Look At This Hot Guy And His Average Gf. People's Response Are So Mean

[Dench57]

if you aren't chaining her up chances are she will cheat on you.

i hear that brother. ever since 50 shades

 

[Exodus2011]

on a related note i'm extremely curious about what gender relations would be like in 50 years or so lol.

 

[Exodus2011]

i hear that brother. ever since 50 shades

lol you know what i mean. ugly guy now, ugly guy in the 50s, its the same thing. the girl wont be turned on by you haha

 

[hairblues]

I do think the value given to a man/woman's looks, the divide, has become much closer in the last 10 years or so due the explosion of online dating, the internet in general, and the waning need for the man to be the "provider" (outdated in 2017 but what a large proportion of relationships would be based on historically). Female hypergamy is real and I've no doubt women can get sex easier than men, I don't think anyone can debate that. However I don't think that automatically translates to "women have it easier than men" unless we're purely talking sex. Not fulfilling, basic human intimacy, just sex.

not many women want just sex from random men...very few.

I have known promiscuous women as a teen and in my 20s and most of them were using sex to either numb out from fucked up sh*t or using it to validate themselves. very very very few it was for pure pleasure. I'm talking random hook ups.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

not many women want just sex from random men...very few.

I have known promiscuous women as a teen and in my 20s and most of them were using sex to either numb out from fucked up sh*t or using it to validate themselves. very very very few it was for pure pleasure. I'm talking random hook ups.

The 6/10 women can get sex from 8/10 men but not relationships, I think that's likely true, I have no qualms believing it.

But they can also easily get relationships for 6/10 men.

Always in online dating I feel like I'm racing against the clock. I have to move as fast as possible. There's always lots of other guys talking to them, if they want them.

Last women I was enthusiastic about, we canceled a date because I had the flu. I texted her a week later and asked to meet again,
"I'm kind of seeing someone as of this Saturday."

 

[hairblues]

The 6/10 women can get sex from 8/10 men but not relationships, I think that's likely true, I have no qualms believing it.

But they can also easily get relationships for 6/10 men
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I'm not sure what that has to do with what i wrote.

I think you are not reading what i wrote and absorbing it.

We are talking about two different things.


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[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm not sure what that has to do with what i wrote.

I think you are not reading what i wrote and absorbing it.

We are talking about two different things.


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You're right, it's a better follow-up to the general conversation than to the specific post I quoted. It might have been clearer if I had quoted a few posts together rather than assumed the context.

 

[hairblues]

You're right, it's a better follow-up to the general conversation than to the specific post I quoted. It might have been clearer if I had quoted a few posts together rather than assumed the context.

you are talking about this....but i find it hard to believe one gender of a generation has become so selective over the other gender of same generation...I don't really understand why it would be only one gender unless women were in scarcity.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/lariss...men-unable-to-find-dateable-men/#c24aa1584867

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

you are talking about this....but i find it hard to believe one gender of a generation has become so selective over the other gender of same generation...I don't really understand why it would be only one gender unless women were in scarcity.

https://www.forbes.com/sites/lariss...men-unable-to-find-dateable-men/#c24aa1584867

I have some speculative ideas, but I'm not very confident that they're correct.

Online dating and social media are transformative though. It's a decent possibility.

 

[shookwun]

I do think the value given to a man/woman's looks, the divide, has become much closer in the last 10 years or so due the explosion of online dating, the internet in general, and the waning need for the man to be the "provider" (outdated in 2017 but what a large proportion of relationships would be based on historically). Female hypergamy is real and I've no doubt women can get sex easier than men, I don't think anyone can debate that. However I don't think that automatically translates to "women have it easier than men" unless we're purely talking sex. Not fulfilling, basic human intimacy, just sex.

Well seeing as this is hair loss talk, that's all a balding man cares about - female intimacy, sex.

Being a provider is not as valued today as it was during our fathers generation.


I mean money matters, if you make it enough. But what is enough? I would say at minimum 100,000K


If we don't meet that quota, then the act of being a provider is irrelevant.


LOOKS. Invest in your rugs, plugs and surgeries! it's the only way we are going to make it.

 

[hairblues]

Well seeing as this is hair loss talk, that's all a balding man cares about - female intimacy, sex.

Being a provider is not as valued today as it was during our fathers generation.


I mean money matters, if you make it enough. But what is enough? I would say at minimum 100,000K


If we don't meet that quota, then the act of being a provider is irrelevant.


LOOKS. Invest in your rugs, plugs and surgeries! it's the only way we are going to make it.

i think men making more than the woman is a good dynamic to have in a relationship.

