How do you deal with dating in 2021?

[Oknow]

I have the perfect analogy for this:
Think of it like a football (soccer if American) team that has the best player in the league. Is that gonna automatically win them the league? Absolutely no, but it will help a f*****g lot.
Same with hair. Is having hair automatically gonna give you successful dates and naked women? Absolutely not, but it will help a f*****g lot.
Ofc you gotta have social skills and good sense of humour, but having hair and looking good definitely helps a whole f*****g lot.

At the end of the day, not even worth thinking about really, it’s like race, some women don’t find Indian guys attractive others don’t care

similar with bald guys , some want a guy with hair others don’t mind - in both cases, find the women who don’t care

what I’ve learned about dating is how people do have different preferences

if I listened to half the sh*t people say, I wouldn’t have had half the success that I currently have. Just the other week I had a friend of a friend say I should not bother trying to date white women, 2 weeks later I dated one and had sex on the first date

 

[Capone]

Yeah on Tinder after a little while you mainly just see the same scorned women over and over again..

When I get a few more good pictures up I'm gonna start hitting women through DM's on social media instead of dating apps. The true level up.

True the old bio “I’m on tinder to get off tinder” or “I can’t believe I’m back on this” . What site will you use for that that? Any gold openers?

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

what I’ve learned about dating is how people do have different preferences

Yep, and sadly women who like bald dudes are a minority. Thus the hard time in finding women as a bald average/above average dude.

 

[Oknow]

Yep, and sadly women who like bald dudes are a minority. Thus the hard time in finding women as a bald average/above average dude.

Even if thats the case , it’s better than nothing

 

[doubleindemnity]

I have the perfect analogy for this:
Think of it like a football (soccer if American) team that has the best player in the league. Is that gonna automatically win them the league? Absolutely no, but it will help a f*****g lot.
Same with hair. Is having hair automatically gonna give you successful dates and naked women? Absolutely not, but it will help a f*****g lot.
Ofc you gotta have social skills and good sense of humour, but having hair and looking good definitely helps a whole f*****g lot.
Your looks(/money) grab the attention, social skills and sense of humour seal the deal.

The way I think of it is like this. If you had a race with Tyson Gay who would win? Tyson gay every time. Now suppose you had up to 5 years to train as hard as you can to run and we wake Christian Coleman up in the middle of the night to race you without giving him any warning. Who would win? Still Coleman, but you wouldn't look so bad in comparison when you lose this time . Same way that a bald guy always will be losing compared with a guy who has hair.

 

[UnLuckyLuciano]

Even if thats the case , it’s better than nothing

Yes, it is better than nothing.
Its still a complete shithole of an experience being a bald man dating.
And you see the big differences between dating with hair vs dating bald.

 

[Feelsbadman]

Why would Chads take 4/10 women though? Surely there are plenty of 8/10's for Chads to bang?

coz thsyre horny and its easy free sex with little effort

 

[Feelsbadman]

True the old bio “I’m on tinder to get off tinder” or “I can’t believe I’m back on this” . What site will you use for that that? Any gold openers?

yea those women are train wrecks lol

 

[vondoom]

nobody should ever use tinder... or at least dont complain about the quality...
it is just f*****g the leftovers, men and women...

 

[Feelsbadman]

nobody should ever use tinder... or at least dont complain about the quality...
it is just f*****g the leftovers, men and women...

agree
only the trash is on tinder
but tinder still reflects real life and what dating is like and modern women

 

[Butterbean Head]

100+likes, five phone numbers, one date and NO straddling on POF.

Due to the fact I'm a big hairy scary bald monster.......

 

[czecha]

I hatfished on tinder, 450 matches, plenty of girls writing first, 2 dates, 1 lay

undoubtedly that conversion rate would have been a LOT different if i showed off hair

 

[czecha]

I hatfished on tinder, 450 matches, plenty of girls writing first, 2 dates, 1 lay

undoubtedly that conversion rate would have been a LOT different if i showed off hair

Oh yeah and not hatfishing obv doesn’t work at all

 

[czecha]

if you haven’t met through social circle hair is probably like 70% of the equation

 

[Diffused_confidence]

if you haven’t met through social circle hair is probably like 70% of the equation

Don't you ever get tired of this kind of posting? Just posting "cope" or "it's over" 100 times would seem tiresome at some point.

I guess it's over for tiredcels.

 

[czecha]

Why would Chads take 4/10 women though? Surely there are plenty of 8/10's for Chads to bang?

Chad bangs everything from 6.5/10 upwards, chadlites therefore have to go for 5/10s, and htn‘s for 4/10s
Basic hypergamy

you’ll find this only applies to casual sex tho, ltr‘s are usually looksmatched

how often has your 6/10 homie slayed a looksmatch?

every guy has cuter girlfriends than slays, and every girl has cuter slays than boyfriends

 

[czecha]

Don't you ever get tired of this kind of posting? Just posting "cope" or "it's over" 100 times would seem tiresome at some point.

I guess it's over for tiredcels.

Im still right keep coping

 

[Feelsbadman]

if you haven’t met through social circle hair is probably like 70% of the equation

no social cirlce

 

[vondoom]

Chad bangs everything from 6.5/10 upwards, chadlites therefore have to go for 5/10s, and htn‘s for 4/10s
Basic hypergamy

you’ll find this only applies to casual sex tho, ltr‘s are usually looksmatched

how often has your 6/10 homie slayed a looksmatch?

every guy has cuter girlfriends than slays, and every girl has cuter slays than boyfriends

and you bang nuttin’

 

[Feelsbadman]

just lol if u dont think good looking gy don't f*** averag and even below average girls sometimes
this is why its fucked dating for average looking guys and bald guys

my ex is a good example she wasn't beutiful or pretty i thought she was cute but most guys would say she is average she left me for a 9/10 model who just wantd some easy sex for a while
thats a 5/10 with a 9/10