Was anyone else here a loser even before hair loss?

[EvilLocks]

Crazy how some people can go from stud to dud from hair loss.

I believe Nameless.

I can't ever imagine him being a stud in his recent pictures, but I know for a fact that in his early years he pulled. He had the look, and aesthetics for that following era that all the women wanted.

Please, now you're just egging him on. People like nameless thrive on people like you.

 

[EvilLocks]

as long as you are a good person you are fine. thats what matters.

True.

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He happens to be right EvilLocks.

BTW, have you seen the news that the Chinese may have solved the trichogenicity problem? This might be the big news we've all been waiting for, EvilLocks.

What about Samumed?

 

[Joan]

so much truth. as long as you are a good person you are fine. thats what matters.

Right you are, Exodus. Count yourself amongst the good people.

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Maybe it's partly because I'm so fixated on recovering my hair so I don't even try anymore. But the stuff I'm saying about
how popular I was when I had hair is the truth. I only ever said otherwise because some posters seemed to get upset about it.
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So you really don't know if you could attract women your age because you have no interest in women at the moment and aren't even trying, correct? If that's the case, do you think women your age would date or sleep with you if you couldn't care less about your hair loss and put yourself out there like you did in your 20s?

 

[Joan]

No guy on earth could get away with the stuff I got away unless he had hair.
I want my hair back. If I get my hair back that settles all of the questions about
who will win and who will lose, at least insofar as those questions apply to me.

At the age you were when you had hair, true. Middle-aged men in shape with women their own age could.

 

[GoldenMane]

Before hair loss, I was a loser for sure. But I was a cute loser. Girls liked me and I was too socially retarded to get with them. I got so much attention at bars, clubs or even on the street, and just pisses it a way. On more than one occasion girls on the street walked up to me out of the blue just to tell me I was beautiful. I looked like a young Jerry Cantrell or Sebastian Bach. If anyone could be handed sex on a silver plate and somehow manage to blow it, it was me.

With increasing confidence and social skill, my hair was declining, I did my best somewhere in the middle where I still had decent hair, but was far from my hair peak. Now I've got the social skills, I'm great at talking to women, I can make my hair look just about decent but it doesn't come naturally as it once did, it takes effort to look presentable now. I still get compliments, but only very rarely, much more for my personality or voice now than for my hair or face. So I've actually become less of a loser as my hair loss has progressed, correlation, not causation though.

 

[shookwun]

No guy on earth could get away with the stuff I got away with unless he had hair.
I want my hair back. If I get my hair back that settles all of the questions about
who will win and who will lose, at least insofar as those questions apply to me.

 

[buckthorn]

Shookwun, please don't even post these things as a joke. They are an evil, sick, twisted corporation that literally butchers the f*ck out of people to make a few bucks. They destroy lives. They represent everything that is wrong with this world.

 

[scorpiolove]

Forget bosley, how about cosby instead, give someone some quaaludes, lol j/k.
Seriously, I dated as a teen and then she moved far far away from me, as a bald adult, this one instance really made me disgruntled, I was at a bar with a few friends and a sexy lady(a bartender) gave me her phone number out of a whim, she must of thought I was rich at the time, she just wanted money,it's the plight of my life.
All you have to do is stay paid, dress nice, take a shower everyday and talk a whole bunch of garbage.
If you don't get laid within two weeks of dating, move on. Don't get played for like a sucker.

 

[77NJ]

"Fullhead" here. Checking in. Still very much a loser.

 

[Baldingat188]

I'm a loser and socially retarded. Never been on a date at 18 . Some girls have shown intrest in me but I never persued it , once I lose most of my hair any chances I have off dating are out the window

 

[Afro_Vacancy]

I'm a loser and socially retarded. Never been on a date at 18 . Some girls have shown intrest in me but I never persued it , once I lose most of my hair any chances I have off dating are out the window

My first date was at 21.

You're 18, please think of college as a totally separate and independent opportunity from high school.

