I Lost My Virginity While Traveling (finally)

[JohnsonDDG]

https://lookism.net/Thread-Breaking-CHAD-TINDER-EXPERIMENT-in-OLYMPIC-VILLAGE-in-PYEONGCHANG-LOL

a lot of garbage posts but from the page 3 to the page 9 a few of Tinder screenshots

Thanks.

I've rarely ever looked at lookism - posts like this put me off:

The guy used is not male model looking and pretty much just a PSL 6/10. Real life 8/10. Pretty much the conventionally attractive guy in terms of facial aesthetics = more or less harmonious symetrical face.
But he doesn't have flanged zygos, orbitals, positive canthal tilt, hollow cheeks, a good hairline nor masculine browbridge, features generally associated with male model looks and which are being upheld as the golden standard by PSL users to slay on dating apps.

The only other places I look at are Reddit (the red pill section and sometimes the incel section for a laugh).

 

[DoctorHouse]

Thanks.

I've rarely ever looked at lookism - posts like this put me off:

The guy used is not male model looking and pretty much just a PSL 6/10. Real life 8/10. Pretty much the conventionally attractive guy in terms of facial aesthetics = more or less harmonious symetrical face.
But he doesn't have flanged zygos, orbitals, positive canthal tilt, hollow cheeks, a good hairline nor masculine browbridge, features generally associated with male model looks and which are being upheld as the golden standard by PSL users to slay on dating apps.

The only other places I look at are Reddit (the red pill section and sometimes the incel section for a laugh).

Those guys that are on that forum don't realize the damage they are doing to their self esteem. They are raising the bar so high that they will be mentally scarred for life. I see plenty of guys who would be considered chads with average to below average looking women. And I see many average looking guys with above average looking women. Now a days, you have to offer more than looks to keep a relationship long term. One night stands seem to be on the rise again since the younger generation is not afraid of STD's or AIDS. When I was growing up with the AIDS epidemic, one night stands was a huge risk especially when bisexuality reached it's peak.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Those guys that are on that forum don't realize the damage they are doing to their self esteem. They are raising the bar so high that they will be mentally scarred for life. I see plenty of guys who would be considered chads with average to below average looking women. And I see many average looking guys with above average looking women. Now a days, you have to offer more than looks to keep a relationship long term. One night stands seem to be on the rise again since the younger generation is not afraid of STD's or AIDS. When I was growing up with the AIDS epidemic, one night stands was a huge risk especially when bisexuality reached it's peak.

I really couldn't agree more.

How did they get so fixated on looks?

I often wonder if its more of an American thing because I know tons of guys who aren't chads who do fine with women. It makes me wonder if life is just easier in terms of dating outside of America.

 

[DoctorHouse]

I really couldn't agree more.

How did they get so fixated on looks?

I often wonder if its more of an American thing because I know tons of guys who aren't chads who do fine with women. It makes me wonder if life is just easier in terms of dating outside of America.

@JohnsonDDG, I honestly think you hover as chad material but I know you don't think so as much because of your hair loss. You are a very interesting person as well. I think you undershoot with women's looks only because you know women who are 8+ or above are harder to maintain and you are a rather down to earth guy who does not have the financial needs or wants to maintain such a person. However, if you found someone with the exact same values and beliefs as yourself who happened to be an 8+, I think you would be more tempted.

 

[SteveTabernack]

I really couldn't agree more.

How did they get so fixated on looks?

I often wonder if its more of an American thing because I know tons of guys who aren't chads who do fine with women. It makes me wonder if life is just easier in terms of dating outside of America.

I think it's quite understandable for an obsession to form if you were born with unattractive looks and realise how much easier life is for those born with beauty.. Or if you had looks and then they are robbed from you (hair loss).

