Some more positivity

[resu]

They think him being bald is his fault hence the rude comment.

 

[Wolf Pack]

It's the easiest and most visible target. Most people don't have a really ugly face, short height and so on. Baldness stands out and it's also okay to rip into. Even bald people joke about it themselves.

 

[DannyBoyy]

It's the easiest and most visible target. Most people don't have a really ugly face, short height and so on. Baldness stands out and it's also okay to rip into. Even bald people joke about it themselves.

Is what it is, most do it out of just messing about, like when bald people do it.

 

[hellouser]

It's the easiest and most visible target. Most people don't have a really ugly face, short height and so on. Baldness stands out and it's also okay to rip into. Even bald people joke about it themselves.

That doesnt make it any more acceptable.

 

[DannyBoyy]

That doesnt make it any more acceptable.

Most if not all get dissed though, thats life, i really like to know what you thought life was gonna be like, if it wasnt your hair it be something else, go ahead and look for yourself, there is enough vids etc.

 

[Wolf Pack]

That doesnt make it any more acceptable.

Sorry I should have clarified. When I said it's okay to rip into I meant socially acceptable. Whereas on Twitter u will see burn victim selfies and tons of praise for courage.

I guess what I'm trying to say is most bald people may be unhappy that the hair is gone but can laugh about it too. I feel we are more sensitive on this forum. Honestly I've heard jokes from shaved bald guys myself. Are they just playing along and deeply in pain? Who knows. Of course in this scenario it was used to rip into him but in the media it's an obvious target.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Sorry I should have clarified. When I said it's okay to rip into I meant socially acceptable. Whereas on Twitter u will see burn victim selfies and tons of praise for courage.

I guess what I'm trying to say is most bald people may be unhappy that the hair is gone but can laugh about it too. I feel we are more sensitive on this forum. Honestly I've heard jokes from shaved bald guys myself. Are they just playing along and deeply in pain? Who knows. Of course in this scenario it was used to rip into him but in the media it's an obvious target.

It happens, earlier my aunties husband who is naturally bald, said a bald joke to me he said "did you get your hair wet" since it was raining, its banter a laugh people take things to seriously.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

They think him being bald is his fault hence the rude comment.

Yes, exactly resu.

Even though most people are aware that baldness is genetic, many still think it's triggered by poor diet, wearing hats, not taking good enough care of one's self, and from many other countless unproven possibilities when it's 100% hereditary, nothing environmentally related.

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Everyone, take this for example: Look at how many athletes, bodybuilders, and fitness models are bald. Do you think they have a poor diet along with an unhealthy lifestyle and stay in shape the way they do? Of course not, as many of you here are aware of.

 

[Isaac Newton]

yea problem is it could be that those athletes and bodybuilders didn't have the genetics in the first place

the argument is environment can trigger baldness earlier than when you were genetically destined to go bald

 

[isishearmyplea]

yea problem is it could be that those athletes and bodybuilders didn't have the genetics in the first place

the argument is environment can trigger baldness earlier than when you were genetically destined to go bald

NOPE

 

[uncomfortable man]

Hardly an argument. Its institutionalized hate. They REVEL in our suffering. They CHERISH their right to hate us. Like how nazi Germany was conditioned to jate Jews... same mechanism.

 

[hellouser]

Hardly an argument. Its institutionalized hate. They REVEL in our suffering. They CHERISH their right to hate us. Like how nazi Germany was conditioned to jate Jews... same mechanism.

GODWINNED!

 

[uncomfortable man]

And im sorry Danny but oversimplifying and glossing over details is not giving this subject the credit it deserves. Being tall, having long hair, even poor fashion sense are not stigmatized issues, hence insults by those traits dont hold any power or social signifigance....like someone trying to insult you for having a big dong. There are degrees to this that you are either ignoring or unaware of (somehow). big nose, big ears, cross eyed, double chin,speech impediment, etc are not as bad as being bald as those issues are easily fixed with a little plastic surgeryor therapy. Dont lump baldness in with those other issues as they dont carry anywhere near as much of a negative connotation as being bald.( If anything comes close its being really short ). If I had hair they would make fun of something else? Bull, they would make fun of SOMEONE else.

 

[hellouser]

Most if not all get dissed though, thats life, i really like to know what you thought life was gonna be like, if it wasnt your hair it be something else, go ahead and look for yourself, there is enough vids etc.

