I'm currently on a holiday hence my delayed response to this, but I have pics of my hair. You can DM me and I will send it to you.
However, the reason I haven't posted pictures of my hair is simply because I am no longer on any hair treatment since I find the current treatments to be ineffective. So there's no need for me to post pictures here when I'm not on any regimen. The best I can hope for is maintenance with slight deterioration which is realistic for being on no treatment.
I'm a NW2, with a decent head of hair now (as you probably remember, Finasteride messed it up royally, almost was like a NW2.5/3 but my hair recovered gradually after a about 1 year of stopping Finasteride back to a NW2).
It's usually not possible to tell I have hairloss from pictures or irl but I did have some receding of my hairline, hence I too want a cure to prevent any further possible deterioration.
I'll most probably only start a treatment again once Kintors Pyrilutamide becomes available.
I may decide to throw in Minoxidil in a few months along with microneedling just to do something while I wait.
I have used both Finasteride and Minoxidil in the past for 2 years and 1 year respectively, which didn't give any results. Minoxidil hairs were velus and weren't cosmetically significant.
Okay holdup. Did you just try to compare yourself to Dr House? Lol....
Advice from you mainly always drifts to MtF, using estrogen, drinking Minoxidil from the bottle, saying Finasteride sides and PFS isn't real but you seem to be having some sides from it because your messages are often just crazy in drifting from the topic and going in all different directions, and not in a good weird like Dr House.
Also, you mentioned yourself some of the advice you've been giving people caused them more problems.
Anyway, I'm not here to hate on you, we're mainly trying to help you to keep your messages succint and not always get to going into essays. I've seen several people also comment on some of your messages even just recently on other threads asking what is up.
Also, I do assist people on this forum and via DM.
Anyway, I wish you all the best and a great head of hair despite everything.
I haven't had anyone say that my advice hurt them. What I meant by that is that I am paternal/maternal and many men don't deserve hair and they can't handle hair cause they would go right back to being assholes with perfect hair. I became a better person after hair loss but I don't recommend it as some sort of life protocol but vulnerability makes us human, not perfect boy band hair or hair helmets which are the opposite of vulnerability. Systems guys, please go for modest and not for anything that looks not real because leaving some baldness is much more honest and real and people will admire you for your tasteful hair not make fun of you with Ted Koppel and Alfred E. Neumann jokes.
I was not trying to attack you but it hurts my feelings when you guys say that and also because eh, should I or anyone be giving advice if having no success or not even being on meds. I have used every single thing that I tout and I am open about what I liked and didn't like. I agree that I am on here way too much and I often wake up to check my messages. If I have been on for say 36 hours or even 24 hours, sleep deprivation can set in and sleep deprivation has deleterious effects on virtually all aspects of life. I rarely if ever type while drunk but I do have regrets at times and I delete every single message where I have been unfair or catty and I usually apologize and end up being friendly with that person.
I cannot deny that I don't know where Janey ends and the Janey shtick begins. I try to formulate creative answers that often have puns or baldness references from movies or literature. If I can't reference certain hair lines as being common, I can mentally yank a similar hair line generally among movie actors and rock stars. Baldness overnight? James Taylor. Strange convergence of triangular side burn growth: Nicholson, Slater and Pacino. One bald and the other two holding up nicely. Sting is the perfect hair transplant candidate so I point to his hair pattern for that and also for the notion that slight to moderate balding in the temples can actually make some people more attractive and Sting's rare because he could grow his hair long without any diminution in its looking nice.
I try to steer people away from any treatment that is less likely to work than the Big 3. I do tend to be disdainful of people who contend that using finasteride once either made them bald or impotent permanently. Cause wow! Estrogen doesn't do that and I have never felt any of the things that guys claim some of them. I do think perversely that people who are mad about finasteride come on here to make sure that no one else uses it and I sort of get that. Wearing a piece or a wig or getting transplants are not the same hair experience and I disapprove generally of guys' choices since they claim not to want anyone to know that they are bald underneath and yet, nobody has hair helmets like some of these poor guys. It's never wise to try to look 18 if wearing a piece. Why no longer hair styles? It probably is more costly to maintain I surmise.
