How do you deal with dating in 2021?

[czecha]

Oh so your skepticism of science is selective?

No, I’m also skeptical of the sources in the scientific blackpill. I have, however, read publications saying thats legit science in there

 

[czecha]

The top 10 words associated with successful profiles were, in descending order:

• Women's Profiles: Love, Drink, Music, LOL, Gym, Coffee, Blue Eyes, , Beer, Foodie
• Men's Profiles: 6', Family, Dogs, Dinner, Beard, Travel, Music, Relationship, Gym, Car

Absolutely f*****g brutal

 

[Oknow]

Women have such high standards in 2021

Even 3/10 pigs get 1000s of options on tinder and instagram

whats the point of having a gf when they have a device in their hand that exposes them to men with better hair, taller, earn more money better lookng and is willing to f*** them ?

dating just feels pointless unless you're a Chad whats the point?

either play a huge numbers game and hope to get lucky once in a while?
get a gf but she'll just leave you or cheat on you anyway
whats the point

dating is fucked man

i had a gf for a period of time i was so happy in life having sex regularly and companionship (a basic human need) but even she cheated on me
its just pointless

ive seen girls on tinder with "boyfriends" on snapchat whois taking to other dudes etc
cringe

lol

I just get on with it and try my luck

 

[czecha]

Data was drawn to assess trends in sexual behavior from the 2002 and 2011–2013 National Survey of Family Growth, a US household survey focusing on sexual and reproductive health.

Researchers found that compared to 2002, men overall had the same number of partners in 2013. However, the top 20% of men had a 25% increase in sexual partners. The top 5% of men had an even more dramatic 38% increase in the number of sexual partners.

Thus while the amount of male sex that was had was unchanged, more of the sex was consolidated into extra sex for the top 5-20% of men (ie. "Chads"). Thus it is clear that the most attractive men are truly having more sex than ever before.

Discussion:

Even though people have less sex than ever, it seems a minority of men and women does get a lot of sex, possibly facilitated by online dating and cultural norms that enable casual sex. Among this minority, it seems it is increasingly common for a minority of men to engage in casual sex and open relationships with many women.

Imagine now and without self reporting
Brutal

 

[Oknow]

you hve no ida how modern dating works

4/10 women hook up with horny hot chads so they expect that
they dont want a ugly boyfriend

you are an idiot

I’m getting action and I’m not a chad, and not the right race - Indian

like anything to succeed it’s about having the right attitude

 

[justinbieberscombover]

The top 10 words associated with successful profiles were, in descending order:

• Women's Profiles: Love, Drink, Music, LOL, Gym, Coffee, Blue Eyes, , Beer, Foodie
• Men's Profiles: 6', Family, Dogs, Dinner, Beard, Travel, Music, Relationship, Gym, Car

Absolutely f*****g brutal

I don't see what's so brutal here?

 

[czecha]

you are an idiot

I’m getting action and I’m not a chad, and not the right race - Indian

like anything to succeed it’s about having the right attitude

You are tall, have hair and likely do not get free sex (hooking up and f*****g within the night) on a regular basis due to your race. It’s about how often, and hiw effortlessly you get sex.
Chad literally has dozens of unread dms from hotties who msg him first.

 

[doubleindemnity]

you are an idiot

I’m getting action and I’m not a chad, and not the right race - Indian

like anything to succeed it’s about having the right attitude

It's about being above average. Your hair and height are above average and your other features are, as you said, average. Attitude doesn't come through over the online dating systems through which you get action. I'm going to go hard on my affirmations and meditation, make myself happy by doing relaxing things that I enjoy, like going to a music concert. My attitude will be amazing but my results won't change. I'll just be a bald loser with a great attitude.

Keep in mind that guys like TC started with a positive attitude many years ago. Their current attitude is shaped by their experiences.

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

Dating in 2021? Bro, please.
You mean rejection simulator 2021?
Dating for about 4 years (since baldness hit me) is the worst thing Ive ever experienced in my life.
Thanks, life.
Went from full female attention and landing only 7s and 8s (extremely rare times 9s) to being invisible to women and getting rejected by 4s and 5s.
Thanks again, life.

 

[vondoom]

I don't see what's so brutal here?

brutal is that when i see whats apparently popular in mens profiles, i die of boredom...

 

[vondoom]

i honestly wonder how many posts and words you need to say “i cant get no pußi”...

