I know this is all totally irrelevant now, but anyway. I actually am considering holding off on dating until either I go bald or there is guaranteed maintenance/potential cure - waiting until im sixty for that last one probs I know. I feel it would be a bit misleading to attract someone now to then bust out the baldness shortly after. I know thats probably a stupid way of thinking and that it shoudlnt matter. But I think id want someone to love my shiny head from the start ... if thats possible.
Dude wtf ? It worries me that you're 30 years old and have that sort of view. You start dating someone initially because of the combination of attraction and you like them as people, but what develops is far beyond that. Like it or not after 5 years the way you look at your partner and vice versa isnt like the first time you undressed them. They develop as your best friend and partner if its made to be. They're not gonna drop you cause you lost your hair or w/e. Just like if i was married and my wife was like a burns victim or became paralysed she's still that same person - the love of her looks has been replaced be an underlying sentiment far more powerful.