Sick Of Seeing Idiots Claiming Nw2s Don't Have A Right To Complain

[Dench57]

Ah please, I'm not going to start going into the "looks Vs personality" merry go round I've been sucked into countless times on here.

Well that was a lie.

 

[Dench57]

the last one was my perfect woman physically, but she was awful in bed. She was just really loose down there (if you know what I mean)

no I don't know what you mean Johnson, please elaborate

 

[JohnsonDDG]

no I don't know what you mean Johnson, please elaborate

Sorry for the nightmares.

 

[Vesemir]

I'm somewhere in between NW2 and NW2.5 but it's hard to tell because I'm a diffuse thinner. Very very rarely people comment on my hair so I guess I'm still good. The thing is how you deal with it. Personally I find it hard to deal with hair loss, it affects my life in general. Some guys could probably feel amazing with the amount of hair I have now. It just comes down to what kind of person you are. You can have everybody around you saying that you look fine and still get a nice girl... but if you don't believe it yourself it gets very hard.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I'm somewhere in between NW2 and NW2.5 but it's hard to tell because I'm a diffuse thinner. Very very rarely people comment on my hair so I guess I'm still good. The thing is how you deal with it. Personally I find it hard to deal with hair loss, it affects my life in general. Some guys could probably feel amazing with the amount of hair I have now. It just comes down to what kind of person you are. You can have everybody around you saying that you look fine and still get a nice girl... but if you don't believe it yourself it gets very hard.

It depends on your situation. Are you maintaining or losing ground?

I think if you are maintaining at a nw2.5 then enjoy the sh*t out of life and just embrace it.

If you are losing then its easy to get down about it because you sense the impending baldcel status.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Careful, or you'll break the brains of our resident wizard squadron.

I think I said this in another thread: sexual chemistry can be really weird and unpredictable. Girls who look mediocre in photos can blow your mind in bed. I guess it's the same the other way around for girls too.

Yeah, pretty much agree. The two people I have had the best sex with were the average looking women who we just had sexual chemistry with.

The two good looking women were bad sexual experiences - one was too loose and the other was hot but I was only 20 and I think I was intimidated by her so the two times we had sex I was far too timid to enjoy it.


btw how is the hair transplant filling in?

 

[Patrick_Bateman]

Just end it here, for your sake, man. You're right and we both know it, but you have no idea what you're getting into... Forget it, trust me, it's not worth it.

Yeah, I'm letting it go. No point discussing with @Rudiger . Just funny that he's literally the type of guy I was talking about earlier. Good looking and somehow thinks it's his personality that's the reason he's getting laid.

Ironic that he's arguing with half of the forum about subjects going no where for page after page and the only people who care are him and whoever he's harassing at the time. Standard aspie.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Yeah, I'm letting it go. No point discussing with @Rudiger . Just funny that he's literally the type of guy I was talking about earlier. Good looking and somehow thinks it's his personality that's the reason he's getting laid.

Ironic that he's arguing with half of the forum about subjects going no where for page after page and the only people who care are him and whoever he's harassing at the time. Standard aspie.

Have you seen his picture?

 

[hairblues]

Just PM'd you.

There's currently a bunch of guys with very limited social and romantic experience running around the internet making blanket statements about dating based on dating app experiments with pictures of male models.. and little else essentially.

You subvert one of their main assumptions here, which is that better-looking women equal better sex. It kinda freaked me out too that it didn't work that way.

A lot of the sluthate/lookism crew aren't event that bad-looking. They're just average, or they're not good-looking enough to pull effortlessly. It's sad seeing these young early twenties guys wasting their youth and giving up on good experiences because of minor imperfections in their appearance. Rather than looking for partners that they can be happy with, they seem to fixate on objects of desire that are unattainable for 99% of the male population. Like you touch on here, were this even attainable for them it's not necessarily so that they would get the happiness that they ultimately seek.

I had a huge argument early on with Fred about this.

I said that sometimes men have 'skills' in bed. Sometimes you kiss someone and its like 'oh wow did not expect that"

he is like 'No they don't its all their looks'. The attraction automatically makes them good in bed and makes the girl c*m..LOL.

I have slept with good looking guys who have been 'meh'.

