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CopeForLife

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The women is not even that good looking. I will give her a 4.

I like her face in frontal view, not in sexual way, but I think you got it.

Profile view is disgusting tho. She looks very old. Like that 40+ Walmart obese cashiers.
 

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I might try match in a couple months, but I assume it's just dead.

eHarmony seemed dead as well.

I'm not sure that there's a point to paid dating sites.

I don know but there was some great guys on Match and i messaged a few and i got 0 responses.
A few messaged me but they were not only unattractive 'looking' they were kind of crude and classless.

I messaged NO ONE on POF and Tinder first and i was swamped with messages...

I responded to a few on Tinder..i had little conversations with maybe 5 of them, mostly because a few worked in my field and that was just easy thing to connect over.. I gave my number to one of the Tinder guys who I liked he was from Iceland but here for like 15 years i think and we have a mutual friend we both worked with. I would say he's not conventionally 'good looking' in my opinion but something was sexy about him i liked, he looks kind and elegant style. Tall of course and slim--NO hair, not one hair on head from what i can tell ;)
 

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I like her face in frontal view, not in sexual way, but I think you got it.

Profile view is disgusting tho. She looks very old. Like that 40+ Walmart obese cashiers.

And yet she kept getting matches after matches. Status of men is depressing.
 

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Yuck Friendship!!!! What a disgusting thing!
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I don't think he is saying friendship is disgusting. Platonic friendship with beautiful women is extremely hard, (may be impossible). Like I mentioned earlier, I have two types of females friends, ones who are unavailable due to marriage/relationship or ones that are too ugly to f***. If my single female friends were hot, I would have fucked them ages ago.
 

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I was just joking.

I dont get what they are talking about because i have guy friends who hit on me early on--a few i even went on a date with early on but no chemistry--we stayed friends and no one was 'pining' for me because they went on to date other women and have sex.
I think its hard for an incel type guy (dont know if am using word right) to be friends with attractive women because they are lonely so its looking at this attractive woman who is also your friend that you cant have.
But a guy who is having sex--hes either NOT going to be friends because not all men want or need female friends OR he is going to be friends maybe even stay mildly interested/flirty but go on to other women for sex and relationships. And if friendship is legitimate that attraction gets old--you get used to persons looks.
 

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I dont get what they are talking about because i have guy friends who hit on me early on--a few i even went on a date with early on but no chemistry--we stayed friends and no one was 'pining' for me because they went on to date other women and have sex.
I think its hard for an incel type guy (dont know if am using word right) to be friends with attractive women because they are lonely so its looking at this attractive woman who is also your friend that you cant have.
But a guy who is having sex--hes either NOT going to be friends because not all men want or need female friends OR he is going to be friends maybe even stay mildly interested/flirty but go on to other women for sex and relationships. And if friendship is legitimate that attraction gets old--you get used to persons looks.

I'm friends with women of all types.

It can be hard in the beginning, but sexual chemistry can evaporate quickly regardless if it's not acted on early.

It is however an issue that I cannot discuss my broken, disheveled, liquidated heart with them. Women don't understand -- AT ALL. The following is a universal belief among women: you all meet the person who is right for "you", looks don't matter what matters is confidence, being smart, being kind, etc.

So it's something significantly on mind which I cannot discuss, which is a barrier to fuller friendship as I can't be myself. That barrier is not there with guys. With a couple female friends I'm myself, and it does grate them. They f*****g hate it. But they enjoy my company in other respects so it's fine.
 

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I'm friends with women of all types.

It can be hard in the beginning, but sexual chemistry can evaporate quickly regardless if it's not acted on early.

It is however an issue that I cannot discuss my broken, disheveled, liquidated heart with them. Women don't understand -- AT ALL. The following is a universal belief among women: you all meet the person who is right for "you", looks don't matter what matters is confidence, being smart, being kind, etc.

So it's something significantly on mind which I cannot discuss, which is a barrier to fuller friendship as I can't be myself. That barrier is not there with guys. With a couple female friends I'm myself, and it does grate them. They f*****g hate it. But they enjoy my company in other respects so it's fine.

There is a limit to how close you can get to a women as a friend.
 

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Yeah, I don't know what they mean.
I have plenty of male friends and we haven't had sex in a long time ;) ;) ;)

Oh I just want to joke tonight!!!

Look deep in their hearts, I am sure you will find a desire in them to sleep with you as you are beautiful. This idea that men can a have a beautiful female as friend and not have a desire to have sex with them sounds like fantasy to me.
 

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Look deep in their hearts, I am sure you will find a desire in them to sleep with you as you are beautiful. This idea that men can a have a beautiful female as friend and not have a desire to have sex with them sounds like fantasy to me.
I think you make the mistake of thinking that if you cannot do something then no man can do it either.
 

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I think you make the mistake of thinking that if you cannot do something then no man can do it either.

That may be true. That's why I used the word "may be impossible". I usually avoid making absolute claims unless I am sure of their absoluteness. Also, I can go by the only metric I have, that is my own experiences and the experiences of my male friends.
 

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I like her face in frontal view, not in sexual way, but I think you got it.

Profile view is disgusting tho. She looks very old. Like that 40+ Walmart obese cashiers.

Some of the guys here's view of women's looks is kinda depressing. She doesn't look old or below average to me, maybe 26? But I guess that's old by HairLossTalk.com standards ;) Looks like a normal, average young(ish) woman to me.
 
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