How the f*** can anyone cope with this sh*t?!

[gascoigne]

Re: How the f*ck can anyone cope with this sh*t?!

]Oh, what a bunch of asocial lossers.

For the first time ever - I'm with Gascoigne.

FFS none of you are Blind/deaf/crippled in prison or living in the 3rd world. So you were never the hottest guy in High school with a rich dad and banging the prom queen very few people are.

Hi Saf, yup, thats just what i mean.

Coming from the prick who opened a topic about how much woman hate bald people and how much hair is the most important thing on earth, at least stick to your real views and don't be a hypocrite who just trying to be against everyone just so he can feel better about himself, btw if your so awesome with woman why you even bother writing on hairloss forum, do you feel insecure or something? I bet you have a really low confidence if you a man with full hair that needs to laugh on bald people just to feel good with yourself.

I didnt understand your question?
I am not against everyone. I did awesome with woman before, but now i am loosing more and more hair and i retired from making moves couse i know i am no more calibe i was.
The picture on avatar was when i had NO hairloss, and only reason i am keeping it on avatar is becouse i like to go in past and have few moments of admiration in these moments of sadness.

 

[s.a.f]

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Gassy's back! But I wouldn't equate not wanting to be bald with wishing you were the football captain bangin the head cheerleader. :shakehead:

The point is is its the beautiful people of society that everyone seems to concentrate on. And they make up only a tiny%. If you look around there are plenty of people who are just plain unnatractive even with NW1's. They make up the majority but are largely ignored.
Like I said everybody wants to be 'that guy' but most people are'nt there are very few people that dont have at least one major flaw, I can promise you EVERYBODY has some thing(s) about themselves that they dont like.

 

[gascoigne]

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He's starting to loose his hair and realizes that his macho wannabe days are over. :woot: that's why he's here.

That is true Slipy.
But i dont see need for humiliation; just stick to Telogen Effluvium truth, i was a macho guy and i know that days are prematurely over.
But when i read some of stories from our users and saw their physical and social problems, i realised why my self-confidenced attitude and writing coused envy and angryness.

 

[slipy]

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yeah you used to come here posting your pictures, rating guys , talking about how much of a god's gift to women you were, i suppose some people got annoyed by your attitude. i don't care about any of that. but it's your insensitive comment here that got me annoyed. not being macho anymore might be your only issue, but some people really have many bad problems and need to vent from time to time. calling us ''loosers'' won't help matters.

 

[gascoigne]

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yeah you used to come here posting your pictures, rating guys , talking about how much of a god's gift to women you were, i suppose some people got annoyed by your attitude. i don't care about any of that. but it's your insensitive comment here that got me annoyed. not being macho anymore might be your only issue, but some people really have many bad problems and need to vent from time to time. calling us ''loosers'' won't help matters.

Your post makes sense.
But this forum is about hairloss, not about other physical faults.
Its about expectation-reality realtion.
I have full right to "vent" since my "practical" loose is huge.
Its like when word-class soccer player get injury and cant play soccer no more at age of 25. Someone who cant walk without help will say: come one man, be happy, you at least you can walk at your own. But what is the reality-expectation relation there?
Or when guy who for his whole life live with milions $, and suddenly loose it all with few thousands left. A whole-life poor guy who hardly manage to give day by day would say: come one man, you have 10.000 $, i have nothing.

Both have right to be sad.

 

[ghg]

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I would be very glad if I only had one major flaw, like saf said that most people have. But when you have 4-5 and they keep coming it's not fun anymore. And believe me, I CAN and am living in the society, but I just feel like sh*t. I go to work every day in front of ppl (customer service) no matter how much it hurts. And like UCman said, who said we want to be the captains of the football team banging the cheerleaders? It would be cool to be effing normal in SOME way!

And to the one who suggested to grow out my hair: no chance, it looks worse the more it grows 'cause it accentuates the difference between the balding and normal hair. 5 yrs ago it was better grown out but not anymore.

 

[uncomfortable man]

Re: How the f*ck can anyone cope with this sh*t?!

[quote="uncomfortable man":1trk1xvz]Gassy's back! But I wouldn't equate not wanting to be bald with wishing you were the football captain bangin the head cheerleader. :shakehead:

The point is is its the beautiful people of society that everyone seems to concentrate on. And they make up only a tiny%. If you look around there are plenty of people who are just plain unnatractive even with NW1's. They make up the majority but are largely ignored.
Like I said everybody wants to be 'that guy' but most people are'nt there are very few people that dont have at least one major flaw, I can promise you EVERYBODY has some thing(s) about themselves that they dont like.[/quote:1trk1xvz]

While it's a truism that almost everyone has something they are insecure about, there are different levels to this 5hit... and you know it. You have the top five to one percent of gorgeous people. You have your conventionally attractive people. You have your average people. You have your slightly ugly people. You have your bottom percent. Many of the insecurities are only really noticeable by themselves because they are experiencing it. Like a girl who is self conscious about a mole or freckles vs. someone with a cleft lip or severely cross-eyed. Different ballparks.

