How do you deal with dating in 2021?

[doubleindemnity]

well, youre ugly, you date ugly... or go and try date someone looking way better than you, all power to you, just dont be surprised when that doesnt work out...
you look normal? go ahead and you shouldnt have too many problems...

This doesn't work out. In reality, a bald guy gets nobody interested in him. Nobody. That's why I posted in one of @Feelsbadman 's numerous threads that if he can get dates with single mothers or any other kinds of people that he considered less attractive, then he has done incredibly well. And to reiterate, I think that the only way out of this is to quit and focus on other great things that life has to offer.

 

[INT]

you hve no ida how modern dating works

4/10 women hook up with horny hot chads so they expect that
they dont want a ugly boyfriend

Stop conflating tinder with modern dating

 

[Feelsbadman]

Stop conflating tinder with modern dating

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it's true

 

[Feelsbadman]

i got a good idea about how the real life dating market works... for tinder, i somehow believe you that it is as bad as you say, since i hear that quite often...

in real life people are not extremely picky unless they are really top of class, or so full of themselves that you dont want them anyway...

i would even say that women on the same level do really like their partners, which seems to be what everyone wants...

80/20 rule doesn't agree with this

 

[Templah]

I don't, never began for me

 

[INT]

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it's true

You don’t know what is true because you spend too much time online and too little time in real life with actual (mature and intelligent) women.

 

[czecha]

The problem is the looksmatch of a 6/10 20 yo is a 8/10 guy due to youth, make up, hypergamy. And that is just ltr. For slaying it’s a 9.5/10

 

[czecha]

It’s a fact 5% of men do 50% of the slaying, aka they don’t have to compensate with cultural copes and social pressure for sex

 

[czecha]

It’s a fact 5% of men do 50% of the slaying, aka they don’t have to compensate with cultural copes and social pressure for sex

When it comes to slaying desirable women that number goes up to 95%

 

[czecha]

So it comes down to 60% or so of young women being desirable (minus extreme truecel cases and landwhales) and at most 10% of men being biologically desirable. Honestly i Think due to tinder that number is closer to 2% now

 

[INT]

It’s a fact 5% of men do 50% of the slaying, aka they don’t have to compensate with cultural copes and social pressure for sex

Source? Population level sample please.

 

[czecha]

Source? Population level sample please.

Giga cope

 

[INT]

Giga cope

Strange way to say “I have no data and pulled everything I just said out of my ***” but hey...

Also: OK incel

 

[czecha]

Strange way to say “I have no data and pulled everything I just said out of my ***” but hey...

Also: OK incel

men overreport women underreport, reality is much more brutal

 

[czecha]

Now draw your own conclusion who is doing the f*****g

 

[INT]

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men overreport women underreport, reality is much more brutal

Great. So you cannot find the data I asked for, decide to go for the next best thing and inject your own assumptions into the data.

 

[czecha]

Great. So you cannot find the data I asked for, decide to go for the next best thing and inject your own assumptions into the data.

You realize „data“ has a political agenda behind it right?
You have to draw your own conclusions and I would encourage you to open your eyes to female nature, technology and looks theory

 

[INT]

You realize „data“ has a political agenda behind it right?
You have to draw your own conclusions and I would encourage you to open your eyes to female nature, technology and looks theory

Oh so you are anti science as well? I am not surprised. Sure, looks are important and technology has in many cases a negative influence on relationships. But the numbers you were throwing around earlier were complete BS. Also, you do not need to teach me about female nature. You see, I actually talk with women instead of only talking about them.

 

[czecha]

Oh so you are anti science as well? I am not surprised. Sure, looks are important and technology has in many cases a negative influence on relationships. But the numbers you were throwing around earlier were complete BS. Also, you do not need to teach me about female nature. You see, I actually talk with women instead of only talking about them.

I’m skeptical of science, yes.

but as a head start to my recommendations, why don’t you start here?

Scientific Blackpill

The Scientific Blackpill is about understanding the nature of human social and sexual behavior with a particular focus on evolutionary psychological perspectives...

incels.wiki

 

[INT]

I’m skeptical of science, yes.

but as a head start to my recommendations, why don’t you start here?

Scientific Blackpill

The Scientific Blackpill is about understanding the nature of human social and sexual behavior with a particular focus on evolutionary psychological perspectives...

incels.wiki

Oh so your skepticism of science is selective?