Again, getting laid is not hard, only gullible and inexperienced guys like you think it is.
It must be, right? Guys who get laid must have accomplished something extraordinary to make this girl want them? Lol no.
They exchanged some boring platitudes and the girl thought "hey he's cute", and then they had sex. Nothing more to it.
If it is hard for you to get laid, and you need to spend years in the gym and countless rejections to get there, it means you should not be allowed to get laid.
Translation: women don't want your genes. Accept it and move on. And please stop embarrassing yourself by trying to act "alpha" at bars.