Why do you assume that I'd be concerned about other 'flaws' about myself if it werent baldness?

 

[Isaac Newton]

YES GUYS. especially you ucman, reallly hit the nail on the head. thats why i lol'ed when he said "if it wasnt baldness it would be something else".

the most people dissed about me before hand . . . . was nothing. just stupid racial **** cuz i went to a ghetto black school. but thats nothing compared to baldness.

 

[DannyBoyy]

And im sorry Danny but oversimplifying and glossing over details is not giving this subject the credit it deserves. Being tall, having long hair, even poor fashion sense are not stigmatized issues, hence insults by those traits dont hold any power or social signifigance....like someone trying to insult you for having a big dong. There are degrees to this that you are either ignoring or unaware of (somehow). big nose, big ears, cross eyed, double chin,speech impediment, etc are not as bad as being bald as those issues are easily fixed with a little plastic surgeryor therapy. Dont lump baldness in with those other issues as they dont carry anywhere near as much of a negative connotation as being bald.( If anything comes close its being really short ). If I had hair they would make fun of something else? Bull, they would make fun of SOMEONE else.

Because its true, before i went bald, everything they could see with their own eyes they dissed, my point is if its not baldness it would be something else, unless you are one of the lucky ones, nose, ears IS the same cause you are born with it, you cant help it just cause you can "fix" it you should? why should you? dont you see my point? they diss your nose you fix it, they diss your ears you fix it when does it end? when you are a shell of your former self? bullying is bullying, sure someone dissing clothes is nothing (even though i got ganged up on and hit, but its fine since its nothing), being tall i ONLY mentioned since the other guy brought it up, you lot moan at people saying "well it could be worse" yet dont mind saying it over my issues, again bullyingg is bullying, think being bald is bad? how about P.E time being in the gym when kids along with the teacher ganging up on you, while the others give you a dead eye? You seem to forget i AM a bald guy now, so i know what "society" is like, i see it in the same light, i dont see a flaw worse then this or that flaw,i see people bullying, no matter how, or what again bullying IS bullying.
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Why do you assume that I'd be concerned about other 'flaws' about myself if it werent baldness?

My point was, you looking or happening to come across a vid where people diss balding, yet do it for most vids about "flaws" you would probably find the same kinda thing, specially on 9gag.

 

[Isaac Newton]

Because its true, before i went bald, everything they could see with their own eyes they dissed, my point is if its not baldness it would be something else, unless you are one of the lucky ones, nose, ears IS the same cause you are born with it, you cant help it just cause you can "fix" it you should? why should you? dont you see my point? they diss your nose you fix it, they diss your ears you fix it when does it end? when you are a shell of your former self? bullying is bullying, you lot moan at people saying "well it could be worse" yet dont mind saying it over my issues.
You seem to forget i AM a bald guy now, so i know what "society" is like, i see it in the same light, i dont see a flaw worse then this or that flaw,i see people bullying.
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My point was, you looking or happening to come across a vid where people diss balding, yet do it for most vids about "flaws" you would probably find the same kinda thing, specially on 9gag.

this is exactly why you are able to be positive. you aren't very perceptive, at least not about this

 

[hellouser]

My point was, you looking or happening to come across a vid where people diss balding, yet do it for most vids about "flaws" you would probably find the same kinda thing, specially on 9gag.

Please know that you're wrong.

 

[DannyBoyy]

this is exactly why you are able to be positive. you aren't very perceptive, at least not about this

Im bald myself dude, not kinda bald or slighty, full on at 23, if people was to come to me and diss it, well no different then before in my eyes. Able to change it or not is not the point, noone should make you feel ****ty. Obviously some stuff is worse then others, but when ever someone does it for baldness here, people go into a fit, but again bullying is bullying.

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Please know that you're wrong.

Ok, but its true, seriously do it, you would probably find it more if the worry was on your mind though, and you would "see" it constantly.

 

[hellouser]

Ok, but its true, seriously do it, you would probably find it more if the worry was on your mind though, and you would "see" it constantly.

How fucking dare you assume anything about how I perceived myself before or how I would in the future. You're in no position to say that about others.

Realize this, dumbass; I have features that society would deem flaws... I HAVE NEVER CARED ABOUT ANY OF THEM.

Get that through your head.