The Frequent "official" Origin Of My Recent Failures With Women

RegenWaiting

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But the point is the body.

In the before people would have said the 19 year old me was ectomorph.

If people looked at that picture of me at 30 they would say I'm a mesomorph.

An untrained eye, yes maybe. But I can defo see you're not a meso. Your wide hips give you away still. Having said that, I'm even more impressed by how you changed your shoulder-to-hip ratio. That's so important for aestetics with a male! You really must overcompesate with back and shoulders to make up for those hips, man...and like I say; dudes that have no clue will belittle your efforts, but believe me when I say that I know how much effort you've put in. Impressive! Nice job, brah :)
 

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An untrained eye, yes maybe. But I can defo see you're not a meso. Your wide hips give you away still. Having said that, I'm even more impressed by how you changed your shoulder-to-hip ratio. That's so important for aestetics with a male! You really must overcompesate with back and shoulders to make up for those hips, man...and like I say; dudes that have no clue will belittle your efforts, but believe me when I say that I know how much effort you've put in. Impressive! Nice job, brah :)
Cheers, man.

TBH I never considered my hips to be that wide: I thought they were only a little wider than normal.

My shoulder were naturally quite narrow so I did tons of work on my lats, traps and deltoids.
 

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Cheers, man.

TBH I never considered my hips to be that wide: I thought they were only a little wider than normal.

My shoulder were naturally quite narrow so I did tons of work on my lats, traps and deltoids.

Yea, the perception of width and what's normal is a little subjective at times, but they're defo wider than average I think.

I know everything about it(narrow shoulders). My focus too is on making the ratio more favourable. Also have arguably narrow shoulders, but focusing on the right exercises has not only made up for that, but exceeded what is considered ''normal''.

Gotta hit traps even more tho'! It's not even that ''punishing'' of an exercise...
 

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Yea, the perception of width and what's normal is a little subjective at times, but they're defo wider than average I think.

I know everything about it(narrow shoulders). My focus too is on making the ratio more favourable. Also have arguably narrow shoulders, but focusing on the right exercises has not only made up for that, but exceeded what is considered ''normal''.

Gotta hit traps even more tho'! It's not even that ''punishing'' of an exercise...
I did shrugs after every workout - only 3 sets each time but I think it helped a lot.

I made a point of developing parts of my body to look good in clothes as I realised that the 99% of time people see you is clothes - that's why I think abs are overrated - by the time they have you topless they have already decided to f*** you :)
 

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I did shrugs after every workout - only 3 sets each time but I think it helped a lot.

I made a point of developing parts of my body to look good in clothes as I realised that the 99% of time people see you is clothes - that's why I think abs are overrated - by the time they have you topless they have already decided to f*** you :)

Hah(!), you have a good point in there Mr.! However, I must add that, you should still watch your body fat percentage and not let it exceed a certain limit (like 16-17), because then your body is making less testo and more estro. Now we wouldn't want that, would we if we ought to build and maintain some muscle. Therefore, I'm a huge believer in bulking and shredding periods.

EDIT: Also, I agree that it's important to think of how one looks in clothes more than the beach. Therefore it's so important to maintain a good shoulders-to-hip ratio, and choose the right clothes and colours. Black (or dark) pants and a lighter colour for the upper body gives(improves) this ''illusion'' even more.
 

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Hah(!), you have a good point in there Mr.! However, I must add that, you should still watch your body fat percentage and not let it exceed a certain limit (like 16-17), because then your body is making less testo and more estro. Now we wouldn't want that, would we if we ought to build and maintain some muscle. Therefore, I'm a huge believer in bulking and shredding periods.
100% agree and great point.

I'm always around 16%

I've been down to 14% but my body urges itself to go higher - its a real fight to be lean
 

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A few updates here.

1) I'm currently chatting with three or four women via apps, but i feel so much dread/angst right now that I can't muster the will to spend 90 seconds asking them out and then finalizing plans. f*** this universe.

2) I went to a crepes class this morning and it was yummy. We made both sweet and savoury.
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I wanted more food when I left. f*** having finite metabolism.

3) f*** the Republicans. Why is Ivanka sitting in for get father at the G20 meeting? Steve Bannon wants to raise taxes on rich people and is thus the only person out of that gang making any sense.

