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[CopeForLife]

Weak, stupid people will always find an excuse to justify themselves, if it's not religion it will be something else anyway. They only need an excuse.

And you're right, if you love your loneliness you become stronger for it and less empathetic and emotional. And that's a strength, too.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

A lot of people got used to it here, they say it's normal and we shouldn't be mad at them because that's how their culture is, and they're behaving like that most likely because they feel discriminated and all the white Belgians hate them.

A few weeks ago, an Arab kid threw a firecracker in my bus back to work. They stopped the bus, locked the doors, and when the cops came to take him into custody, we could hear him shout "it's because I'm Arab, right?!"

Everyone laughed in the bus, they stir sh*t up and then behave like they are the f*****g victims.

The classic "you're racist!" move.
60% of the time, it works every time.

 

[Dench57]

A lot of people got used to it here, they say it's normal and we shouldn't be mad at them because that's how their culture is, and they're behaving like that most likely because they feel discriminated and all the white Belgians hate them.

A few weeks ago, an Arab kid threw a firecracker in my bus back to work. They stopped the bus, locked the doors, and when the cops came to take him into custody, we could hear him shout "it's because I'm Arab, right?!"

Everyone laughed in the bus, they stir sh*t up and then behave like they are the f*****g victims.

 

[zaman]

That's why feminists (and liberals in general) and muslims get along, even though there are tiny contradictions like sharia, infibulation and women rights and dignity.

People are always going on about burqas and FGM, meanwhile Western countries + South Africa have the highest incidences of rape in the world - much greater than the Middle East. Even variances in reporting and factors like honor killings can't account for how many rapes there are in certain free countries. Not to mention divorce and children being messed up by single and/or absent parents who are distracted by dating and alcohol.

Liberalism vs conservative society... there are definite pros and cons to both. On one hand you have family structure and quality time (your children probably won't throw you in an aged care facility one day), higher marital success, less promiscuity, less alcohol-fueled crime and violence, no tax loans vs. women's right to enter workforce and have career, freedom to drink, ability to kill fetuses, ability to wear g-string in public, freedom to date etc.

 

[EvilLocks]

If you are able to love your loneliness, you are just stronger than the others.

Indeed. I'm what you'd call a lonely person (partially by choice), and although I have a few friends I rarely go out. But you know what? I don't miss partying every weekend, and I don't miss going on dates (I should). Every time I force myself to be in a social setting now, I just feel like an outcast, someone who doesn't belong. This Saturday I went to a 'party' at my best friend's house and although I didn't have a terrible time, I spent most of it on my phone browsing HairLossTalk. My friends are great and all, but they can't possibly understand what I'm going through. Therefore I just prefer being in my own company (and of course my dog), listening to music, doing art, browsing forums... The weird thing is that I don't even feel like I'm missing out on life anymore. Sure, if I had my hair things would be different, but I have almost 'accepted' my fate and I'm left with this "I don't give a f***"-attitude. I believe it takes a person who is strong mentally to survive, and even like, a life in loneliness. There are days where I don't talk to anyone (besides on this forum), and I think that would make many people go crazy.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Yep, that's what they do here in Italy as well. It's just ten times worse, if you could read a few articles you would be glad you're not living here, it's just plain ridiculous. Too bad that in this corrupted, hypocritical hell-hole of a country, they will always be defended by liberals, no matter what, and you're branded "racist" if you say anything.

Italy at least caught the Berlin bomber.

I read some articles afterwards, it wasn't clear, but it seemed like the Berlin police was soft on him, whereas the Italian police actually did their job.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

People are always going on about burqas and FGM, meanwhile Western countries + South Africa have the highest incidences of rape in the world - much greater than the Middle East. Even variances in reporting and factors like honor killings can't account for how many rapes there are in certain free countries. Not to mention divorce and children being messed up by single and/or absent parents who are distracted by dating and alcohol.

Liberalism vs conservative society... there are definite pros and cons to both. On one hand you have family structure and quality time (your children probably won't throw you in an aged care facility one day), higher marital success, less promiscuity, less alcohol-fueled crime and violence, no tax loans vs. women's right to enter workforce and have career, freedom to drink, ability to kill fetuses, ability to wear g-string in public, freedom to date etc.

No offense, but there's *no way* for you to know what the rate of rape is in Saudi Arabia. Whatever numbers they report there are completely and utterly unreliable.

