DoctorHouse
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You were way too sensitive that night and because of it, you are letting that one girl dictate your whole life. Don't surrender your power to her. You are better than her. She does not represent every women. You just hit on the wrong woman and that is what happened. I know exactly what it is like to be "scarred" by traumatic events like that when people put you down.In the summer I went out to a nice bar here in town that is a 30s place. I saw a girl I would say is 4-5/10 I went up to her and said hi and he said this "I'm sorry, I'm not into bald guys, maybe you can try hitting on a bald woman"
That completely destroyed me. I have never since went up to a woman. I will never hit on another girl after that was said to me. I wanted to die. I went home with a 26 of jack Daniels and drank myself silly. True story brahs.
Even with your hair situation, you still have a very masculine look that will definitely attract women who don't focus too much on hair. I know what it is like to have low self esteem even if people tell me I am good looking. I almost feel like that are throwing me a pity party. We are not throwing you a pity party.
Take David's advice and just initiate interest in as many women as you can. Its all a numbers game anyway. Women can sense when you are scared of rejection so make sure you learn how to change your body language to make it more approachable. My body language sometimes gave off the signal that I was unapproachable and I did not even know I was doing it. Not only that but I could not read body language too well. If you need help, read the book the Like Switch. You will know when you can approach someone who is interested in you.