Tfw Having Hair Is Not Nearly Enough

Chromedome1990

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>Spend years obsessing over and being depressed about hair loss
>Finally figure out a way to fix it, finally growing back hair
>Look in mirror
>Still ugly


Goddamn it. Feels good to be growing back hair.

But seems like being short and ugly never stops sucking.

Greentexting outside of 4chan... it will never not be cringeworthy. With regards to the topic, for me growing my hair back would change nearly every single aspect of my personality for the better. I was always short and ugly, but once upon a time I had a head of hair that I would get compliments about on a regular basis. Being tall & good looking is too foreign and strange to me, and I could never conceive of being either of those things. My hair, on the other hand, I miss it so very much and I remember it fondly. It broke me inside when I first started thinning & receding, and I have a bad feeling the treatments I'm on won't do squat.
 

IdealForehead

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Greentexting outside of 4chan... it will never not be cringeworthy. With regards to the topic, for me growing my hair back would change nearly every single aspect of my personality for the better. I was always short and ugly, but once upon a time I had a head of hair that I would get compliments about on a regular basis. Being tall & good looking is too foreign and strange to me, and I could never conceive of being either of those things. My hair, on the other hand, I miss it so very much and I remember it fondly. It broke me inside when I first started thinning & receding, and I have a bad feeling the treatments I'm on won't do squat.

I don't know. 4chan is always nostalgiac for me. I spent years there from around 2008 onwards. It's retro to me.

Feels like a lifetime ago. I guess it was.
 

Chromedome1990

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I don't know. 4chan is always nostalgiac for me. I spent years there from around 2006 onwards. It's retro to me.
4chan was once upon a time where I spent countless hours. I feel like after smart phones boomed in popularity though, most of the charm of the site went down the toilet. That, and the horde of 2000s kids that took over. Same can be said for most places on the internet, sadly.
 

JohnsonDDG

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But shaving for over a year now.

The black patch which is my forelock makes me look f*****g weird.
Hi does a man get used to being ugly all of a sudden.... I was a good looking guy just three years ago.

Now i can meet women and know from their face just how repulsive I am. I need help man...and if something is available out there, I'm looking for it.
I've read a few studies that say It takes most individuals 10 years to overcome new disfigurements.

The study focused on facial scarring but I would guess that both have a significant impact on peoples lives.

I don't think many people truly embrace looking bald until they've been that way for a long time (or never).

As for being ugly when in the past you were attractive - I don't think you will ever get over it in terms of dating. You will always see uglier women as substandard and for that you will resent them to some degree.
 

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I've read a few studies that say It takes most individuals 10 years to overcome new disfigurements.

The study focused on facial scarring but I would guess that both have a significant impact on peoples lives.

I don't think many people truly embrace looking bald until they've been that way for a long time (or never).

As for being ugly when in the past you were attractive - I don't think you will ever get over it in terms of dating. You will always see uglier women as substandard and for that you will resent them to some degree.

Agreed. It is a disfigurement.
I don't think I resent any women though...
I had depression growing up and hated myself so much you won't believe. So I used to date sub-standard girls even though I got approached by attractive ones regularly.

Now, I'd be lucky to date an ugly girl.
 
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