 

[EvilLocks]

I feel saved, but as I've said before, I can't help but feel like Frodo at the end of The Return of The King sometimes:

That's a beautiful quote, I can relate very much. Even if I got my hair back tomorrow it wouldn't completely fix what's been broken. Over 6 years of my youth have been wasted due to problems (developed anxiety and depression at 18, followed by baldness at 20), and it's not like you can put a bandage on that and keep on living like nothing ever happened. I'm wearing a hair piece now as you know, and although I no longer look bald I still feel bald. When you have been bald (especially at a young age) I don't think there's anything that can fully rid you of 'the bald feeling."

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Indeed. I'm what you'd call a lonely person (partially by choice), and although I have a few friends I rarely go out. But you know what? I don't miss partying every weekend, and I don't miss going on dates (I should). Every time I force myself to be in a social setting now, I just feel like an outcast, someone who doesn't belong. This Saturday I went to a 'party' at my best friend's house and although I didn't have a terrible time, I spent most of it on my phone browsing HairLossTalk. My friends are great and all, but they can't possibly understand what I'm going through. Therefore I just prefer being in my own company (and of course my dog), listening to music, doing art, browsing forums... The weird thing is that I don't even feel like I'm missing out on life anymore. Sure, if I had my hair things would be different, but I have almost 'accepted' my fate and I'm left with this "I don't give a f***"-attitude. I believe it takes a person who is strong mentally to survive, and even like, a life in loneliness. There are days where I don't talk to anyone (besides on this forum), and I think that would make many people go crazy.

In this forum, we are lonely together

This forum is kind of addicting and I too spend a bit too much time here, even more so since the new year's. I relate it to several factors on my part: laziness, depression, low self-esteem, addiction, ... lol.

I've actually been posting on forums for decades, since the late 1990s, on topics covering video games, politics, pro sports, nutrition and fitness, movies, and now hair. It's not great, and I wish I had a life. I do make an effort to get a life, but it can be so difficult to achieve, and every time I move I have to start over, to get friends from scratch, etc. it sucks.

I definitely feel like I'm missing out on life. I'm 33, and standard social conversation among my peers is discussion about babies. Sometimes I go to house parties, and it might be 6 or 7 couples and then me, I'll be the odd person, it sucks. I visited relatives last week, both married, to attractive women, with kids and they're building a home. I'm excluded from the world, and from normalcy.

All of this to say, it is good to get some reality, some red pill, and to see the truth which prevents me from engaging in self-destructive behaviour. However, it may also hurt to indulge too much in it.

 

[pjhair]

No offense, but there's *no way* for you to know what the rate of rape is in Saudi Arabia. Whatever numbers they report there are completely and utterly unreliable.

Not to mention that the definition of rape and the requirement to prove it is so different in western countries and countries like Pakistan that any direct comparison makes it meaningless.

 

[CopeForLife]

handsome rapist is oxymoron

 

[EvilLocks]

I definitely feel like I'm missing out on life. I'm 33, and standard social conversation among my peers is discussion about babies. Sometimes I go to house parties, and it might be 6 or 7 couples and then me, I'll be the odd person, it sucks. I visited relatives last week, both married, to attractive women, with kids and they're building a home. I'm excluded from the world, and from normalcy.

Yes, seeing your peers 'making it' while you are alone can truly hurt. I'm almost 10 years younger than you but already I'm seeing more and more of my peers finding their 'true love' (puke), getting engaged, married, having kids... I only recently moved out of my parent's place, have been single for a long time now and don't even have the energy to work a full-time job. I'm sure it must be even harder at your age, as the majority of people in that age bracket have settled down and started a family.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

That's why I'm so grateful that you guys and this forum exist.

The bright side is that normal people problems seems like BS to me now:

"OMG I lost my job!" "OMG my wife wants a divorce, my life is over!"

Please.

Nothing will ever hurt me as much as losing my hair in my teens did, nothing will ever come close.

On the one hand I'm scoffing at your comment (honest), on the other hand it is in fact true of your reality.

I'm left wondering if your group of friends is made up of "cool", and privileged people. I think your friends must live easy lives, for you to believe that hairloss at 19 is some exceptional, unparalleled cause of suffering.

Don't get me wrong, it's real bad, but I started contemplating suicide when I was 8. I'd say a lot of things are worse.

 

[EvilLocks]

Don't get me wrong, it's real bad, but I started contemplating suicide when I was 8. I'd say a lot of things are worse.

I hope it's not rude to ask, but what made an 8 year old want to take his own life? (you don't have to say it if it's too personal!)
My childhood (0-17) were the happiest times of my life, no real problems, all good memories. I'd say I had a very privileged childhood, with a loving family where nobody had diet yet, many friends and even teenage love. Thinking about these memories brings me both hurt and happiness, but all in all I'm very grateful for the good times.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Standards of beauty are relative, they matter more if you are surrounded by very good-looking people. Looking like me sucks, but it would probably suck more if I had gone to a fancy prep school, where the students inherited half of their genetics from their mothers who were trophy wives (and maybe more from both grandmothers), and the other half from men who got rich by being alphas.