That being said the site does indeed have an obscene amount of shitposting.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

@JohnsonDDG, I honestly think you hover as chad material but I know you don't think so as much because of your hair loss. You are a very interesting person as well. I think you undershoot with women's looks only because you know women who are 8+ or above are harder to maintain and you are a rather down to earth guy who does not have the financial needs or wants to maintain such a person. However, if you found someone with the exact same values and beliefs as yourself who happened to be an 8+, I think you would be more tempted.

I'm not into the 'bimbo' princess type girl - so the conventional thing that most men find hot is a massive turn off for me.

Ultimately, as long as they are a 5 or a 6, fun to be around, intelligent, and a good conversation then I would happily date.

(I'll pm you who I'm dating now so you can see)

 

[DoctorHouse]

I'm not into the 'bimbo' princess type girl - so the conventional thing that most men find hot is a massive turn off for me.

Ultimately, as long as they are a 5 or a 6, fun to be around, intelligent, and a good conversation then I would happily date.

I am not talking about those type of women. I am talking about intelligent women who can carry on deep level conversations that happen to be very attractive.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I am not talking about those type of women. I am talking about intelligent women who can carry on deep level conversations that happen to be very attractive.

I've only met one woman this past year who is a 7 or an 8 and is fun and intelligent but she was unavailable.

That's who the male orbiter post was about.

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

You should have specified in the title that you lost your virginity to a wh***. This is clickbait

I haven’t read the entire thread because I could sense that I was going to start shaking uncontrollably and would have no choice but to sperg out.

I can’t really say congratulations for paying to get your dick wet, but I hope this experience getting the virgin chip of your shoulder, and knowing that your dick works propells you into a good direction. This might be the first step in getting a civillian lay or maybe even a girlfriend. I hope that one day you’ll find a cute jewess to spawn some mini @Afro_Vacancy ’s and watch documentaries with.

Sidenote: genuinely lolled when you sat down on a different couch than her.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

You should have specified in the title that you lost your virginity to a wh***. This is clickbait

I haven’t read the entire thread because I could sense that I was going to start shaking uncontrollably and would have no choice but to sperg out.

I can’t really say congratulations for paying to get your dick wet, but I hope this experience getting the virgin chip of your shoulder, and knowing that your dick works propells you into a good direction. This might be the first step in getting a civillian lay or maybe even a girlfriend. I hope that one day you’ll find a cute jewess to spawn some mini @Afro_Vacancy ’s and watch documentaries with.

Sidenote: genuinely lolled when you sat down on a different couch than her.

Thanks.

I decided a few years back that I have no objection to seeing prostitutes, as long as it's regulated and therefore safe. There's an element of arbitrariness in our society, in some states you can be married at 15, you can't drink alcohol till you're 21. You can buy a dozen semi-automatic rifles but you can't buy a joint of weed, you can open a casino but not a brothel, etc. I think that I'm smart enough to make my own morality rather than to rely on the state or conventional norms which do not have my best interests in mind.

Losing one's virginity to a prostitute also used to be more common in other parts of the world. Men don't actually have a virginity, there's no hymen, it's purely psychological, which can affect what couch one sits on.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Thanks.

I decided a few years back that I have no objection to seeing prostitutes, as long as it's regulated and therefore safe. There's an element of arbitrariness in our society, in some states you can be married at 15, you can't drink alcohol till you're 21. You can buy a dozen semi-automatic rifles but you can't buy a joint of weed, you can open a casino but not a brothel, etc. I think that I'm smart enough to make my own morality rather than to rely on the state or conventional norms which do not have my best interests in mind.

Losing one's virginity to a prostitute also used to be more common in other parts of the world. Men don't actually have a virginity, there's no hymen, it's purely psychological, which can affect what couch one sits on.

I think both symbolically and psychologically losing your virginity is fantastic.

Symbolically because you now don't have that 'virgin card' thing going on in the back of your mind.

Psychologically because of you overcame your fears of ED and you successfully had sex. Going forth you can now have some confidence that you can have decent sex with a woman.

I feel you did the right thing.

 

[JeanLucBB]

Thanks.