So you are far less culpable than many but I find that a picture is worth a thousand words. People don't have to believe me verbally but it's hard to disagree with hundreds if not thousands of pictures. Also, nobody has had a life immersed in hair like I have. Bad transplant? I've got pics. Improvement followed by rapid reversal? I sort of have pics like that. Massive shed? Yep. I have that with three gory pics. Bloody microneedling. Yep. Pics. Bald before my father? Yes and he still has more hair than I do but mine at least looks decent long and his never has since it has wave to it. How to return to work after a transplant? Well that's not a pic that I have but I have that experience and it's not fun. finasteride/Duta pics? Yep. All stages of HRT hair? Yep and nobody else compares to what I am doing, not even Bridge. I had a premonition to take this route and it did involve seeing the divinity as Goddess. Somehow believing in god is okay even with atheists but believing in Goddess? That pisses some people off and more reflective people get my point about believing the universe is no longer against you. Every single MtF and Hair treatment of mine has been a huge (mess) success but I wrote mess so eh I must still be tired. I joke but I do have mirrors and I know all of my aspects that I can improve. Retin-A pics and feedback? Yep. My main issue is that all of my treatments can and are known to work spectacularly by themselves but I have a stack of a handful of things and I don't know exactly what does what. So I sacrifice my science for actual hair.
Constant referencing of what looks male and what looks female? Pretty much a focus as is grooming and cosmetics for everybody. Does makeup create a female look? Absolutely and often a stunning one. For guys, you want subtlety. Just concealer and a little sunscreen, moisturizer and foundation to blend it all together and depending on the time of day, powder. White shirts are always a problem for makeup wearers, male, female and other.
I spend time with many young people to find MtF and hair meds that make them hopefully no longer suicidal. Some guys need hand holding for weeks because they are so paralyzed and afraid by all of the hype against male meds. And how can I be distracting the young men of America if they are actually women, at least partially. I coined the term, "Just in it for the Hair" for "straight" guys who want to follow more so the approach of Bridge so they can do so without claiming to be an MtF. That has a huge impact on the psychology. Plus, if finasteride is feminizing and estrogen at least doesn't interrupt with potency for an entire life, maybe estrogen is a better route. How about guys ever seeing any success? I only saw new hair after I implemented my stack which is the perfect size in terms of manageability and keeping anything said to be "good for hair" out of my stack. There's little to synergism with stacks of 25 things, except lots of mixing in the basement to come up with something likely to be working at cross purposes with itself. Why don't the so-called incels on here realize that 20-med stacks are useless?
I aim to get more sleep since I have at least slept some the last two nights. I am also fasting on soda and a can of tunafish once a day and this might have effects. Plus no one's shtick is perfect and many of us have them like Mr. Booker and Butterbean, who's a really nice guy in fact. One guy wrote a long semi-impassioned defense of me compared to the "experimental guys" and my having a big influence in knocking down myths and shibboleths in the baldness community, especially with respect to relatives having anything to provide to the baldness treatment plan. Bayes theory tells me that all of that is a waste of time especially since tick tick tick is not a good protocol. Waiting nine months might be game over.
I have rare gifts and yes, I can be too much to take at times because I am a know it all who actually is a read it all more so. I can compose and type like lightning and since I have answered all of the questions about MtF's and hair on reddit and here, I have facility in recalling what's pertinent. Yes, it would be more effective if succinct but in exchange for whatever insight I have, I get to practice being Janey and I have outed Will. Illeism is a burden and a gift because I can instantly categorize things with Will and things post-Will but he's always there and has all of the hurt from being crushed by life that the rest of you have. But I achieved two amazing things. I made it from 20 to 48 with minimal research needed because my meds maintained only so maintenance/finasteride is and will always be along with duta, the most important male med and still essential for MtF's in general but especially if they go off hormones. And maybe two other things. I am visual proof the full recovery from sheds to baldness are possible and I am visual proof that age doesn't necessarily matter for nice/great hair. Many guys would have gray unruly hair coming in but estrogen makes you younger, swear to Goddess.
Goddess Bless,
Janey