

Wolf Pack is like HairLossTalk.com's beauty expert lol

Haha. I don't know what I did to get that comment from you and Joan, just being myself I'm really glad this site has some girls, otherwise whose beauty could we assess :hump: On a serious note, you and Joan are valuable members on here for many reasons.

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I agree with most by what about Bruce Willis, Stratham who is banging one of the best looking etc?

They are celebs, who they sleep with is irrelevant. Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt look a million times better. They are classically handsome. If all were regular guys these two would be much ahead in terms of creating instant attraction.

 

[marco75]

Haha. I don't know what I did to get that comment from you and Joan, just being myself I'm really glad this site has some girls, otherwise whose beauty could we assess :hump: On a serious note, you and Joan are valuable members on here for many reasons.

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They are celebs, who they sleep with is irrelevant. Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt look a million times better. They are classically handsome. If all were regular guys these two would be much ahead in terms of creating instant attraction.

You sure you aren't a woman, never known a guy more obsessed about theirs and others looks, and a so bitchy, otherwise you are a raving homo hahah. No offence, I saw you posting about gays giving blowjobs.

Anyway I'm outta here this place is awful no wonder all the good posters left. Bet most posters are sockies.

 

[EvilLocks]

Haha. I don't know what I did to get that comment from you and Joan, just being myself I'm really glad this site has some girls, otherwise whose beauty could we assess :hump: On a serious note, you and Joan are valuable members on here for many reasons.

Thanks, I'm glad you think so I know some members here may be intimidated by female presence on a male forum, but good to hear not everybody shares that point of view.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Haha. I don't know what I did to get that comment from you and Joan, just being myself I'm really glad this site has some girls, otherwise whose beauty could we assess :hump: On a serious note, you and Joan are valuable members on here for many reasons.

Yes their special presence is more positive proof that we (bald(ing)men have not been entirely forsaken. Absolutely two beautiful assets who are a double blessing for this community.

 

[Abu Hairy Al-Forhedi]

I must agree. The presence of this girl is keeping my morale up!

 

[Joan]

Thanks, Wolf Pack and I.D Walker. I've said this before: You're both so good for my self-esteem.

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I must agree. The presence of this girl is keeping my morale up!

EvilLocks, you have quite a fan club here, so you better not even be serious about leaving! Also, glad to see you changed your quote and got rid of that "genetic train wreck" nonsense.

 

[Wolf Pack]

You sure you aren't a woman, never known a guy more obsessed about theirs and others looks, and a so bitchy, otherwise you are a raving homo hahah. No offence, I saw you posting about gays giving blowjobs.

Anyway I'm outta here this place is awful no wonder all the good posters left. Bet most posters are sockies.

If you look at who started that convo about gays giving blowjobs, it wasn't me, I just joined in. And so what if I talked about it or anyone's looks? It shows I am comfortable with my straight sexuality, my identity and my looks. Everything you have said has been plainly false about me: working class, homo now, what else? You like having digs at me and I never respond in kind. So you're the one who is bitchy and female, ironically.

I picked up your vibe and issues in your first posts, was very easy for me. I just didn't say what I see, more fun that way

I'm not going to bother insulting you because it seems like you are angry with yourself/life more than anything, hence lashing out. Insulting gay people is also not cool. They do say those most homophobic are well you know...

It's a shame really. You are like over a decade older than me and very immature/insecure - to the point where you attempt to run others down. Laughable. They say complete baldness is a sign of maturity, well you certainly went against that theory. Yes it's probably best you leave otherwise it seems you may blow your head off.

I know you're on Tinder and your wife left you, perhaps some introspection is due before pulling others down? Man up and suck up reality. Real men don't cry: they deal with stuff and move on.

I'm sorry for saying I don't think Bruce Wilis is as good looking as Tom Cruise/Brad Pitt :freak:

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Thanks, I'm glad you think so I know some members here may be intimidated by female presence on a male forum, but good to hear not everybody shares that point of view.

I definitely don't. Most guys like the fact there is different genders and view points on here.

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EvilLocks, you have quite a fan club here, so you better not even be serious about leaving! Also, glad to see you changed your quote and got rid of that "genetic train wreck" nonsense.

You both have a fan club

 

[DoctorHouse]

You sure you aren't a woman, never known a guy more obsessed about theirs and others looks, and a so bitchy, otherwise you are a raving homo hahah. No offence, I saw you posting about gays giving blowjobs.

Anyway I'm outta here this place is awful no wonder all the good posters left. Bet most posters are sockies.