 

[justinbieberscombover]

brutal is that when i see whats apparently popular in mens profiles, i die of boredom...

Family, dogs and dinner! Oh wait.. car! Hahaha

 

[Oknow]

It's about being above average. Your hair and height are above average and your other features are, as you said, average. Attitude doesn't come through over the online dating systems through which you get action. I'm going to go hard on my affirmations and meditation, make myself happy by doing relaxing things that I enjoy, like going to a music concert. My attitude will be amazing but my results won't change. I'll just be a bald loser with a great attitude.

Keep in mind that guys like TC started with a positive attitude many years ago. Their current attitude is shaped by their experiences.

So what if I have height and hair, I’m competing with loads of other guys who are white that have the same

also I’m doing something about my hair loss, I’m treating it working with a derm

 

[Oknow]

You are tall, have hair and likely do not get free sex (hooking up and f*****g within the night) on a regular basis due to your race. It’s about how often, and hiw effortlessly you get sex.
Chad literally has dozens of unread dms from hotties who msg him first.

Doesn’t matter if I don’t regularly have 1 night stand..still getting more action than you and the other sad c**** on here

Also I probably could have more one night stands if I had my own pad and not living at home

 

[doubleindemnity]

So what if I have height and hair, I’m competing with loads of other guys who are white that have the same

also I’m doing something about my hair loss, I’m treating it working with a derm

We can roughly agree that you're above average. If so, then by definition the numbers are in your favor when you compete with them. I'm not saying that you don't have a positive mindset, a go getter attitude and don't work for it. I'm saying that, as far as I can tell, those things are much less important than actual hair. This forum is evidence for that. I am going to look into that derm that you're using. Your post was the first that I heard of it.

 

[Capone]

Women have such high standards in 2021

Even 3/10 pigs get 1000s of options on tinder and instagram

whats the point of having a gf when they have a device in their hand that exposes them to men with better hair, taller, earn more money better lookng and is willing to f*** them ?

dating just feels pointless unless you're a Chad whats the point?

either play a huge numbers game and hope to get lucky once in a while?
get a gf but she'll just leave you or cheat on you anyway
whats the point

dating is fucked man

i had a gf for a period of time i was so happy in life having sex regularly and companionship (a basic human need) but even she cheated on me
its just pointless

ive seen girls on tinder with "boyfriends" on snapchat whois taking to other dudes etc
cringe

A lot of women are embarrassed to be on tinder tbh.. a lot still like the old school way of meeting up socially etc

 

[justinbieberscombover]

A lot of women are embarrassed to be on tinder tbh.. a lot still like the old school way of meeting up socially etc

Yeah on Tinder after a little while you mainly just see the same scorned women over and over again..

When I get a few more good pictures up I'm gonna start hitting women through DM's on social media instead of dating apps. The true level up.

 

[Oknow]

We can roughly agree that you're above average. If so, then by definition the numbers are in your favor when you compete with them. I'm not saying that you don't have a positive mindset, a go getter attitude and don't work for it. I'm saying that, as far as I can tell, those things are much less important than actual hair. This forum is evidence for that. I am going to look into that derm that you're using. Your post was the first that I heard of it.

Honestly, don’t get me wrong, I’m sure dating is harder if you are bald and doesn’t suit someone.

I’m just trying to emphasize that having hair is not the magic bullet, I know that, because whenever I start chatting to a girl and I don’t feel confident or insecure I never get them. A lot of work goes into actually pulling the girl - need good chat too.

Also, there are plenty of bald guys in relationships/dating, go out and look around and not everyone of them met their partners whilst they had hair, my brother met his when bald

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

I’m just trying to emphasize that having hair is not the magic bullet, I know that, because whenever I start chatting to a girl and I don’t feel confident or insecure I never get them. A lot of work goes into actually pulling the girl - need good chat too.

I have the perfect analogy for this:
Think of it like a football (soccer if American) team that has the best player in the league. Is that gonna automatically win them the league? Absolutely no, but it will help a f*****g lot.
Same with hair. Is having hair automatically gonna give you successful dates and naked women? Absolutely not, but it will help a f*****g lot.
Ofc you gotta have social skills and good sense of humour, but having hair and looking good definitely helps a whole f*****g lot.
Your looks(/money) grab the attention, social skills and sense of humour seal the deal.

 

[whatevr]

4/10 women hook up with horny hot chads so they expect that

Why would Chads take 4/10 women though? Surely there are plenty of 8/10's for Chads to bang?