of course personality is important, if anything that's one of my best attributes into creating chemistry with a women. But from experience, it won't matter unless she is physically interested.
Physical attraction creates the hailo effect of women being interested, and receptive towards you.
those situations where you are 1 worded, and feeling empty in thougts is almost always coorelated with a womens feelings towards a man.
I can assure you, those conversations that spark like fire works, with dopamine pulsing through your mind, and c*** is mutual, and that's what makes people connect.
everyone wants to believe that it's their fault, and what did I say wrong? NOTHING. That chick is not interested. Plain and simple.
the whole 'not my type, and we don't connect has nothing to with the personality. Would literally need to be a social retard to have what you say interfere with how she feels.
When you are physically attracted to one another, everything gravitates together. Their is heightened awareness, interest, and increased speed in thoughts. We are all run, and awarded on a dopamine circuit. Boring, ugly people don't trigger this.