Hair is actually an overrated trait

[Rudiger]

What makes me think that my future girlfriend hasn't f-cked a nice amount of guys before me?

Easy, I checked, and she has a hymen. Didn't expect that reply, right?

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[Rudiger]

Just to tell you because I know you didn't have sex that young, but girls lose their hymen practically as soon as they start masturbating.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

Just to tell you because I know you didn't have sex that young, but girls lose their hymen practically as soon as they start masturbating.

Pics?

J/K ;-(

 

[EvilLocks]

You are right, but he's said everything EXCEPT that, he completely wants people to give up on life, he constantly presses down on people who want to improve themselves in any possible way, because he finds that unacceptable. He responds to people trying to spread some form of positive words of advice, not even about women or anything, just outlook from your own perspective of this life, and he writes "Coping..." as if that's not allowed! It's absolutely insane.

Want to improve your personality to be more likeable? No people will laugh at you for trying. Want to improve your appearance in any way to attract women? LOL no way it's all genetic, 0% chance. Want to, jog, meditate, cook, anything, anything at all, to try and cope with this dreadful situation you're in? DISMISSED- you'll still be bald and it won't stop people mocking you, so everything is essentially pointless. And proof of that attitude here:

https://www.hairlosstalk.com/intera...r-bald-path-showing.99403/page-3#post-1340307

Someone dares try to do something which is scientifically proven to improve mood?! No! Not in Fred's world, won't let it happen. That wasn't even about getting bic'n'tanned and picking up or any of the ridiculous cliches we hear, it was just simply giving one way of coping, and he can't have that. There was absolutely no link to the advice given and the story he jumped in with, you can't deny that was just a shameless attempt to de-rail what was being discussed and make sure that (in case we didn't know) everyone is still realising baldness is awful.

So if he can't even let people have that, then what does he offer? You don't need me to tell you how regularly he tells guys to "give up", now what he's attempting to literally say is about women, but what he's really saying is to give up on EVERYTHING, because all he talks about is getting women like it's the only thing in life, and offers nothing else in return. It's either a hair transplant or kill yourself.

And how does Fred react to someone who's actually suicidal? This couldn't back up my point any further, and I want you to read the topic post first and take in what some kid behind a keyboard could have been going through, and how Fred responds, then you can tell me again that what I said was uncalled for.

https://www.hairlosstalk.com/intera...you-want-to-kill-yourself.98314/#post-1318165

Fred doesn't mince words no, but I think he's actually a nice guy despite sometimes coming across as bitter or insensitive. I think he's just trying to give people here realistic advice when it comes to hair loss, and not sugarcoat the harsh reality of what it's like to live with (severe) baldness (young). In that sense I can relate to him, as I don't mince words either and can sometimes say things that offend people. With people like Fred I think it's wise to not take everything he says the wrong way. He's just trying (in his own way) to let young men (or women?) know about the most realistic solutions to hair loss, and I think that's way better than those NW2's who just say "shave it off bro!" or "just get a rug!". Don't you think? Those are hardly a solution to hair loss, and will not make your life better. If you are a candidate to a hair transplant (like most men are) - do it! It can improve your quality of life dramatically. THIS is what a young man has to hear, not that "it will be okay!"-bullsh*t. Young people with hair loss needs to know that there IS a viable solution (as long as you don't have DUPA) to baldness. And this is why I respect Fred, because he doesn't beat around the bush, but tell things like they really are.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Even in early bike design hymen preservation was heavily prioritized.

 

[I.D WALKER]

Fred doesn't mince words no, but I think he's actually a nice guy despite sometimes coming across as bitter or insensitive. .

Well I would never have guessed that, coming from you sweetheart.

 

[Hairon]

What makes me think that my future girlfriend hasn't f-cked a nice amount of guys before me?

Easy, I checked, and she has a hymen. Didn't expect that reply, right?

Women who have had sex with a lot of guys just cannot bond with a guy anymore.

And if any of the guys she had sex with before you was better than you, your relationship is doomed from the start.

She will think about that guy and how it was better, and how she deserves a guy like him: "Why am I with this bald loser? I deserve better!"

And she does, because she did get better.

What? you checked and she has hymen? lmao, ok bro, cool story.
few things here, if you date a virgin, and gonna be her first, what makes you think she will not get curious about other guys and want to experience the world and try more? just like it happens to every person, what makes you think she will stay with you forever? the first relationship for people never last exactly because of that reason, bad strategy bro.

Also, why would the girl think about that guy from the past and how it was better and how she deserves a guy like him, if she chose to start a relationship with me?
"why am I with a this bald loser?"
if you can get and deserve better, and don't want a bald loser, then why do you bond with and start a relationship with a bold loser to begin with?