Just curious Marco, what do you expect to get out of a bunch of guys who hate losing their hair and think all their failures have to do with starting to lose their hair? This forum is for men to vent about anything whether they are gay or straight. And ever other thread makes some reference to "looks". If you looking for some break thru in hair treatments, don't hold your breath. The big 3 is all you need and if it fails get a transplant or live with it. So my question again, is what do expect from this forum?

 

[EvilLocks]

EvilLocks, you have quite a fan club here, so you better not even be serious about leaving! Also, glad to see you changed your quote and got rid of that "genetic train wreck" nonsense.

I'll stay as long as I feel there is a place for me here, and that I get something out of posting. I've said before that HairLossTalk.com is like therapy for me, and as long as writing here gives me that feeling I'll keep posting. But it's no secret that I miss some of the classic posters.

And yeah felt like I needed a new signature, even though I still think I'm a genetic trainwreck. I don't really have any problems with my looks except the hair loss part, but I suffer from a number of other health issues which is why I put that "genetic trainwreck" signature in the first place.

 

[swingline747]

I'll stay as long as I feel there is a place for me here, and that I get something out of posting. I've said before that HairLossTalk.com is like therapy for me, and as long as writing here gives me that feeling I'll keep posting. But it's no secret that I miss some of the classic posters.

And yeah felt like I needed a new signature, even though I still think I'm a genetic trainwreck. I don't really have any problems with my looks except the hair loss part, but I suffer from a number of other health issues which is why I put that "genetic trainwreck" signature in the first place.

wonder if I put a pic up of the neck down if "I'D" garner this much attention?!
Maybe in a different thread lol

 

[EvilLocks]

wonder if I put a pic up of the neck down if "I'D" garner this much attention?!
Maybe in a different thread lol

Do you have a problem with my avatar?

 

[Rudiger]

So is saying this supposed to mean something? Is it supposed to make YOU sound smarter than me? Ah, I dont like your POV so you are HIGH! Is it supposed to achieve the result of calling someone a "racist" during a debate. Am I now supposed to defend not "being high" over debating you?




So you think every example I posted is relegated to me personally, kudos to you for not viewing the obvious and trying to make it sound more extreme than even I was going for. But yes in my PERSONALY example,
I do have to make sure Im using my minoxidil daily, and we do this spending pretty large sums of money I could be using elsewhere on topicals I dont even know work. I personally CANT use finasteride because of sides and when it comes to hair transplants you do spend hours upon hours going to consults, allocating funds, and risking yourself to do it to feel "good" about yourself again. There are people who would always find something to b**ch about. I personally am not one. I am the hardest worker you will ever meet and I "expect" maximum return on all my endeavors. Spending tons of time in the gym, programming your brain to only go for certain foods, and trying to work out good style is all moot if you are ugly "bald".... NOT automatically ugly because you are bald but just ugly because YOU are bald, which I am. I went the shaved route, its not attractive. IF you are fine in life expecting the least out of yourself and being happy about it then good for you but that outlook makes you sound like someone who lives to sit in their basement playing video games eating cheetos.



You are as good looking as you want to put in to a degree, until it comes to something you cant do anything about, IE hair. I have body hair, I shave it, you have a beer belly then WORK OUT! Asymmetrical features you have to find another way I guess but that sucks and if there is no hope YES you have a right to complain. If your parents were that busted in the face then they should not have bred unless they were SUPREME geniuses and the world could not progress scientifically without them. Believe it or not YOU are not special, and the world does not need YOU. People need to really look deep into themselves before they have kids. People in the US screaming gun control when 90% of the problems are kids. To many people have kids anyway (and the WRONG PEOPLE) so stop thinking YOU need to pass your genes, its just selfish. Im sure those people starting off as the fat friend are no happier than about it than we make it seem here. Be realistic.



You go be happy with your lackluster mates. I personally spent my years with very attractive girls and NEVER had to worry about them venturing off and if they did SO WHAT, Id find another. If I could still achieve averagely cute girls Id be moderately happy but even those seem very disinterested since my hair loss. Could I find a "wife"? Sure. Personally dont want a wife. I work out, I want a woman who has that great body, but hey good luck when you have a bald head. You are pretty much relegated to fat girls. Ill say you have your PICK OF THE LITTER of fatties cause they all want to land the guy with a good body but I cant do that to myself. Sorry Im not going to put in work for something that wont take care of itself. One of the main reasons my current relationship sucks so bad and I have been trying to get out (long story) is because my GF literally trippled in her weight. Know when it happened? WHEN I LOST MY HAIR! When I bring up her weight, whats that first defense? "WELL YOU WENT BALD".
Losing your hair puts you on a lower tier than the rest of society. You are talking to someone who was on both ends. Someone who had actual modeling opportunities offered to him and could pick up any girl after chatting for 15 minutes to literally getting a snub nose when trying to make eye contact in a grocery store.
I was someone that even dating hot girls my friends always wondered why I was "settling". So am I spoiled? YES but I always worked out and worked hard at personal maintenance and personal/professional growth. SO yes my brother does pick up supermodels, as I used to but he doesnt have to "work" like you say because he still has his looks and can just go out and meet someone new. Its a sucky feeling now when your "little" brother picks up better looking and more women than you do. Its also not a great personal feeling when almost all the girls you meet now outright talk about how hot your sibling is and ignore you, or you get the "YOU GUYS are brothers?"
And Im tired of the "well those are the girls you shouldnt bother with anyway" THATS ALL GIRLS!