 

[MickChong]

Jeez! That is so completely different from my experience. Women were all over me. I never had to pick-up a woman
when I had my hair.

When I was 15 my dad would get upset about the family phone ringing constantly. He would get very annoyed about it. My
parents went to the local phone store to get phone lines installed in every room in the house, including even the 2 bathrooms.

At first, we only had two phones - one in my parent's room and one in the kitchen. But about midway
through my 15th year many chicks started calling and calling and calling. My parents got tired of having to walk to one of the
two phones all day and night so they put phones in every room. It cost quite a bit of money to install all the new phone
lines, and they had a big phone bill each month. There were about 10 phones in that house. My dad used to gripe about the
phone constantly ringing and the expense of installing all of the phone lines and paying for all those phones each month
but my mom would brag about how popular I was.

I can't lie to you - I can not possibly relate to your situation. I'm sorry but I can't. Many, many chicks passed through my life
and I wasn't even trying. It could have been even more if I had tried. I was constantly, and I mean constantly, having to come
up with excuses not to get together with one woman or another. Many, many more chicks that I did not get involved with tried
to pick-up on me. I invented excuses not to get involved with them so I could keep from hurting their feelings. Some of those
I didn't get involved with were unattractive but many of them were attractive. There were reasons why I rejected the attractive
ones. I declined way WAY more women than they declined me. I was only rejected a handful of times but I politely said "no"
many, many more times than that.

Sorry.

Naymo mate, how are you? I want to believe you, but my honest opinion is you're exaggerating things (that's ok, we all do that) although there's probably grains of truth to your stories - they were teenage girls after all! Question I want to know is are you hoping to go back to those days if you get your hair back? You do realise teenage girls change massively as they get older? What age woman would you like?

 

[shookwun]

I might start micro threading, and attaching my bum hair bluff into a hair system for Nameless.

 

[MickChong]

It all depends. If I just get my hair back that's ONE THING but if they reverse the entire aging process that's a DFFERENT THING

And the issue for me isn't only women. I am NOT meeting with pop bands and recording company execs about my writing unless I have substantially more hair.

Ok, understood. Forget the age reversal, that ain't happening mate. I think if we can maintain/get hair back, exercise, use anti ageing products, then looking 10 years younger is a great achievement already. That could be a realistic target.

 

[Rockinlove]

I am not a loser per se. However, I don't earn as much as I should in my current job. I was a pick up artist and could get laid on a consistent basis. Just that in recent times my hair seems terrible and my confidence has taken a hit as a result. Female attention has dwindled greatly. Apart from a few cute milfs at work, the younger women seem to be far less interested, by and large.

To make matters worse I have this really cute girl that I like at work; light eyes, olive skin and a killer bod whom I had reeled in until my hair loss exarcebated.: sigh:

I am 29 now and until the age of 23 I did not even have to walk up to a woman.

Interestingly, it is much easier to talk to women in Europe than in India. Hair loss does not matter there as much either. It has more to do with cultural perceptions than attraction.

Well, I'd say I was a semi-loser. I've always had a few friends, been active with sports etc. so I wouldn't cast myself as a total loser. Girls have never shown any interest towards me, though.

 

[xetudor]

Interestingly, it is much easier to talk to women in Europe than in India. Hair loss does not matter there as much either. It has more to do with cultural perceptions than attraction.

Women in Europe may be friendlier and easy to talk to but that doesn't mean they like you. Maybe in India they are more straightforward and save you the trouble of thinking you might have a chance. How long have you lived in Europe?

 

[Fall]

I would love to hear the story turned upside down. Someone being a loser before hair loss and then losing more self esteem with hair loss and then doing something about it (working on charisma and other aspects of the appearance) and not being periceved as a loser anymore by almost all standards then their own.

 

[DoctorHouse]

Everyone on here is a WINNER in my book.

 

[swingline747]

Everyone on here is a WINNER in my book.

lol

 

[EvilLocks]

Everyone on here is a WINNER in my book.

That just sounds like the people who say "everyone is beautiful!" Very naive.