Once more Fred your logic completely collapse on its own.

 

[Hairon]

Girls are still attracted to you even if you're bald. But it's more of a rational realization that they have at a point: yes, they are with a bald guy. Bald = fat = short = ugly, pick your negative adjective. Surely she deserves better, or so will her friends tell her.

And yes, there might be a chance that she wants to explore more after sleeping with me. But come on, she will start very high with me as her first boyfriend, I'm not an inexperienced teenager, far from it.

Doesn't matter, you're her first, she will naturally want to explore even if you're really good, it will never last, you're delusional if you think you'll get a virgin girl and keep her forever, eventually she will leave you to explore. it's a doomed strategy that will never work.
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Again, doesn't matter that she is attracted to a bald guy, she sees they are bald from day one, balding will be unattractive to her from day one, so why would she date such a guy if in her head all she will think about is "I can get better", if you can get better, then go get better.

Your logic doesn't make sense.
And no her friends wouldn't come and tell her "don't date him because he's 7/10 and you can get 10/10!" lol, wtf, in what shallow hole of a country do you live in.
If anything her friends will only judge his personality and the way he treats her.
point is, if a girl decides to date a bald guy despite knowing she can get better, there is a reason for it, and you're not explaining the reason well.

 

[Hairon]

With how many virgins have you been?

The question is, with how many virgins have you been with in a long term relationships? and if your strategy actually works, how come those relationships ended? Are you telling me all of your former relationships were with virgins?

And Fred, wanting to explore is human nature, please don't try to deny that or claim that if you get a virgin she will never want to explore, it's futile.

 

[Hairon]

Unfortunately, he is correct. Women listen to their friends too much. I saw many girls breaking up with their boyfriends because her friends didn't like him and made fun of her and because they told her that she could get someone better.

but that wasn't necessarily because of their looks, unless you actually went to their friends and gave them an interview and asked them what were the exact reason for which they recommanded their friend to dump the man, which I highly doubt you did.

 

[Hairon]

One, she kept camping in front of my building for days, and still sent me letters months after.

She stopped texting me 9 months after the end of our relationship.

I left because she quickly became attached to me, and because she was barely a 5.

I started dating her as a slick NW5, but 5 months into our relationship, my hair transplant had grown.

So I could get better. But she was very nice.

That's also a side effect of dating a virgin, getting overly attached to you.
if she was 8/10, or even 10/10, and was overly attached to you, same level as camping in front of your building for days and sending you mass love letters, would you still date her?

 

[Hairon]

Without a doubt.

Ehh... if you say so.

 

[Hairon]

Letting go of a 8/10 (former) virgin who loves me? I would be pretty stupid.

not if she is batsht crazy, but maybe you're that shallow that it wouldn't bother you
me personally no matter how hot she is if she was crazy like that, at some point it will become too much for me to handle.

 

[infinitepain]

infinitepain,

My theory is that younger women, under 20 or so, don't care as much about muscles, height, bone structure, body hair, deep voice, et cetera. They're more attracted to twinks like Justin Bieber or the Hanson brothers. As women grow older, they become less attracted to boys and more attracted to men, they prefer 6'3, big boned, muscular, hairy, and with a deep voice at that point.

I recall lots of short guys doing very, very well ... during grades 6 to grade 11. The shortest guys in the room were often called hot. I don't think that happens to them at 30.

Who cares about women past their prime? Just lol.

 

[infinitepain]

Best time for me is now, right after university (and my recent break-up).

I'm glad I didn't waste too much time with getting laid when I was studying.

I've seen many guys trying to go to all the parties, to get laid all the time, until they dropped out.

Not a good long-term strategy. At least now I'm safe, I have my degree, and my job.

I dated while I was at university but I always too a break during my exams.

But still, it was risky, have a bad break-up in the wrong period, and it can easily make you fail your year.

I have sh*t nothing. Too depressed to study while not getting prime, anglo, 7+ white pussy.

 

[infinitepain]

If you have rudimentary organizational skills you should have plenty of time for both studying and socializing in college.

Most people I know had both active social lives and studied hard. There's four years to do both.

A few people didn't manage, but there were usually other things going on hampering them such as marijuana addiction, poverty, thyroid problems, etc.

The few people I knew with perfect grades -- friends who were the very best students in the entire university and have gone on to successful careers as leaders in their fields -- all had rich, active social lives.

A friend of mine is starting medical school in a few months after spending a few years in the private sector, coding software for a fortune 500 company. He had sex with ~20 women or so during undergrad, including a few relationships.

Another guy got the aware for best student my year in the entire school. We've since lost touch. At the time aside from getting A's in all his classes, he was also a phenomenal tennis player, a marathon runner, researching quantum cryptography and linguistics, and teaching courses on ancient Sumerian at another college, among other things.

