It is depressing to see somebody like Xander have so much trouble.
I'm improving my looks the best I can. It's a slow process as my willpower is not perfect, but I do what I can. That said I'll likely never be as good looking as Xander is now, so it's discouraging to see him have so much trouble.
On the other hand I do get some matches now, so perhaps improvement can lead to better returns.
Where the f*** are the women.
David, I see people that are less good looking than Xander with beautiful women all the time. Don't fall for the extreme propaganda that some people on this forum try to spread. My question to you is, when you go out to malls, movie theaters, restaurants, etc, how often do you see average guys with decent looking women? That's a far more reliable indicator than what you read on internet forums.