Interesting Study On Attractiveness Overestimation

EvilLocks

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I just want a cute, young 7/10, with a fun personality who I click with. It doesn't sound like a lot but it is.

Not to be rude, but if you are a 4-5/10 right now and want yourself a young 7/10 it is a bit much to ask. I know it's not what you wanna hear but it's the truth. A lot of people do not wanna date down on their own level, so that's where it becomes a problem. I still understand why you want a cute 7/10 though, most people are attracted to attractive people. It's just a shame that those attractive people are usually attracted to other attractive people.
 

sunchyme1

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I'm about a 4, maybe a 5 out of ten. Prior to hairloss I was a 6. I consider that a fair rating (I'm not BDD), especially given the saucer like slick bald circle on the back of my head. I've balded a lot like Zidane. Kept a thin but serviceable NW2.5 hairline at the front, but the back is bald to the bone. I've also not got great eyes; they're very 'feminine', big, buggish and a little out of proportion with the rest of my face (not by a lot, but it's noticeable). I've had a fair go with the girls, but I've been incel for over 2 years now. They're just not interested. I crash out on Tinder and Bumble (zero matches) and the few times I've gone clubbing have just been disastrous. Few girls wanted to talk to me and that ones that did were significantly below average, and had poor personalities to boot. I could probably get laid with a 3 maybe a 4 out of ten if I wanted to, but I just don't consider a half-hearted shag with a girl that I'm not really attracted to to be worth all the effort. I don't want a catwalk model or anything, nor am I one of those guys who is only attracted to pornstars. I just want a cute, young 7/10, with a fun personality who I click with. It doesn't sound like a lot but it is. There aren't that many girls that make that grade, maybe 20-30% of girls I find genuinely attractive and when you factor in personality its closer to 10%. Naturally these girls are only interested in Chad's and fair play to them, if I was in their position I wouldn't be interested in me either. A slick bald, 25 yr old with an average face just isn't what they're looking for. I suspect @ThatGuy or someone similar will berate me that my standards are too high, I'm not being realistic etc. But reality sucks balls. And I'm not asking for anything superhuman like laser vision or anything. There are plenty of people of there who have got what I'm looking for. They're the minority sure, but they're not exactly abnormal. What's the point in dating a girl that I'm not interested in? I'd rather just focus my energies elsewhere. Less rejection, less stress, less disappointment.

sh*t man i feel for u

sounds like you go for the same type of girl i do. cute but cool too. there pretty f*****g rare anyway, let alone when your balding. it f*****g sucks man. but those girls who are cool as well as good looking are out there. regardless of the balding (if not too bad). i saw a 8/10 with a balding dude recently who was 6/10 looks. dunno what the hair was (he had cap on, but defo bald). plus seemed pretty insecure/boring. she was gorgeous. but in a cute cool type of way

looking at your pic you the have the face to pull off balding look. in couple years itll be better for you. regardless of hm tech available.

i like you man, i hope things work out.
 

CopeForLife

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I'm about a 4, maybe a 5 out of ten. I've been incel for over 2 years now. I could probably get laid with a 3 maybe a 4 out of ten if I wanted to, but I just don't consider a half-hearted shag with a girl that I'm not really attracted to to be worth all the effort. I don't want a catwalk model or anything, nor am I one of those guys who is only attracted to pornstars. I just want a cute, young 7/10, with a fun personality who I click with. It doesn't sound like a lot but it is. What's the point in dating a girl that I'm not interested in? I'd rather just focus my energies elsewhere (i.e. in hobbies, studying, work etc). Less rejection, less stress, less disappointment.

 

Captain Rex

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It may give you insomnia and other severe sleep disorders.
but they can't be compared with your profile pic,....so scary what the f*** is that without a nose, only two long canine teeth.....
 

CopeForLife

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Just googled Luss and I agree 100%; she's not attractive at all.

She has some kind of alien look I like her here

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Also I find her overbite (upper teeth are protruding) as charming

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It may give you insomnia and other severe sleep disorders.

I see my face every day I'll be fine
 

CopeForLife

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I hope you are. I was certain there was no way you were as ugly as you claimed and now that you know that you're a 6.5/10, I expect you to get out there and go get some poon.
Sincerely,
Freddy D

I told many times I am sure dante has tremendous potential.

His scull, voice, attitude.

If House really rated him 6/10 he has BDD for sure.
 

resu

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This is the kind of girl I find attractive (with a bubbly, good-girl/bad-girl personality):





(I think my tastes are very similar to @CopeForLife 's actually. I prefer 'cute' over 'hot', though someone can combine the two is ideal)

Everyone wants a cute and cozy girlfriend that isn't crazy, competition will be fierce for the 6-7, 8-10 take a lot of effort and require a lot of check marks when it comes to looks, money and social status. 5 is average and is very hard too because of the high number of lonely males that will do anything to be with anyone and because they're not a looker no one feels intimidated to make a move on them.
 

CopeForLife

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Yes, tremendous potential indeed. I have two simple questions:

1)After all I went through and considering how other people treated me, do you honestly believe I'm actually a 5--6/10?
2)After the accident with my colleagues, do you think I would really send a picture of myself to a complete stranger on an internet forum?

1. maybe you misinterpreted and those chicks (colleagues) were playing with you like, you know, boys pulling the girl's braids in kindergarden
2. if you are 6/10 you should be confident enough to send

(not srs)
 

Patrick_Bateman

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Everyone wants a cute and cozy girlfriend that isn't crazy, competition will be fierce for the 6-7, 8-10 take a lot of effort and require a lot of check marks when it comes to looks, money and social status. 5 is average and is very hard too because of the high number of lonely males that will do anything to be with anyone and because they're not a looker no one feels intimidated to make a move on them.
Everyone wants the cute girls? Guess I'll have to take the hot ones :rolleyes:
 

CopeForLife

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Everyone wants a cute and cozy girlfriend that isn't crazy, competition will be fierce for the 6-7, 8-10 take a lot of effort and require a lot of check marks when it comes to looks, money and social status. 5 is average and is very hard too because of the high number of lonely males that will do anything to be with anyone and because they're not a looker no one feels intimidated to make a move on them.

That's why LDAR
 
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