Some more positivity

[DannyBoyy]

How fucking dare you assume anything about how I perceived myself before or how I would in the future. You're in no position to say that about others.

Realize this, dumbass; I have features that society would deem flaws... I HAVE NEVER CARED ABOUT ANY OF THEM.

Get that through your head.

Where did i assume you was anything or whatever you are trying to say? cause i said "you would probably find it more if the worry was on your mind though, and you would "see" it constantly"? i said "probably" for a reason, so you wouldnt think the exact reason you just went of on me on. again my point was there is vids out there about people dissing [put subject here] if you looked you would find them its not just baldness people diss, thats it chill out, there is no need for swearing.

 

[hellouser]

Where did i assume you was anything or whatever you are trying to say? cause i said "you would probably find it more if the worry was on your mind though, and you would "see" it constantly"? i said "probably" for a reason, so you wouldnt think the exact reason you just went of on me on. again my point was there is vids out there about people dissing [put subject here] if you looked you would find them its not just baldness people diss, thats it chill out, there is no need for swearing.

Yeah? And of all humiliation, which is worst? Baldness vs. big ears? or pale skin? or whatever?

Think logically.

 

[DannyBoyy]

Yeah? And of all humiliation, which is worst? Baldness vs. big ears? or pale skin? or whatever?

Think logically.

What i find worst? again its not about who has it worst or whats more humiliating, i seen here before people moaning when people say "well it could be worse you could be missing a limb" why is it different for baldness? to me its all bad (bad as in when someone disses them for it), cause its making the "victim" feel like ****. I also just dont see them as humiliating in all honesty.

 

[Notcoolanymore]

thats it chill out, there is no need for swearing.

Nice response. Where I'm from, we call this class.

 

[HarveyBirdman]

I love that speech from Rocky Balboa. Also Peter Petrelli pre-heroes haha.

 

[EvilLocks]

And im sorry Danny but oversimplifying and glossing over details is not giving this subject the credit it deserves. Being tall, having long hair, even poor fashion sense are not stigmatized issues, hence insults by those traits dont hold any power or social signifigance....like someone trying to insult you for having a big dong. There are degrees to this that you are either ignoring or unaware of (somehow). big nose, big ears, cross eyed, double chin,speech impediment, etc are not as bad as being bald as those issues are easily fixed with a little plastic surgeryor therapy. Dont lump baldness in with those other issues as they dont carry anywhere near as much of a negative connotation as being bald.( If anything comes close its being really short ). If I had hair they would make fun of something else? Bull, they would make fun of SOMEONE else.

truth.

 

[hellouser]

What i find worst? again its not about who has it worst or whats more humiliating, i seen here before people moaning when people say "well it could be worse you could be missing a limb" why is it different for baldness? to me its all bad (bad as in when someone disses them for it), cause its making the "victim" feel like ****. I also just dont see them as humiliating in all honesty.

If its all bad then STFU. You downplay hair loss one moment and then say everything is equally bad? Get the hell outta here.

 

[DannyBoyy]

If its all bad then STFU. You downplay hair loss one moment and then say everything is equally bad? Get the hell outta here.

Read what i wrote again im on about the people dissing you, dont twist it "to me its all bad (bad as in when someone disses them for it)".

 

[Isaac Newton]

Im bald myself dude, not kinda bald or slighty, full on at 23, if people was to come to me and diss it, well no different then before in my eyes. Able to change it or not is not the point, noone should make you feel ****ty. Obviously some stuff is worse then others, but when ever someone does it for baldness here, people go into a fit, but again bullying is bullying.

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Ok, but its true, seriously do it, you would probably find it more if the worry was on your mind though, and you would "see" it constantly.

now you are just contradicting yourself man

 

[DannyBoyy]

now you are just contradicting yourself man

My point still stands i explain, i been bullied from clothes to looks blah blah, lets say the looks (as in face) is worse then the clothes thing, still dont mean you should "fix" it to please who ever, cause when will it end? get it now? i thought "some things being worse then others" was common sense. Ok another example, lets say my baldness is worse to "society" then when people judged my voice, dont mean im gonna care and "fix" it for them, again its not about who has it worst, bullying is bullying.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

The point DannyBoyy has made is that everyone gets disrespected for something throughout life, whether it's hair loss and/or something else. Simple as that.

 

[DannyBoyy]

The point DannyBoyy has made is that everyone gets disrespected for something throughout life, whether it's hair loss and/or something else. Simple as that.

Thank you lol, thank you, it just kinda got of track.

 

[Wolf Pack]

I agree with dannyboy and agustin's comment. Many issues can potentially be used against you in life. The thing with baldness is its easily noticed, well known and appearance changing. So it's an easy and also 'safe' target. Perhaps that's what makes it infuriating for some bald people, also seeing bald guys joke about it.