Sorry I work to hard, and whether your girl is a 10 or a 3 they all want to be treated like an 11 and are ALLLLLLLL WORK! The difference is where I used to be able to just prove a point of saying "yeah this is TO MUCH work" and could walk and find someone new, I no longer have that luxury, yes its a luxury but again I worked for it. So dealing with a model or a fattie will still equate to the same work and effort. Basically what you are saying is "I like ugly girls because I have more control on the situation". Sorry I dont need that nor desire it. I would rather have something I find attractive. And yes a standard cute girl would still be fine with me as they always were but NEVER someone who is overweight.



OF COURSE I read this far, why wouldnt i? Did you think half way through I would "wake up" and go "OMFG THIS GUYS IS RIGHT, over EVERYONE else in the world THIS guy right here has opened my eyes!" Stop being stupid and saying little quips like you are sarcastically profound, you are not.
But hey I never lived my live, I only have 3 houses, a very professional job, multiple skills, plenty of friends (all with great hair still). Ill also get a hobby since Ive wasted so much time learning, drums, bass and some guitar, go to the gym religiously, write, podcast, build aquariums and stands, ride my motorcycles, read the news, among many other things. Those arent hobbies though, Ill just play video games instead.

And lastly if YOU read this far and think this is how I act in my day to day life, then you sir are a RE-TARD! This is the internet. My birth name is NOT swingline, yes, believe it or not its JUST an internet handle. This is a place to vent and complain about things when you are pissy. If you think you are going to come on and "wake everyone up" then YOU are the one who needs a hobby.




edit: Also Im editing here, dont let this rant turn into a woe is me over women thread. Im not trying to portray that at all. What I am moderately pissed about is just my rotten luck and the feeling I always have to put in 5x's as much effort as the last guy. If I could have only kept my hair, my life in my eyes would honestly be "perfect".
Women are a side story but in the end the "instant" attraction from the opposite sex is what determines whether you are attractive or not, when you used to get more than you can handle to now getting ZILCH all because of something you can do NOTHING about its a suckass feeling. I also never blame women for their POV on bald men. Personally I think its repulsive as well. Looking at my on father makes me want to smash his face into a metal dumpster, among many other reasons.

I literally thought you were high, and may have expressed that in an antagonising way but your mental ramblings and the way you wrote them made you look like you were high. I do apologise as you seem offended at the idea of being high so you were probably really drunk instead. And I don't dislike points of views that I can't make any sense of.

Now I understand more where you're coming from and why you're so disappointed at being bald but in the context of the argument you're just shooting yourself in the foot. The reason I thought you were actually the basement dwelling video game cheetos eater is because you probably lived some insignificant life, and blamed it on baldness, and questioned why you were even born because of it. Instead by giving all these examples of why you're so productive and actually have achieved things, you look even more stupid in saying that your father made a mistake having you just because you're bald. There's no logic in that.

As far as screwing fatties I don't know if that was aimed at me but that's not what I meant by averagely cute girls, and parts of what you write make no sense and you catch yourself out, all women whether 3/10 or whatever like to be treated like 11/10's? How would you know when you've never dated one? My point about super hot girls being hard work as that they're particularly nuts with the superiority they feel and a lifetime of feeling like that means they'll never be normal, and they'll never be truly settled and happy, there's always going to be something wrong and something to blame a guy about. Finding a super hot girl who's down to earth is pretty rare, I don't know if you'd understand this because you seem just as ****ing nuts as they are. This is summed up in you finding a long term partner who's ridiculous enough to get fat because you got bald, I mean you shouldn't leave each other you sound like a perfect match and it seems unfair that either of you could go on to ruin another normal persons life.

