You could be right but I still maintain that I wouldn't give a f*** about my hair if it wasn't for attracting women. That's me personally.
I wrote on here not long ago when I realised something at the gym. In the locker room around other guys, I don't care about having wet or sweaty hair and my full diffuse in all its glory, couldn't give a sh*t, and guys have looked at it before. I somewhat give a sh*t if I happen to know another guy in there, and I thought, why is that? It's in case he baldshames me around other women we might know "Jesus that Rudiger, his hair is a lot worse than how he makes it look dry" (because there is a world of difference).
Similar is on the gym floor as well, obviously I'm sweating a lot, I'm aware of the bright lights in some parts of the gym. But most of the time there's no girls around (there's practically a male side and female side, but most of the weight machines are on the male, and often its just a quiet gym) so I really don't care to fix my hair or try dry the fringe up with a towel. However if there are women around I'm constantly aware of it.
That's just, all I care about. If I had untreatable ED or my dick just fell off, I'd just resign myself to being undesired and totally bald.
Of course I don't want this but every cloud, might actually be kinda liberating if that happened. I'd be free of constantly being anxious about my looks.