A third guy did math and physics with me ... also was an elite programmer in his spare time, studied neuroscience (later switched to that), was a political activist, into classical music, playing pool, and was pulling quite well ... we lost touch when he got up to 20 women two thirds of the way through university. He works at google now and makes 250k/year.

I could go on.

They went to many parties, not all the parties.


No. WTF lol. If everybody who had a bad breakup failed their year, most people would have failed years.

Everything about your posting history Fred suggests that grades were not a priority for you. You are ideologically opposed to effort and you were most likely an average or slightly-above-average student -- something which takes no effort. Your post is likely retroactive excuse-making for the fact you didn't pull as well while in university. Whatever the reason was, it's not that you were busy from too many classes.

My thyroid is sluggish to boot. My TSH has been fluctuating for years from 4 to 9. Doctors don't give a f***. Im tired, balding and my scalp itches. Somehow im still lean as f***. My DHT was above normal when I did my tests. If I started oral finasteride and I started gaining weight due DHT loss and estrogen raise I would legit end it.
My only motivation is making money on the internet to f*** 8+ young russian escorts. Im now making enough to f*** one a month, that motivates me. Everything else is absolute dogshit.

 

[Hairon]

What do you guys think about micro scalp pigmentation?
https://www.google.co.il/search?q=m...ved=0ahUKEwijs--I-dXNAhWBB8AKHTLQDmwQ_AUIBigB

it's not real hair and your head will always look shaved like that, but it gives your face a frame, which is one of the greatest problems being bald, that your face has no frame, this can fix it, and it's better than having a shiny head
that + facial hair could be a pretty good solution when the time to completely shave your head comes, no?

What do you guys think?

 

[Rudiger]

He's just trying (in his own way) to let young men (or women?) know about the most realistic solutions to hair loss, and I think that's way better than those NW2's who just say "shave it off bro!" or "just get a rug!". Don't you think?

Better than the worst is still not good, this is like scrambling to find positives out of a shitty situation, and Fred is a shitty situation all over.

There's many posters on here who are neither ridiculous slybald types, nor are they intentionally doom-mongering like Fred and a few others, you don't have to be an extremist idiot and put down all bald people just to make a point about getting a hair transplant. I don't have to read stupidly positive sh*t, I also don't have to put up with Fred's crap.

Fine, it is better to give un-necessarily harsh advice than no advice at all. But like I was saying before, he's offering nothing, I've done the same as him in offering advice on treatments, and 90% of the time most people are on here because they've already tried everything. And he says to get a hair transplant you just sell your widescreen and playstation, what the f*** kind of TV and playstation is that? A hair transplant is the same as a deposit on a f*****g mortgage, you balance things up in life and it's hard to justify spending that much money on it (not just to justify it for yourself, but more importantly to justify it to other people).

It's not that straight forward, and his "advice" is just an excuse for him to wank himself over how sh*t bald people look, because he considers himself not one of them anymore (lol). He comes on here to put down bald guys and gets off on that, and then pretends it's just to ensure people get hair transplant's.

Absolute joke, but I have no issue with you (don't take my aggressive tone towards him, not you, to mean otherwise) and respect that you think he may be a nice guy, I just simply disagree strongly on that point.

 

[Rudiger]

Fred did you actually pay for your hair transplant?

 

[Hairon]

Better than the worst is still not good, this is like scrambling to find positives out of a shitty situation, and Fred is a shitty situation all over.

There's many posters on here who are neither ridiculous slybald types, nor are they intentionally doom-mongering like Fred and a few others, you don't have to be an extremist idiot and put down all bald people just to make a point about getting a hair transplant. I don't have to read stupidly positive sh*t, I also don't have to put up with Fred's crap.

Fine, it is better to give un-necessarily harsh advice than no advice at all. But like I was saying before, he's offering nothing, I've done the same as him in offering advice on treatments, and 90% of the time most people are on here because they've already tried everything. And he says to get a hair transplant you just sell your widescreen and playstation, what the f*** kind of TV and playstation is that? A hair transplant is the same as a deposit on a f*****g mortgage, you balance things up in life and it's hard to justify spending that much money on it (not just to justify it for yourself, but more importantly to justify it to other people).

It's not that straight forward, and his "advice" is just an excuse for him to wank himself over how sh*t bald people look, because he considers himself not one of them anymore (lol). He comes on here to put down bald guys and gets off on that, and then pretends it's just to ensure people get hair transplant's.

Absolute joke, but I have no issue with you (don't take my aggressive tone towards him, not you, to mean otherwise) and respect that you think he may be a nice guy, I just simply disagree strongly on that point.

what good would hair transplant do if the person does not take finasteride?