Losing You Hair In Your 30's And Self Image

[Exodus2011]

vincent if that is your body then theres your compensation lol

you could easily pull off the bald bull look , assuming you are a good height lol

 

[Exodus2011]

Alas it's not.

ok i just looked him up. i saw he is a calvin klein model. no wonder he's such a dreamboat

 

[CaptainForehead]

So what your body does instead is it slows metabolism, because an energy source is cut off.

If your body slows metabolism down when energy is scarce, why would going on a fast help?

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

If your body slows metabolism down when energy is scarce, why would going on a fast help?

Your body doesn't necessarily do that, metabolism depends on where you get your energy.

Patients had a ~10% increase in metabolism after 1 day of fasting, which maintained over the next 3 days:
https://intensivedietarymanagement.com/fasting-and-lipolysis-part-4/

Your body will do a decent job of metabolizing its own energy if you're not taking in a lot of sugars.

 

[Saurabhaj]

Well, I can't put my finger on it. First, when we were talking on Tinder, she just said: "I would LOVE to meet you!"

I thought "Wow, she seems enthusiastic." We meet a week later, and I don't know, there was something in the air.



I was just her type apparently, and when that happens, there's a good chance she will be just my type too.

As you know, I believe that looks = personality. So it's no wonder that we're on the same wavelength about almost everything.

She was absolutely crazy about me from the start, she was like addicted to my kisses, and gets extremely wet just from being in the same room as me.

We've already talked about having children and getting married, without scaring each other off at all. It's crazy when I think about it.

But she's nothing special physically, I'd say we're pretty much looksmatched. It also confirms my crazy theories.

So it's not her looks that make her "special". One of the other girls I was seeing was definitely prettier than her in all aspects.

In the end, you just have to find someone you're very compatible with and who is available.

Easy. Well, not really. It took me at least 25 dates.

As I've said before, a girl being crazy about you for no other reason than your looks is the basis of any lasting relationship.

If you don't have that, it's doomed from the start.

All users...
I am stating few things about Arrange Marriages in India in this regard..
What Fred Is saying,
This is the Exact way Marriages happens In India.
We called this by a word suitable.

Boy should find a girl suitable for him,girl should find a boy suitable for her.
There Jodi( hindi word for pair of boy and girl looks as a couple) should be regarded as good combination.
If both guy and girl likes each other,
than only parents of both take decision to consider marriage possibility.

In Marriage,father of girl decides to find out a suitable groom for her daughter.
They will scanned through the prospective grooms (boys) from matrimonial websites or community books of biodata of boys and girl.

Girls then have a chance to short list a guy/s.
She later have a chance to meet 3/4/5 short listed candidates one after another.

Boy and girl later meet out,have a speak about their future career and life plans.If a Girl like that boy and boy like that girl,marriage is fixed.
So Arrange Marriages here are like Love Marriages with Rocket boosters plus guidance of relatives,couple decides within 2 months whether they will tie a knot or not.

Now from Parent of Girls and boys prospective:

Parent's of girl will only select a guy who has looks of same level as girl,plus a job that have good prospects and future.
They will never select a bad looking guy for their daughter, also they will find a guy from a family that is regarded as good.
Parent's of boy will select a girl who is appropriate and suitable for their boy.

This is the reason why Indian girls love Arrange Marriages.
This is win win situation for girl,also for boys.

If they didn't find that boy or girl suitable later, they will cancel their marriage,even after engagement if wanted.

But if so much thought processing have taken place before marriage,
there is a huge chance that marriage will not failed.

 

[resu]

People believe the old wives tales of "true love", they make it out to be some kind of mystical entity that brings you both together when in reality it's a combination of opportunity, attraction and conformism.

 

[resu]

Good-looking people believe that. After all, when you live in god-mode, why should you bother with coming to grips with the reality ugly/normal people have to face?

Ugly women believe it more, it's the only thing that gives them hope.

 

[resu]

Don't even compare ugly women to ugly guys, women are far more privileged. Hypergamy is their greatest fortune.

You would think that but there are a lot single women out there who never had a boyfriend in their lives, not just ugly and or unattractive ones. It's more than looks when it comes to women, even fat ugly women can get preggars if they put effort, there's more to it but I don't have an answer on how they can get good looking guys to date them and to ejaculate inside them.