I know a few really hot women who are not very sexual but if you look at them they put themselves out there as if really sexual and flirtatious.

I have this theory that girls with fake nails are not good in bed.

How can you really have and get into sex with those long claws?

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Just PM'd you.

There's currently a bunch of guys with very limited social and romantic experience running around the internet making blanket statements about dating based on dating app experiments with pictures of male models.. and little else essentially.

You subvert one of their main assumptions here, which is that better-looking women equal better sex. It kinda freaked me out too that it didn't work that way.

A lot of the sluthate/lookism crew aren't event that bad-looking. They're just average, or they're not good-looking enough to pull effortlessly. It's sad seeing these young early twenties guys wasting their youth and giving up on good experiences because of minor imperfections in their appearance. Rather than looking for partners that they can be happy with, they seem to fixate on objects of desire that are unattainable for 99% of the male population. Like you touch on here, were this even attainable for them it's not necessarily so that they would get the happiness that they ultimately seek.

One of the best posts I've seen on here.

This should be mandatory reading for everyone on here.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

I think we should try something new - we only listen to theories about dating and sexual attraction from people who have had at least 5 sexual partners.

Some of the hard cases on here all sprout their theories that have never even been tested with real women.

 

[blackg]

As long as you are 6 or above and have hair, no problem. It's simple.

6, 7, 8 or a 9. Rating people with numbers is so f*****g lamo/stupid.
And that goes for you too, @Rudiger.

 

[blackg]

IMO it's pretty obvious that to be successful with women you need a combination of push and pull. The pull is your looks and the push is your personality; your assertiveness and your ability to charm and entertain. All the guys I know who do really well with women have both. I've also seen several examples of good-looking guys that were less successful than what you'd expect.

If your pull is high enough you can indeed get women with very little effort but they often won't be the highest quality ones. The best women need to be chased. Hence why you'll often see excellent-looking guys with subpar girlfriends. And non-stunning guys with very good-looking women.

This dynamic matters less at the extremes but it's very relevant in-between.

All this means nothing in the face of a strong mutual attraction that can't be tamed.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

6, 7, 8 or a 9. Rating people with numbers is so f*****g lamo/stupid.
And that goes for you too, @Rudiger.

I would never do it in public but on here it helps in understanding where you stand and where the women stands.

Its just a good way to measure physical beauty or lack thereof.

 

[blackg]

Yeah, pretty much agree. The two people I have had the best sex with were the average looking women who we just had sexual chemistry with.

The two good looking women were bad sexual experiences - one was too loose and the other was hot but I was only 20 and I think I was intimidated by her so the two times we had sex I was far too timid to enjoy it.

Haha, too loose!!
Whenever I hear a guy talking in these terms, I suspected he is full of sh*t.
I think you need to actually have real sex with a real woman.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Haha, too loose!!
Whenever I hear a guy talking in these terms, I suspected he is full of sh*t.
I think you need to actually have real sex with a real woman.

Its true. I couldn't feel a thing when we were f*****g. I've never had that before and I've been with plenty of women.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I think we should try something new - we only listen to theories about dating and sexual attraction from people who have had at least 5 sexual partners.

Some of the hard cases on here all sprout their theories that have never even been tested with real women.

Yay I make the cut.

Nah this means that the data will be skewed, it will select for better looking people, who have entirely different life experiences to unnatractive people.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

Yay I make the cut.

Nah this means that the data will be skewed, it will select for better looking people, who have entirely different life experiences to unnatractive people.

But you just cant take dating advice from a virgin. Its like taking dieting advice from an obese person.

 

[Vesemir]

It depends on your situation. Are you maintaining or losing ground?

I think if you are maintaining at a nw2.5 then enjoy the sh*t out of life and just embrace it.

If you are losing then its easy to get down about it because you sense the impending baldcel status.

Yea, that makes sense. I'm still losing ground after being a year on finasteride so it's easy to feel down and hard to feel good.

 

[Vesemir]

I want to add one more thing. I'm not gonna skip social activities because of f*****g hair loss, I wont let it do that to me. And when I'm out doing fun things I forget, so it's a win/win. It seems obvious but I would recommend it to anyone.