personality does matter, but only if she's physically interested. if otherwise, it's like being a male orbiter known as a lamp. She turns you on and off as she pleases.
Knowing how to talk to a women can be a game changer. That's how you create real rapport, and chemistry.
I recently ****ed a 41 year old women that i consider a MILF - in shape, and had a youthful face for her age. Despite her being attracted to me physically, what changed everything and turned the tables in my favor was knowing how to talk, and make her feel sexy. This same women has tons of guys messaging her, but she would let them all know that friends is all she was after. Women are actually very naive on the whole male friends part, but I went along with it. I seen numerous texts stating that she wasn't going to **** them, and her laying down the terms to be precise. I asked her why she laid me, and she replied that she felt something between us, and that their was good chemistry. We spoke for a good five hours straight, drank wine, and eventually ****ed.
To say personality doesn't matter tells me you're most likely sexually deprived, and frustrated. Which I can understand, and sympathize with,.