Generally living your life or making changes for society is never a good mentality: you should do things for yourself.

Once someone gets to know you many other flaws could be exploited.

 

[DannyBoyy]

I agree with dannyboy and agustin's comment. Many issues can potentially be used against you in life. The thing with baldness is its easily noticed, well known and appearance changing. So it's an easy and also 'safe' target. Perhaps that's what makes it infuriating for some bald people, also seeing bald guys joke about it.

Generally living your life or making changes for society is never a good mentality: you should do things for yourself.

Once someone gets to know you many other flaws could be exploited.

Changing for who ever never is, if you are the type to keep changing for "society" when will it end? reason i bring up the things i been bullied about cause its what haters do, they find whatever they dont like and diss it, if i was bald back then they probably would of dissed it, its not about who has it worse, bullying shouldnt happen fullstop, you really think i was like "well least im not starving in africa" when i was ganged up on? hell no, you cant please everyone, so if there is people in "society" who hates baldness then so god damn be it, you will find people in society who wont give two ****s, im about NW4 or whatever my Norwood is, i mean my hair is gone at the front, very patchy at the back so trust me they are out there, take care guys.

 

[hellouser]

The point DannyBoyy has made is that everyone gets disrespected for something throughout life, whether it's hair loss and/or something else. Simple as that.

And the fact is that he fails to see the validity of disrespect from one form to the other. Congratulations, you're both stupid.

 

[DannyBoyy]

And the fact is that he fails to see the validity of disrespect from one form to the other. Congratulations, you're both stupid.

Always swearing at people why? and fail to see validaity? no i just dont care for being dissed for my clothes, or way i talk, or being bald or whatever. People who disrespect me in one form or another, dont get my attention or respect etc, should be the same with everyone else to be honest.

 

[Agustin Araujo]

DannyBoyy, don't bother wasting your time with anyone who doesn't understand your message. Some will get it, some won't. You've made two crystal clear simple points.

First, as I previously summarized for you, one point you made is that everyone gets disrespected for something throughout life, whether it's hair loss and/or something else. It's something that's just part of life and there's no way of avoiding it.

Second, with the positivity, it's simply just so one's self doesn't feel too bad because they suffer from hair loss, which is nothing to be ashamed of. The positivity has nothing to do fixing anything, changing reality, and nothing to do with having a delusional perspective. Simple as that.

And the fact is that he fails to see the validity of disrespect from one form to the other. Congratulations, you're both stupid.

Well then, that's a fairly harsh thing to say to DannyBoyy and I, and especially coming from someone who hates being judged so much.

 

[Isaac Newton]

well dannyboy and augustin, i can't deny that virtually everyone gets denigrated for something at some point in their lives. that much is obviously true.

but the point still stands that it's hard to accept always being an uglier version of yourself . . . . i really do think it lowers you like 2 points on average.

i just hate the idea of not being able to get cute girls anymore, its natural to want an attractive girl. i was already a skinny nerd before, it feels hopeless nowadays, i needed hair to be within cute girls leagues.

then there's the identity issue as well

 

[DannyBoyy]

well dannyboy and augustin, i can't deny that virtually everyone gets denigrated for something at some point in their lives. that much is obviously true.

but the point still stands that it's hard to accept always being an uglier version of yourself . . . . i really do think it lowers you like 2 points on average.

i just hate the idea of not being able to get cute girls anymore, its natural to want an attractive girl. i was already a skinny nerd before, it feels hopeless nowadays, i needed hair to be within cute girls leagues.

then there's the identity issue as well

You never know whats round the corner dude, the stuff im up to now, you wouldnt think it this time last year. Things happen, things change. I wish i could change it for you but i sadly cant, the same with me when i worried, but things change you never you could bump into that special one next week, all i know is, i wont find that special person in my room or hidden somewhere, i know that much, you gotta get out there and face those hurdles.

 

[hellouser]

DannyBoyy, don't bother wasting your time with anyone who doesn't understand your message. Some will get it, some won't. You've made two crystal clear simple points.

First, as I previously summarized for you, one point you made is that everyone gets disrespected for something throughout life, whether it's hair loss and/or something else. It's something that's just part of life and there's no way of avoiding it.

Second, with the positivity, it's simply just so one's self doesn't feel too bad because they suffer from hair loss, which is nothing to be ashamed of. The positivity has nothing to do fixing anything, changing reality, and nothing to do with having a delusional perspective. Simple as that.



Well then, that's a fairly harsh thing to say to DannyBoyy and I, and especially coming from someone who hates being judged so much.

I criticize/judge ideas only. The two of you, are guilty of posting nonsense, so the criticism is valid.