If you have/paid off 3 mortgages at 35 and have bikes as just a hobby and can afford all these other interests, your regime is still expensive to you? Explain how that works please. Even a good quality hair transplant would only put a small dent in your yearly salary.

OF COURSE I read this far, why wouldnt i? Did you think half way through I would "wake up" and go "OMFG THIS GUYS IS RIGHT, over EVERYONE else in the world THIS guy right here has opened my eyes!" Stop being stupid and saying little quips like you are sarcastically profound, you are not.

This kind of thing is why you sound completely ridiculous, and why a person could mistake you for being high, and you've already proved to me that you are not a judge of anything that's profound or not (and the term "sarastically profound" is definitely a new one, maybe a few other nutjobs have used it before idk).

Whatever lengthy explanations you'll give for feeling unfairly treated about baldness you'll never justify the idea that you shouldn't have been born, you're right that everyone can come on here and get pissy about being bald and I'll do the same, but you elevate that sense of negativity to implying that we're all completely worthless in anything we do because of hair loss, and I really hate and condone that attitude that you spread to other people on here who are feeling low enough without your compounding bull****.

 

[marco75]

If you look at who started that convo about gays giving blowjobs, it wasn't me, I just joined in. And so what if I talked about it or anyone's looks? It shows I am comfortable with my straight sexuality, my identity and my looks. Everything you have said has been plainly false about me: working class, homo now, what else? You like having digs at me and I never respond in kind. So you're the one who is bitchy and female, ironically.

I picked up your vibe and issues in your first posts, was very easy for me. I just didn't say what I see, more fun that way

I'm not going to bother insulting you because it seems like you are angry with yourself/life more than anything, hence lashing out. Insulting gay people is also not cool. They do say those most homophobic are well you know...

It's a shame really. You are like over a decade older than me and very immature/insecure - to the point where you attempt to run others down. Laughable. They say complete baldness is a sign of maturity, well you certainly went against that theory. Yes it's probably best you leave otherwise it seems you may blow your head off.

I know you're on Tinder and your wife left you, perhaps some introspection is due before pulling others down? Man up and suck up reality. Real men don't cry: they deal with stuff and move on.

I'm sorry for saying I don't think Bruce Wilis is as good looking as Tom Cruise/Brad Pitt :freak:

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I definitely don't. Most guys like the fact there is different genders and view points on here.

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You both have a fan club

I never said you were working class, look you don't insult people directly, you make sideways snide comments in almost every post. You are the mod of a hairloss forum, my opinion is you shouldn't even be allowed to post on here, all that I see in your posts is negativity.

If I was you I would go seek physiological help and give up your mod duties. I am saying that out of concern for you not anger. Hope you find peace mate.

 

[swingline747]

I literally thought you were high, and may have expressed that in an antagonising way but your mental ramblings and the way you wrote them made you look like you were high. I do apologise as you seem offended at the idea of being high so you were probably really drunk instead. And I don't dislike points of views that I can't make any sense of.

Now I understand more where you're coming from and why you're so disappointed at being bald but in the context of the argument you're just shooting yourself in the foot. The reason I thought you were actually the basement dwelling video game cheetos eater is because you probably lived some insignificant life, and blamed it on baldness, and questioned why you were even born because of it. Instead by giving all these examples of why you're so productive and actually have achieved things, you look even more stupid in saying that your father made a mistake having you just because you're bald. There's no logic in that.

As far as screwing fatties I don't know if that was aimed at me but that's not what I meant by averagely cute girls, and parts of what you write make no sense and you catch yourself out, all women whether 3/10 or whatever like to be treated like 11/10's? How would you know when you've never dated one? My point about super hot girls being hard work as that they're particularly nuts with the superiority they feel and a lifetime of feeling like that means they'll never be normal, and they'll never be truly settled and happy, there's always going to be something wrong and something to blame a guy about. Finding a super hot girl who's down to earth is pretty rare, I don't know if you'd understand this because you seem just as ****ing nuts as they are. This is summed up in you finding a long term partner who's ridiculous enough to get fat because you got bald, I mean you shouldn't leave each other you sound like a perfect match and it seems unfair that either of you could go on to ruin another normal persons life.

If you have/paid off 3 mortgages at 35 and have bikes as just a hobby and can afford all these other interests, your regime is still expensive to you? Explain how that works please. Even a good quality hair transplant would only put a small dent in your yearly salary.



This kind of thing is why you sound completely ridiculous, and why a person could mistake you for being high, and you've already proved to me that you are not a judge of anything that's profound or not (and the term "sarastically profound" is definitely a new one, maybe a few other nutjobs have used it before idk).