4) f*** the Democrats. Their reaction to Trump discussing Western Civilization in Warsaw is to argue that Western Civilization doesn't exist. Their philosophy is often so driven by personality cults, and so empty of genuine anchors to robust philosophy, that they often just spew garbage.

Yes kids, "Western Civilization" is a valid concept. If you're offended, tough luck.

5) I hear that Baby Driver is a nice movie. I hope that I get to see it soon. f*** not having enough time.
 

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A few updates here.

1) I'm currently chatting with three or four women via apps, but i feel so much dread/angst right now that I can't muster the will to spend 90 seconds asking them out and then finalizing plans. f*** this universe.

2) I went to a crepes class this morning and it was yummy. We made both sweet and savoury.
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I wanted more food when I left. f*** having finite metabolism.

3) f*** the Republicans. Why is Ivanka sitting in for get father at the G20 meeting? Steve Bannon wants to raise taxes on rich people and is thus the only person out of that gang making any sense.

4) f*** the Democrats. Their reaction to Trump discussing Western Civilization in Warsaw is to argue that Western Civilization doesn't exist. Their philosophy is often so driven by personality cults, and so empty of genuine anchors to robust philosophy, that they often just spew garbage.

Yes kids, "Western Civilization" is a valid concept. If you're offended, tough luck.

5) I hear that Baby Driver is a nice movie. I hope that I get to see it soon. f*** not having enough time.
you don't need to spend 90 seconds in order to ask these b****s out bro. all you need to say is: u want sum fuk? works every time brah
 

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A few updates here.

1) I'm currently chatting with three or four women via apps, but i feel so much dread/angst right now that I can't muster the will to spend 90 seconds asking them out and then finalizing plans. f*** this universe.

2) I went to a crepes class this morning and it was yummy. We made both sweet and savoury.
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I wanted more food when I left. f*** having finite metabolism.

3) f*** the Republicans. Why is Ivanka sitting in for get father at the G20 meeting? Steve Bannon wants to raise taxes on rich people and is thus the only person out of that gang making any sense.

4) f*** the Democrats. Their reaction to Trump discussing Western Civilization in Warsaw is to argue that Western Civilization doesn't exist. Their philosophy is often so driven by personality cults, and so empty of genuine anchors to robust philosophy, that they often just spew garbage.

Yes kids, "Western Civilization" is a valid concept. If you're offended, tough luck.

5) I hear that Baby Driver is a nice movie. I hope that I get to see it soon. f*** not having enough time.

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yummy
 

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You think it might be better than Transformers 5?

it had better be.

ill tell you what though, i remember seeing that "shrek 2" got 88% on rotten tomatoes, went to see it, thought it sucked and walked out on the film. so from that day i have been skeptical. that said baby driver is at 97%, how could 97% be wrong? its a must-see.

recently saw "get out" which checked in at a super-high 99%. agreed that it was very good, but also far too derivative of "rosemary's baby"... which was a much better movie.
 

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it had better be.

ill tell you what though, i remember seeing that "shrek 2" got 88% on rotten tomatoes, went to see it, thought it sucked and walked out on the film. so from that day i have been skeptical. that said baby driver is at 97%, how could 97% be wrong? its a must-see.

recently saw "get out" which checked in at a super-high 99%. agreed that it was very good, but also far too derivative of "rosemary's baby"... which was a much better movie.

Rosemary's Baby perfect film.
 

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you don't need to spend 90 seconds in order to ask these b****s out bro. all you need to say is: u want sum fuk? works every time brah

It can be shorter

You matched with Stacy!

Chad: dtf? #?
 

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Isn't it amazing that people not from the west can grasp that concept, but not the liberals?

I was utterly dismayed last night when I learned that this was the latest liberal talking point.

Note that liberals believe in the concept, they're just trapped in a head space of arguing against Trump. Trump is pumping Western Civilization so the response of their central nervous system "there's no such thing as the west, dumbass !"

These are the same people saying that Angela Merkel is the leader of the Free world. Which countries constitute the free world? Why can't the Japanese prime minister be the leader? Lol.
 

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I was utterly dismayed last night when I learned that this was the latest liberal talking point.

Why dismayed? The more they exhibit their lunacy to the world, the better.
 
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