I think m/f sexual dynamic it's just always good for the woman to respect the man she is with or look up to him a little bit.

if you respect someone your with you are not going to cheat on them

If you don't respect them other men start to look better.

Young girls can say and think a lot of sh*t but deep down that is just nature.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

i think men making more than the woman is a good dynamic to have in a relationship.

I think m/f sexual dynamic it's just always good for the woman to respect the man she is with or look up to him a little bit.

if you respect someone your with you are not going to cheat on them

If you don't respect them other men start to look better.

Young girls can say and think a lot of sh*t but deep down that is just nature.

Why do you think men should earn more cash?

I only date at the very least semi successful women - essentially they must have a degree, and be able to not freeload of a man.

For me, a woman that is dependent on a mans wages his not very sexy.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Well seeing as this is hair loss talk, that's all a balding man cares about - female intimacy, sex.

Being a provider is not as valued today as it was during our fathers generation.


I mean money matters, if you make it enough. But what is enough? I would say at minimum 100,000K


If we don't meet that quota, then the act of being a provider is irrelevant.


LOOKS. Invest in your rugs, plugs and surgeries! it's the only way we are going to make it.

I'm less interested in sex than most because I have a dodgy hip these days that makes sex increasingly difficult (I'm only 31) so sex in the future is going to be off the cards.

But for whatever reason - despite no need to chase women - I still care about looks and I still want a fullhead of hair.

I genuinely think that if some of the people on here were getting laid all the time then they would still be troubled by their hair loss.

 

[blackg]

It's hard to argue against.

Men who are smiling and facing the camera are less likely to get responses.
Women either don't like that look or don't like those kinds of men.

Because they mostly look like "special kids."

 

[SmoothSailing]

not many women want just sex from random men...very few.

I have known promiscuous women as a teen and in my 20s and most of them were using sex to either numb out from fucked up sh*t or using it to validate themselves. very very very few it was for pure pleasure. I'm talking random hook ups.

Although I think you'd be surprised. I have mates who meet and f*** girls from tinder and pof every few weeks, both parties having no intentions of going any further. It's not much validation either, seen as it's very easy for them. I think girls get validation from knowing they could date the guy seriously, just-sex is very meaningless for validation when it's easy.

On the other hand I know many girls who I'd be extremely surprised if they did this. Girls who don't even ever meet guys from tinder.

you are talking about this....but i find it hard to believe one gender of a generation has become so selective over the other gender of same generation...I don't really understand why it would be only one gender unless women were in scarcity.

Hypergamy. When you can easily get sex from 8's, as a 6, I can easily understand how you would want/expect a relationship with a 7 or an 8.

I mean there isn't any argument that hypergamy exists, but much less so for relationships. I think when girls hit mid 20's most of them will have gone for looks-matched guys.

 

[Xander94]

When will I get laid?

 

[Dante92]

When will I get laid?

When you'll finally see a shrink and realize your looks are not your problem.

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

@JohnsonDDG is there no surgery for your hip?

 

[hairblues]

Why do you think men should earn more cash?

I only date at the very least semi successful women - essentially they must have a degree, and be able to not freeload of a man.

For me, a woman that is dependent on a mans wages his not very sexy.

you are confusing what i wrote with gold diggers.

Im definitely not talking about freeloading. Men who let women freeload off them are suckers. thats weak. Women dont respect weak men. They use them.

 

[hairblues]

Although I think you'd be surprised. I have mates who meet and f*** girls from tinder and pof every few weeks, both parties having no intentions of going any further. It's not much validation either, seen as it's very easy for them. I think girls get validation from knowing they could date the guy seriously, just-sex is very meaningless for validation when it's easy.

On the other hand I know many girls who I'd be extremely surprised if they did this. Girls who don't even ever meet guys from tinder.



Hypergamy. When you can easily get sex from 8's, as a 6, I can easily understand how you would want/expect a relationship with a 7 or an 8.

I mean there isn't any argument that hypergamy exists, but much less so for relationships. I think when girls hit mid 20's most of them will have gone for looks-matched guys.

Im not surprised how many women on Tinder are f*****g..I think you are misinterpreting what i wrote..dude I came up in 80s and 90s trust me i get women who just f***...what i am saying to you is on surface it will seem like they are doing it equal to men for same reasons just random pleasure biological need....and i am saying a woman who is f*****g a few strangers a month is not doing it for sexual gratification...men and women experience sexual pleasure in a different way then men. You cant really change biology.

there could be a cult thing going on with young girls i mean 'my Tinder matches are hotter than your Tinder matches' with friends? but this would still be validation if that is what is going on.