both.. self esteem as well as attraction. its not so much to sleep around.. you need to understand, i have never even been on a date. never got affection from my b**ch mom either lol, so i would legit slaughter an african village with my bare hands if it meant i got to have affection from even an average girl for the rest of my life. it also doesnt help that half the procedures i am planning are just to correct environmental factors (i had a wider palate at age 5 than i do now for example, lol).
your son, whether you want to admit it or not, is prob a lot like me , he just will never tell you. most guys can only go so long without sex or even affection, and if what you say is true and he hasn't even dated and is around my age, i promise you he will forever be developmentally ****ed up to an extent. I'm not trying to insult your family, just offering my insight as a male that is in a similar position to your son and similar age.
what people dont seem to get is that i dont hate women, far from it... i do. however, hate hypergamy, i do hate promiscuity behind closed doors and a guise of a nun in public, and i dont especially like women that dont seem to "get it". when you have a vagina, you can **** any guy you want for the most part. men cant **** any girl they want, though... far from it. the sexual marketplace is inherently extremely unfair and skewed, so fine, but dont tell me to just be confident to my face when you suck a good looking a**h**'s c*** in the same night, lmao.
people i do hate? my mom for not doing the only job she had in her worthless life lol, and the jew doctor that didnt give me TRT at age 17 when i had clear gyno. those 2 "experiences" have def shaped me in some ways.
if you want to discuss procedures , I'm down for that. i prob know more about that stuff than anyone else here, and since you said you are on realsef and have had stuff done, I'm assuming you are well versed as well.
My son had a prom date, and I think that's it. Regarding your mom, I'm clueless how any mother can't love her family more than anyone or anything else on this earth, including herself. I wonder how you'd be if she showered you with affection all through your life. Still, there'd be that void of having girls giving you sexual affection. I don't find you or anyone else here insulting for the most part. If anything, everyone has been helpful. I'm sure my son is like you in some ways. No offense, though, but I do believe he'd have more class than you did yesterday regarding your insults to parisienne. I understand where your anger is coming from, and I doubt you're like that in real life, but that was really uncalled for.
I get that women have it way, way easier getting sex when they want it, but I will disagree that merely having a vagina guarantees this. I'm not trying to be mean, and I will stress that I am FAR from an oil painting, but have you seen some of the pictures of downright unattractive women that have been posted here? I doubt even some of the horniest guys would see them just for their vaginas. My husband has told me numerous times that he'd never sleep with a fat woman no matter how desperate he was. Maybe young guys feel differently than he does.
I'm not going to tell you not to hate your mom either. I've told my younger son on several occasions that just because I'm your mother, I'm not automatically entitled to your love. You can hate me if you want; I can't force you to love me. We go at it sometimes, but it's just normal stuff teenagers go through. The way I see it, we chose to have children; they didn't choose to be born. We have to earn their love. Our children are our gifts, and we should be thankful for the joy they've brought us. Some will disagree, and it took me years to realize this, but this is just how I feel.
I'm probably nowhere as well versed as you are on plastic surgery. My areas of interest are different than yours, so I'm probably more knowledgeable in those areas. But all procedures carry risk, some irreversible, and sometimes we can come out looking worse. Sometimes nerves are permanently damaged, and you live in pain for the rest of your life. Everyone heals differently, so sometimes scars can be unsightly. Again, I'm sure you know all this and are willing to take the risks.
Even those considered the most negative posters here have touched me in some way by a random, soft feeling they've expressed that has made me see them in a different light. I have said that not all of us (you, for example) have been raised in a house full of love and compassion, and sometimes those of us who were take that for granted and fail to see the gray areas of life. I know some have risen above poor childhoods, and kudos to them, but not everyone is wired the same.