I thus suspect, that people like @EvilLocks and @WhitePolarBear might have it worse, might suffer more from hairloss, as they are seemingly surrounded by good-looking people.

 

[CopeForLife]

There's nothing wrong than hair loss at a young age. Nothing.

I'm scoffing at all the so-called horrible problems people told me they (thought they) had.

Name any problem that is relatively common (no acid burns) and worse than hair loss.

You won't find any, you could say being ugly but even that cannot be compared because something is not being taken away from you.

I've heard it all: "what about short men?!" they've never been tall.

I'm sorry but I look around me, and even the worst situation I can think of is a walk in the park compared to hair loss.

One of my mother's colleagues had cancer and well, she's alive, she has a full head of hair, she seems 100% normal and is currently getting fucked by a young handsome Arab guy, she's doing quite fine.

Small rant here, but to summarize my line of thought:

People who think they have problems that are worse than aggressive hair loss at a young age need only one thing:

Perspective.



Same here, best childhood ever. The emotional abuse of my father started when I was 12 for some reason.

hairloss is worse than cancer.jpg

 

[EvilLocks]

I hope it's not rude to ask, but what made an 8 year old want to take his own life? (you don't have to say it if it's too personal!)
My childhood (0-17) were the happiest times of my life, no real problems, all good memories. I'd say I had a very privileged childhood, with a loving family where nobody had diet yet, many friends and even teenage love. Thinking about these memories brings me both hurt and happiness, but all in all I'm very grateful for the good times.

I meant "died" of course. LOL!

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

There's nothing wrong than hair loss at a young age. Nothing.

I'm scoffing at all the so-called horrible problems people told me they (thought they) had.

Name any problem that is relatively common (no acid burns) and worse than hair loss.

You won't find any, you could say being ugly but even that cannot be compared because something is not being taken away from you.

I've heard it all: "what about short men?!" they've never been tall.

I'm sorry but I look around me, and even the worst situation I can think of is a walk in the park compared to hair loss.

One of my mother's colleagues had cancer and well, she's alive, she has a full head of hair, she seems 100% normal and is currently getting fucked by a young handsome Arab guy, she's doing quite fine.

Small rant here, but to summarize my line of thought:

People who think they have problems that are worse than aggressive hair loss at a young age need only one thing:

Perspective.

I think you need perspective.

First, I would certainly take a chromedome over being 5'4. You can say that the 5'4 person has always been short ... that's correct, he's always been short and likely a loser. The bald guy isn't at the same level, he has more options.

Second, there are a lot of ways for people to lose things. You can get burns that disfigure you skin. You can suffer injuries that leave you debilitated, I have two separate friends who now live in wheelchairs due to car accidents, they were both very talented, and good-looking, with promising futures prior to their accidents. One was voted the hottest girl of my high school class, and she also had the highest grades too. Now she's in a wheelchair. Another friend of mine has gained 100 lbs since developing thyroid problems when he was young (doctors didn't treat it properly) -- he used to be very handsome.

You have not suffered more than everybody.

 

[Baldhurts]

I think you need perspective.

First, I would certainly take a chromedome over being 5'4. You can say that the 5'4 person has always been short ... that's correct, he's always been short and likely a loser. The bald guy isn't at the same level, he has more options.

Second, there are a lot of ways for people to lose things. You can get burns that disfigure you skin. You can suffer injuries that leave you debilitated, I have two separate friends who now live in wheelchairs due to car accidents, they were both very talented, and good-looking, with promising futures prior to their accidents. One was voted the hottest girl of my high school class, and she also had the highest grades too. Now she's in a wheelchair. Another friend of mine has gained 100 lbs since developing thyroid problems when he was young (doctors didn't treat it properly) -- he used to be very handsome.

You have not suffered more than everybody.

I'll take a slick bald head over terminal cancer any day.

If I am ever diagnosed with cancer or a terminally ill disease I will opt for euthanasia.

Having to lay in a hospital bed, having family members having to clean up after me and help me just to be "normal" that's how people are going to remember me. No thanks.

 

[sunchyme1]

Looking like me sucks

get a grip man. f*** me

your not ugly are you mate?

your one of these guys who is basically kind of average but has the potential to look MUCH BETTER but has no clue how to do it.

weve all given you recommendations that would get you to solid 7 easily.