The Frequent "official" Origin Of My Recent Failures With Women

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Wolf Pack said:
CF I have no idea how you look but maybe if you put yourself out there, you might find someone who cares for you and vice versa. I don't remember you posting about trying to date or anything recently. David has really to his credit made serious effort. CF you should see a hooker and take it from there, since you don't have psychological ED.
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Before 32 I was undateable with my messed up teeth. Then with the move to Europe came language problems. Culture change. And work woes. Then came my back trouble (pain would constantly be on my mind). It has only recently got better (it lasted like 5 years). Now age is against me. And I'm not sure what would be the dating prospects of a 40 year old NW7 feminine voice without a car who only has a rudimentary grasp of the local language. I am planning to visit an escort soon. Have to research the punter world.
 
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CaptainForehead said:
Before 32 I was undateable with my messed up teeth. Then with the move to Europe came language problems. Culture change. And work woes. Then came my back trouble (pain would constantly be on my mind). It has only recently got better (it lasted like 5 years). Now age is against me. And I'm not sure what would be the dating prospects of a 40 year old NW7 feminine voice without a car who only has a rudimentary grasp of the local language. I am planning to visit an escort soon. Have to research the punter world.
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Why is it taking you planning to see an escort? You've discussed it for months. Just go next time you have a few hours to spare.

I hate the fact that I'm wearing invisalign in my thirties. Should I have kids I'll definitely have them chew their food and wear braces in their teens.
 
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CaptainForehead said:
The people at my work who studied there (they're not from the EU), they love Netherlands too. One is going back. As someone said, Europe is where the culture is. The US has a lot of opportunities, but it does not have a soul and it's easy to get lost there.

How has your brother been learning Dutch? What's his level?
They test only for a very basic level in the test (A2).
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I am not sure if the US doesn't have a soul but I did find Amsterdam a significantly better place to live than the cities I have lived in the US. Also, Europe has a deeper history and a far richer culture. That adds to it's charm. Not to mention great looking women.

I am not really sure how is my brother learning Dutch or his level. It's probably easier for him to learn as he is surrounded by native speakers. I was learning Russian few years ago and found the process to be difficult as no one spoke Russian around me.
 
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Wolf Pack said:
You don't know how it feels because you haven't experienced love iirc. Like I said I've received love from different people yet only felt it for one. I could write an essay but seems a bit pointless. Thanks for your judgement, it's not love but sex validation! Validation which a 19 year old 9/10 can't fulfil, lol!
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I have experienced erotic love as you say only a couple of times, but I buried it deep until it was nullified into void.
 
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Afro_Vacancy said:
Why is it taking you planning to see an escort? You've discussed it for months. Just go next time you have a few hours to spare.

I hate the fact that I'm wearing invisalign in my thirties. Should I have kids I'll definitely have them chew their food and wear braces in their teens.
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I don't know where to go. Also, I have no interest in a trashy escort. I will likely have to travel to a bigger city

I wore metal braces for a couple of years when I was 30.
 
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Is it actually enjoyable to f*** a prostitute? I can't think of anything more degrading than sleeping with a c*m dumpster who thinks you're pathetic.
 
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Wolf Pack said:
My friends (no really, not me hehe) sometimes use really good ones in London and it comes to £200-300 per hour. At most £500. It's his first time and he has enough money saved up, may as well have a good time.
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I would think if I were a man a $1000 maybe even a little more for 1-2 hours or sexual intimacy ESPECIALLY if I were a virgin or had ED as many men here have---is well worth it.

I mean my God I spend that on a leather coat not to long ago. To have SEX? if i could not have it other wise as a man? Not bad money spent. Especially if they can aid me if I had problems.
 
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hairblues said:
I would think if I were a man a $1000 maybe even a little more for 1-2 hours or sexual intimacy ESPECIALLY if I were a virgin or had ED as many men here have---is well worth it.

I mean my God I spend that on a leather coat not to long ago. To have SEX? if i could not have it other wise as a man? Not bad money spent. Especially if they can aid me if I had problems.
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I could have got 300 grafts for that
 
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A $1,000 for sex? For that much you better transport me back in time to Raquel Welch in her prime.
 
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Pasbrillantebrunette said:
I agree... but $1000 seems a lot to me...
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If i went to Miami for a weekend stayed at the Delano it would probably add up to $1000 for the weekend.

If i were an incel virgin and not happy--I would think if given a choice..weekend in Miami at the Delano or a hot porno/playmate sex goddess of my choice for 2 hours--I think they would say fukc the Delano give me the goddess...

its perspective you and I can go get laid tonight if we wanted to by reasonably if not hot men.
 
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Wolf Pack said:
Agree but only possible problem is a guy with ED and self esteem issues might feel more pressure when faced with someone so beautiful and hot. It could lead to a disappointing experience. Perhaps going to a bog standard £50 hooker might be better. Or if they had a good group of guy friends, going with them to a swingers party and easing yourself themselves into it with their good buddies. Maybe the last part is a terrible idea! A lot of money btw to spend on a coat, was it a leather fur jacket?
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Leather trench.
 
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Pasbrillantebrunette said:
I am not saying you are wrong, only that it is a lot of money. I am from a poor background, so. But if I had money, why not, I don't know.
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It is a lot of money--i don't mean to sound flippant about it...but for some of these guys its a once or twice event in a life time...something luxurious.
I mean some of their experiences is heart breaking. And to see a professional with a good reputation can really cater to them specifically.
 
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hairblues said:
It is a lot of money--i don't mean to sound flippant about it...but for some of these guys its a once or twice event in a life time...something luxurious.
I mean some of their experiences is heart breaking. And to see a professional with a good reputation can really cater to them specifically.
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I almost agree when you put it like that, but considering how terrible my own first time was in case it turns into an embarrassment it may be worth going the cheaper route the first to avoid feeling like its money wasted.
 
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