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@pjhair Indian chad lmao
 
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Xander94 said:
One thing that keeps me coping is that it could have been waaaay worse it could have been legit over. Atleast now I could get on with some chubby 4/10 maybe, probably I hope so.

If I was an indian manlet it would be O G R E
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You can do more than chubby. You can go to Asia and f*** hot asian women on daily basis. But that will involve getting out of your house and travel which you are reluctant to do.
 
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Medina said:
Don't worry mate I saw an Indian guy today with a 7/10 white girl. Pretty sure he was a junior doctor or something though.
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I am not worried about anything. I have had my share of fun in my prime.
 
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Im also extremely unstable at one point Im suicidally depressed then Im calm then im seething with rage. Circlejerking through these 3 states every day.
 
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Stop browsing f*****g lookism for a start
 
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Xander94 said:
Pics or didnt happen
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How about a video?


Here is a black pill for you, you don't know about life nearly as much as you think you do. You are living in a pit of negativity and have formed some extreme views which is further reinforced by websites like lookism. You have repeatedly claimed that if you are an Indian man, it's over. Fortunately I know better as I have not only dated but was also married to a beautiful blonde. I also know other Indian men who have done it. But what if a 20 years old inexperience Indian man reads your extremely negative views and believes you? He will think that he has no fighting chance and will give up on life. I really hope other men don't believe you and what people like you write and experience life for themselves instead of giving up before even trying.
 
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While I am at it, let me elaborate on why Indian men suffer in dating market. There are several factors apart from looks. Most of them are fixable.

(1) Most Indians are badly out of shape. Many of them are vegetarians hence carbs forms majority of their diet. Consequently they will often have flabby stomach and thin arms. Very low muscle mass through out their body. Also, the food they cook gives a bad odor to their clothes. If Indian men work out, change diet and get muscular like black men, I am sure their chances will improve. I have seen it done.

(2) Many of them don't know how to dress properly as what is considered a normal dress in India is not acceptable in the west.

(3) They also make social gaffes as they are often unaware of what's socially acceptable in the West. They don't know how to keep on a conversation without embarrassing themselves and others. This is also the reason they come across creepy to many women. Also, being nerdy is something that is admired in India. The more you study, the more popular you are in the society. Hence many Indians simply grow up to be nerdy. They are trained like that. It's exactly opposite of west.

(4) Also believe it or not, many Indians simply don't want to be with a women who is not Indian, hence they don't even try. There is a huge social pressure to only date women of their caste. I know at least two Indian men who despite having option to date white women, chose Indian. It may seem to bizarre to you but if you were an Indian, you will understand.
 
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I think it is such a tragedy that I keep coming back to this forum - it really is! Already, I suffer from massive low self-esteem because of my hair loss. On top of that, I get to hear statements such as 'Thank god, I am not Indian' and homophobic terms such as 'phaggot'.

Given that I am a balding, gay, indian guy - I must not even be perceived as a human. I have had such a rough April and May and I finally turned a corner. I am learning to be happy with myself. But this forum is not helping.

I think I am going to take a break from HairLossTalk.com.
 
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karankaran said:
I think it is such a tragedy that I keep coming back to this forum - it really is! Already, I suffer from massive low self-esteem because of my hair loss. On top of that, I get to hear statements such as 'Thank god, I am not Indian' and homophobic terms such as 'phaggot'.

Given that I am a balding, gay, indian guy - I must not even be perceived as a human. I have had such a rough April and May and I finally turned a corner. I am learning to be happy with myself. But this forum is not helping.

I think I am going to take a break from HairLossTalk.com.
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Don't let views of an incel who has zero experience himself bring you down. Indians are disadvantaged at dating but judging individuals based on pattern that exists in their community is idiotic. Sort of like some racial/ethinic groups and women on average score lower on GRE/SAT quant than others but only morons make presuppositions about an individuals intelligence based on his/her race/sex.

Trust me, a women, or in your case a man, will not reject you because you are an Indian. She/he will reject you for your looks, hence maximize your looks. Sometimes I wish I can post pics of the hot white women I have dated to shut these inexperienced incels for good.
 
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OP, look at it this way: some guys are perma-f'ed because they're too short, too old, too bald and/or too small for the opposite sex to do anything but laugh. You're actually very lucky because you are none of that. Instead, your problems are all in your head and how you interact with the outside world. This means that your celdom is solvable in a real, tangible way.

Honestly, you don't belong on this site or on lookism. Your obsession with your hair and your looks seem to me nothing more than a crutch that divert you from the real underlying issue which is your inability to handle social interaction.

This is a problem you can only solve by actually putting yourself in social situations, trying, failing and learning from your mistakes. Once you build up a measure of experience from this you'll find that meeting and dating girls comes naturally to you. I lost my virginity late too, around your age, and I lost it to someone I met outside the internet.

Lookism is mostly conjecture from dating app experiments filled in with fiction and Unicode vomit from guys who, unlike you, really are too aesthetically impaired to have a meaningful shot at good experiences with women. You need to get out there and actually see real life for yourself. You'll find that with some social training there will be at least some women who are receptive to your advances. Don't be picky and focus on building up experience. Over time your issues will resolve. PM me if you want tips, I've been in your place.
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Xander, print this out and stick it to your wall and read it every day for a month.
 
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karankaran said:
I think it is such a tragedy that I keep coming back to this forum - it really is! Already, I suffer from massive low self-esteem because of my hair loss. On top of that, I get to hear statements such as 'Thank god, I am not Indian' and homophobic terms such as 'phaggot'.

Given that I am a balding, gay, indian guy - I must not even be perceived as a human. I have had such a rough April and May and I finally turned a corner. I am learning to be happy with myself. But this forum is not helping..
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Don't let these words discourage you, mate.
They are not anti-gay words per-se.
They are just expressions used in anger.
 
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