 

[HairPieceMan]

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still hate safs view about baldness being chucked in their with other mild things people have, and that we aren;t all perfect.

a lot of the time baldness just looks plain wierd, your difenetly in the bottom 1% of looks for a white guy.


tbh id rather have a NW1 hairline and have half my teeth missing and have a mild case of acne (something u hardly ever see) than be bald, just becuase somethign is common doesnt mean its ok.

baldness for white guys is like dwarfism or something, its a pretty strong odd trait to have, even if it is common, i wish this only affected black people.

 

[CaptainForehead]

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While it's a truism that almost everyone has something they are insecure about, there are different levels to this 5hit... and you know it.

Interestingly UCman, you are like the alpha amongst the baldies, good headshape, symmetrical face, tall...


GHG, you'd look good in shades methinks.

 

[ghg]

Re: How the f*ck can anyone cope with this sh*t?!

GHG, you'd look food in shades methinks.

Sry, I have no idea what that means.

 

[CaptainForehead]

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GHG, you'd look food in shades methinks.

Sry, I have no idea what that means.

shades = dark glasses.
I meant "good in dark glasses"

You have a nice angular face. You should tailor your clothes to that.
Eg, jackets (not suits, like leather jackets), dark jeans.
Something to contrast to your light haircolor.

What speech impediment do you have Can you work on it?

 

[AnberlinFan84]

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I am just in my early stages of hair loss but I too work as a manager in a customer service industry. I honestly don't give a fuc* what they think I will only ever see them once or twice ever. I see people from all over the world and I am constantly reminded of how much worse my life could be from things like disease or permanent disfigurement to birth defects. I am grateful to be alive every day, sure people have problems but so does everyone else got to roll with the punches or you will end up regretting everything.

 

[TravisB]

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Can the inernet handles gascoigne AND hairpeiceman in one thread.

Munchers

That's a good question indeed. I think it would explode due to troll overload.

 

[fodandahalf]

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I reckon as an 18 year old NW3, I'd be bordering depression by now if I hadn't decided on getting MHT later on in the year and that annoys me because hair is soooo unimportant. The fact that it's so frivolous makes it worse because nobody sympathizes as we don't actually have anything wrong with us yet it's still so inexplicably frustrating and traumatic.

 

[ctulhu]

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I'm 5'4'', balding, have a small penis, white spots all over my body, huge scars everywhere because I heal badly, bad facial skin and early wrinkles on a face that is average at best, yellow teeth (even though I get them professionaly cleaned every 6 months or so), I sweat easily, have a hoarse and quiet voice and jadda jadda jadda. I could go on.

I am still living a good life. I've got good friends, I've got a woman in my life, I regularily get hit on or interested looks by different women and generally enjoy myself. Because I don't give up on life, but instead work on the things I can, and make an effort to not worry about the things I can't change.

Most importantly, I stopped wallowing in the depression I've had for some 10 years or so when I finally realized that life has a lot to offer to a guy like me, if I just let it.

Each and every one of you guys complaining should finaly see a therapist for the vast amount of issues you have, because you will turn into bitter old men if you continue this way.

I'd rather give life a big "screw you, had fun anyway!" when I'm lying on my deathbed than just wallow in self pity and bitterness all my life.

 

[superfrankie]

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I'm 5'4'', balding, have a small penis, white spots all over my body, huge scars everywhere because I heal badly, bad facial skin and early wrinkles on a face that is average at best, yellow teeth (even though I get them professionaly cleaned every 6 months or so), I sweat easily, have a hoarse and quiet voice and jadda jadda jadda. I could go on.

I am still living a good life. I've got good friends, I've got a woman in my life, I regularily get hit on or interested looks by different women and generally enjoy myself. Because I don't give up on life, but instead work on the things I can, and make an effort to not worry about the things I can't change.

Most importantly, I stopped wallowing in the depression I've had for some 10 years or so when I finally realized that life has a lot to offer to a guy like me, if I just let it.

Each and every one of you guys complaining should finaly see a therapist for the vast amount of issues you have, because you will turn into bitter old men if you continue this way.

I'd rather give life a big "screw you, had fun anyway!" when I'm lying on my deathbed than just wallow in self pity and bitterness all my life.

Absolutely spot on mate :bravo:

 

[slipy]

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I wish my problems were just aestetich but my health is complete garbage too.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

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I wish my problems were just aestetich but my health is complete garbage too.

I will take cancer if I know my hair will grow back after the chimoteraphy

 

[fodandahalf]

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I wish my problems were just aestetich but my health is complete garbage too.

I will take cancer if I know my hair will grow back after the chimoteraphy

It's really ignorant and offensive to state cancer is preferable than male pattern baldness. Even if you really do feel that way (you wouldn't if you were actually suffering from cancer) then keep it to yourself because hair loss is nothing compared to something as horrible as cancer.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

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I wish my problems were just aestetich but my health is complete garbage too.

I will take cancer if I know my hair will grow back after the chimoteraphy

It's really ignorant and offensive to state cancer is preferable than male pattern baldness. Even if you really do feel that way (you wouldn't if you were actually suffering from cancer) then keep it to yourself because hair loss is nothing compared to something as horrible as cancer.

At least cancer is curable, we have an uncuttable dissase