I decided a few years back that I have no objection to seeing prostitutes, as long as it's regulated and therefore safe. There's an element of arbitrariness in our society, in some states you can be married at 15, you can't drink alcohol till you're 21. You can buy a dozen semi-automatic rifles but you can't buy a joint of weed, you can open a casino but not a brothel, etc. I think that I'm smart enough to make my own morality rather than to rely on the state or conventional norms which do not have my best interests in mind.

Losing one's virginity to a prostitute also used to be more common in other parts of the world. Men don't actually have a virginity, there's no hymen, it's purely psychological, which can affect what couch one sits on.

One of the guys I know with gets virtually an infinite stream of sex at this point and has very strong sense of game with women lost his virginity to a prostitute when he was 18. Apart from the societal feelings towards this, it removes a natural psychological barrier and social pressure involved which is worthwhile. I lost mine to a random girl I met in town when I was 20 and it certainly aided in a healthier view towards sex and women in general getting it over with, prior to that my outlook on incelism etc was very unhealthy. Probably would have saved a lot of anguish from 18-20 if I had just lost it to a prostitute to begin with. If the only sex you have in your life is with a prostitute that's a genuine problem I think, but otherwise its smart especially at your age to deal with it to avoid any mental focus where you don't need it or awkward situations if you're with a girl you're dating.

 

[CopeForLife]

You should have specified in the title that you lost your virginity to a wh***. This is clickbait

I haven’t read the entire thread because I could sense that I was going to start shaking uncontrollably and would have no choice but to sperg out.

I can’t really say congratulations for paying to get your dick wet, but I hope this experience getting the virgin chip of your shoulder, and knowing that your dick works propells you into a good direction. This might be the first step in getting a civillian lay or maybe even a girlfriend. I hope that one day you’ll find a cute jewess to spawn some mini @Afro_Vacancy ’s and watch documentaries with.

Sidenote: genuinely lolled when you sat down on a different couch than her.

I think that finally overcoming ED is more important than inserting penis into a vagena. That was a point.

 

[Roberto_72]

This thread made my day

10/10

 

[shookwun]

I think that finally overcoming ED is more important than inserting penis into a vagena. That was a point.

Only way to overcome incel ED

is through experience, so David made progress either way. All though it's not a step I would personally take, his next should be to learn how to actually meet women.

That crippling ED-limp dick can make you feel like a beta-loser cuck.


I keep trying to reinforce to you people around here that you must approach to overcome your fear of failure. Until @Afro_Vacancy does this, then he will be stuck.

This involves actually meeting women through hobbies and interest - yoga, gym. Whatever

 

[CaptainForehead]

This thread made my day

10/10

27 likes of the OP. Might be a record for @Afro_Vacancy

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Only way to overcome incel ED

is through experience, so David made progress either way. All though it's not a step I would personally take, his next should be to learn how to actually meet women.

That crippling ED-limp dick can make you feel like a beta-loser cuck.


I keep trying to reinforce to you people around here that you must approach to overcome your fear of failure. Until @Afro_Vacancy does this, then he will be stuck.

This involves actually meeting women through hobbies and interest - yoga, gym. Whatever

I'm pretty sure Davids tried extensively over the years.

The thing I think he is missing, and I'm somewhat guessing here, is the ability to make a direct move on a woman and risk complete rejection.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

27 likes of the OP. Might be a record for @Afro_Vacancy

I had 20-something likes for my topic describing the cognitive tax of hairloss and general ugliness.

 

[swingline747]

kudos my man. Every guy here should be doing this. Every guy alive needs to do it once. Honestly in the grand scheme of things it seems the smarter option for the long run, unless you are lucky enough to find some decent friends with bens.

 

[Exodus2011]

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kudos my man. Every guy here should be doing this. Every guy alive needs to do it once. Honestly in the grand scheme of things it seems the smarter option for the long run, unless you are lucky enough to find some decent friends with bens.

what is the smarter option? incels losing virginity to hoes? or going for hoes more than civilians? what?