 

[N003]

You would think that but there are a lot single women out there who never had a boyfriend in their lives, not just ugly and or unattractive ones. It's more than looks when it comes to women, even fat ugly women can get preggars if they put effort, there's more to it but I don't have an answer on how they can get good looking guys to date them and to ejaculate inside them.

True, true my sister has 2 amazing looking girls really just beautiful but they are long time singles one is 28 and for 8 years alone and the other is 25 and always alone.

Looking really good as a woman can also be toxic.

 

[N003]

True, if a woman is alone these days it's only because it's her choice to be alone or her fault.

That's just not true dante. Many guys just don't want a perfect looking woman. The average woman is still the most wanted woman.

look beautiful does not mean being attractive. For many people are beautiful human interesting to look but thats all.

I see girls on the street and say then wow she is beautiful but that does not mean i want sex with her

I like the average woman

 

[Exodus2011]

fred i kinda disagree with your statement that just cuz you wanna f*** a girl means its likely for you guys to have similar values and personality. i mean i think you are talking about finding girls in our subculture hottest, like a gothic finding a gothic girl hot, or nerdy hipster finding another nerdy hipster girl hot. goes back to us liking ourselves

but theres definitely times where i sexually like a girl but i have nothing in common. like lots of american country "redneck" girls for example i think are very hot but i have hardly anything in common with. they're all conservative and jingoistic and shiz. and i'm a liberal city jew. nothing in common at all

 

[EvilLocks]

Thank you Joan and Evil!

Well, I can't put my finger on it. First, when we were talking on Tinder, she just said: "I would LOVE to meet you!"

I thought "Wow, she seems enthusiastic." We meet a week later, and I don't know, there was something in the air.

I kissed her about an hour into the date, and man, this kiss felt so good. We were just drawn to each other.

I was just her type apparently, and when that happens, there's a good chance she will be just my type too.

As you know, I believe that looks = personality. So it's no wonder that we're on the same wavelength about almost everything.

She was absolutely crazy about me from the start, she was like addicted to my kisses, and gets extremely wet just from being in the same room as me.

We've already talked about having children and getting married, without scaring each other off at all. It's crazy when I think about it.

But she's nothing special physically, I'd say we're pretty much looksmatched. It also confirms my crazy theories.

So it's not her looks that make her "special". One of the other girls I was seeing was definitely prettier than her in all aspects.

In the end, you just have to find someone you're very compatible with and who is available.

Easy. Well, not really. It took me at least 25 dates to find a girl I'm very compatible with again.

As I've said before, a girl being crazy about you for no other reason than your looks is the basis of any lasting relationship.

If you don't have that, it's doomed from the start.

Sounds like you've really met someone special this time, good on you My best wishes for your new relationship!

 

[Exodus2011]

sorry fred but i just had an image of red lip lipstick marks on a bald head lmao, like in the cartoons

yea yea i remember lol the hair transplant. but u still used to be a bald man ha

light bit of ribbing i feel i can be allowed to have a full norwood lol

damn im subconsciously fixated on baldness, sh*t lol

 

[Exodus2011]

im reclaiming baldness teasing, not directly participating in it

like when girls call each other hoe or sl*t or black people call each other the n word.

 

[Dante92]

damn im subconsciously fixated on baldness, sh*t lol

Only subconsciously? You're a lucky one.

 

[Dante92]

im reclaiming baldness teasing, not directly participating in it

like when girls call each other hoe or sl*t or black people call each other the n word.

"Norwood"?

 

[Exodus2011]

"Norwood"?

lmao

fuk u said bo? *mark henry meme*

 

[Dante92]

lmao

fuk u said bo? *mark henry meme*

 

[Exodus2011]

Only subconsciously? You're a lucky one.

idk if u seen my old posts but i used to be always sad about it

it got old, eventually my natural cope kicked in. maybe its just my nature, but being miserable is self limiting

either its so bad u kill urself or u keep on living and have more chances for it to improve.

u shud attack this from a mental angle if u cant do anything about it physically

look up self help stuff, spirituality, research on happiness

apparently happiness is largely genetic and a few of the best predictors of it are good relationships and whether you were happy 10 years earlier

i think fixing the problem physically is the best thing tho, its directly confronting the issue. but sometimes that cant be done

i know i could get a hair transplant but my mental issues are keeping me from doing it, i see the way out from this cave but im not strong enough to climb it yet

like batman on dark knight rises

 

[Wolf Pack]

Good post Ex. I know you will make it because this post is demonstrative of the first steps you have been taking for the past few months.