Whatever lengthy explanations you'll give for feeling unfairly treated about baldness you'll never justify the idea that you shouldn't have been born, you're right that everyone can come on here and get pissy about being bald and I'll do the same, but you elevate that sense of negativity to implying that we're all completely worthless in anything we do because of hair loss, and I really hate and condone that attitude that you spread to other people on here who are feeling low enough without your compounding bull****.

I'm going to say it again. I'm not talking strictly about me in all my example but anyone. Treatments and procedures are expensive.
Understand you sound just as insane to me. Also very hard headed.
Go back to many of my other posts as well and see that I'm also just as pushing for people to strive. Go outside, hit the gym and get jobs. You're taking my opinion as sulking and not an opinion.
I'm going to think that this is the internet and you think my tone is that of a small whiny she man instead of a monotone discussion staying an opinion. I think you're kind of placing that image because you feel it helps your opinion of this case. I honestly dont know "what" exactly you are trying to accomplish other THAN actually just being annoying. You should really make a point aside just going "your hihg, your crazy" because that just makes you look stupid.

You are also rambling and mixing up who is saying what to whom now. So either you are forgetting who you are talking to or you're crazy and delusional.
Never said I was profound, said your trying to sound profound.
Also I've never said I was ever unfairly treated??? And never said he made a mistake just that I believe they were not prime candidates for breeding for a very many reasons.
I'm thinking your parents were very much the same after reading your ramblings.


update: the banging fatties was not directed at you, its from my own observations that when I had my hair still I could get very attractive women. Without my hair the only women seemingly interested in me are old or overweight. Not really "my type". So no it was not directed at you or any other person except my own personal life experience. Nothing I say is assumption, its all experianced. Sorry if you want to believe you are a handsome bald guy and hell maybe you are, Im not, and Im not happy about it. Im not going to be happy about it. I dont expect you to understand if your state of delusions are so strong.

 

[Wolf Pack]

I never said you were working class, look you don't insult people directly, you make sideways snide comments in almost every post. You are the mod of a hairloss forum, my opinion is you shouldn't even be allowed to post on here, all that I see in your posts is negativity.

If I was you I would go seek physiological help and give up your mod duties. I am saying that out of concern for you not anger. Hope you find peace mate.

Oh so you're offended that people on here hate losing hair and think it weakens their look? That's it right? You're offended they are not reassuring you that baldness rocks? So tell me then, why are you on this site? If baldness is good? Ah right you say all this BUT you're like middle aged dipping your Norwood 6 head into Minoxidil and binging on Finasteride. It's only hair right? Lol.

You're so easy to read. You're butt hurt that you're bald with a pi$$ poor donor, that you didn't have the insight to treat it and you don't like the way people aren't pandering to you. That you hate people focussing on looks, age and hair. Well guess what? You know where the virtual forum door is, take it. You don't contribute nothing to this forum except stupid stories like bar refaeli's bald boyfriend! Are we supposed to be like "thank you for opening our eyes." You don't realise it, but we can see you physically struggling and going through all the emotions on this forum and hating it. You're not very bright. Even when I first came on here I instantly knew that these stories had already been done to death and it has no bearing on one's life.

Go to slybaldguys if you want reassurance that bald is good. Although I am sure they will also find it hilarious that you're treating your hair still. Irony there. For the record I never have said bald = loser but please don't insult me and others for TREATING our hair loss EARLY and caring. You're just hurt you didn't do the same, so easy to read, another hater.

At least dannyboy on here despite being bald has accepted it, he can see both sides. He is more of a man then you ever will be.

Mod duties? My answer to that is always the same - email admin on why I shouldn't do it.

Physiological help :laugh: What my renal system, hepatic, GI, tell me You do realise I have degrees in science in both physiological and psychological elements. I think you meant I need to see a shrink in dummy terms which you should use. And say what to this shrink anyway? I sleep fine every night and don't have depression/anxiety. I know mental health much more than you remember. I won't say you need to see a shrink though, you just need to stop crying like a baby and man up.

 

[CaptainForehead]

Physiological help :laugh: What my renal system, hepatic, GI, tell me

Don't mock Wolf.

I mean, you yourself say that that Marco contributes to the forum.

You don't contribute nothing to this forum

You're not very bright.

And this just became a personal attack.

 

[Wolf Pack]

Double negatives.

My point is CF, most members on here (hair or no hair) understand the need to get some. Or if they are happy bald (dannyboy) it's different. Either way there is honesty about their intentions. Haters gonna hate.

He called me a homo, that's an insult. Also it's homophobic.

Me saying he is not bright is an observation and not an attack. The stuff he writes is garbage.