Was anyone else here a loser even before hair loss?

[HairPieceMan]

at the end of the day you can't complain about your problem over someone elses

im sure there is a disabled forum of guys in wheelschairs at 20, they can't even stand up, they are VERY short and dating world for a bf in a wheelchair is gonna be tough.

anyway i hate to play the "there are people dieing or people in wheelchair therefore u should be happy that your only problem is your prematurely balding or your short", i hate people that say that.

but in any case people in wheelchairs adjust their life and move on, they dont get depressed as we are and so they adjust and appreciate other things in life, their life isnt the same as "everyone elses" and yes that includes young bald guys.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

at the end of the day you can't complain about your problem over someone elses

im sure there is a disabled forum of guys in wheelschairs at 20, they can't even stand up, they are VERY short and dating world for a bf in a wheelchair is gonna be tough.

anyway i hate to play the "there are people dieing or people in wheelchair therefore u should be happy that your only problem is your prematurely balding or your short", i hate people that say that.

but in any case people in wheelchairs adjust their life and move on, they dont get depressed as we are and so they adjust and appreciate other things in life, their life isnt the same as "everyone elses" and yes that includes young bald guys.

Really great speech about going on from the guy who hide himeself beyond hairpieces with Beasball hats.

 

[HairPieceMan]

the best thing to do is be yourself

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

the best thing to do is be yourself

Your bald end of story, acknowledge it like a man and don't pretend to be something you don't with weirdy hairpieces and hats, bald guys that wearing hats are the most patethic, their low self esteem is screaming out and they are seen like losers who try to hide the reality

 

[slipy]

the best thing to do is be yourself

Your bald end of story, acknowledge it like a man and don't pretend to be something you don't with weirdy hairpieces and hats, bald guys that wearing hats are the most patethic, their low self esteem is screaming out and they are seen like losers who try to hide the reality

When they go out hats protect them from stares and ridicule. nothing wrong with that. ask ucman.

 

[HairPieceMan]

the best thing to do is be yourself

Your bald end of story, acknowledge it like a man and don't pretend to be something you don't with weirdy hairpieces and hats, bald guys that wearing hats are the most patethic, their low self esteem is screaming out and they are seen like losers who try to hide the reality

oh ok and displaying baldness 24/7 is a better alternative?

becuase your "being more of a man", oh please, this life is way to short to walk around like a cuebald from your 20s until death, just so you can write on your gravestone "i didnt care i was bald in my 20s"...forever alone but being myself with high self esteem, didnt get me anywhere.

 

[slipy]

''i was miserable my whole life and wasted away my time, but at least i was a real man, oh what a relief! ''

 

[HairPieceMan]

as i mentioned before if we lived 1000s of years ago this woudl be less of a problem for us as we'd just buy women like property.

 

[Ori83]

You can still do that today...... :whistle:

http://www.anastasiadate.com

 

[LooseItAll]

You can still do that today...... :whistle:

http://www.anastasiadate.com

cool at least I'll have an alternative to loneliness when i'm over 30 :woot:

 

[virtuality]

what's ur height and norwood status?

I'm 184cm (6'1/4"), NW3...

Why are you asking?

I've been thinking about what I wrote yesterday. I've come to the conclusion that it's a sign of early depression. As they say, the first step to cure is the admission of a problem. I know I should make an effort, but I keep procrastinating...

r u progressing any?

wat reasons wud u be depressed for?

dont u think people like me and hpm and slipy (skinny, short, and losing hair at a younger age an much more severely than u have more to worry at least aa far as looks?

js, so there must be reasons outside the world of looks

Compared to a few years ago, I'd say I'm in a much better condition. Although, I've never sought help and I've never been clinically diagnosed as depressed, I went through a period where I think I was properly depressed and I should have sought help.

I do admit, my current lifestyle is probably average or even slightly above average and I can't complain. But, I have this feeling in me that says I can do so much more with my life and I don't do anything about it, it does feel a bit like a wasted life and that leads to a sense of being a loser.

 

[s.a.f]

as i mentioned before if we lived 1000s of years ago this woudl be less of a problem for us as we'd just buy women like property.

Really when was that then?

Got to say for the son of a school teacher your level of education is shocking.

 

[Beingbaldsucks]

the best thing to do is be yourself

Your bald end of story, acknowledge it like a man and don't pretend to be something you don't with weirdy hairpieces and hats, bald guys that wearing hats are the most patethic, their low self esteem is screaming out and they are seen like losers who try to hide the reality

oh ok and displaying baldness 24/7 is a better alternative?

becuase your "being more of a man", oh please, this life is way to short to walk around like a cuebald from your 20s until death, just so you can write on your gravestone "i didnt care i was bald in my 20s"...forever alone but being myself with high self esteem, didnt get me anywhere.

You didn't get the points. A man need to acknowledge himself that's all

 

[HairPieceMan]

You didn't get the points. A man need to acknowledge himself that's all

not really, yes genetic hairloss exists but it is not who i am, aethcitcailly i am meant to have hair on my head, WE ALL ARE, not just 98% of us, 100% of us are, we are trying to find a cure for hairloss and very soon their will be no more bald men (or genetically balding women), we are all looking for a cure, i am not meant to be this way, it is a mistake in the human race.

women have genetic hairloss as well, its far less common and obviously a woman can't function in society balding so they have to wear hair and they have a more valid reason to wear hair over a man - even a young man.

genetic hairloss is like dwarism, also genetic, we are trying to find a cure for it, obviosuly its a bigger social problem if you are a dwarf, but nonethe less we aqre trying ot find a cure for them as we are baldness.

 

[uncomfortable man]

What was that show on the discovery channel about dwarfs or midgets? Anyway, those people felt so marginalized by living in our society that they felt the need to isolate themselves and make their own culture. I feel like their need is justified based on how horribly judgemental our society is...

 

[uncomfortable man]

the best thing to do is be yourself

Your bald end of story, acknowledge it like a man and don't pretend to be something you don't with weirdy hairpieces and hats, bald guys that wearing hats are the most patethic, their low self esteem is screaming out and they are seen like losers who try to hide the reality

If your really bald then you know it is a double edged sword. If you expose yourself then they stare. If you cover up and they know your bald then it tells them that you are insecure. Everyone at my work knows I put my beanie on as soon as I leave. Yeah, I'm insecure about being bald.... I consider that natural. But always wearing a beanie out in public is my way of conveying my "rock and a hard place" stance... I'm not pretending to have hair, I just don't want anyone to see me like this. Neither would anyone else if they were in my shoes and they know it. That is why nobody says anything to me about it.

 

[HairPieceMan]

are there not any work mates where you work that are bald as well?

cant you find a job where you can wear beanie 24/7

what job is it?

 

[HairPieceMan]

you bet i was. I had hopes of changing that but those quickly dissappeared along with hair. Balding and health problems crushed me completely.

btw exodus how much do you weigh? you probably weigh more at 5'6 than i do at 5'8. You'd probably have a chance in a fight against me if that makes you feel better.

i know that feel bro . . . . . i remember at the end of junior year this pretty cute girl i was into me and i was making plans to talk back to her beginning of senior year, i was 1st grade rank in class, and gaining more popularity and friends.

senior year came along, about 2 months into it i started diffusing a lot on top of my head and crown, everyone pointing and asking if i had cancer, making jokes, etc. :thumbdown2: :thumbdown2:

haha and idk, i weighed 125 a few months ago but i've been working out more and i'm about 140 now.

how old are you now?

 

[brannon]

Loser

No, was not a loser then, and still not a loser.nfire:

 

[gerluc16]

I am just a loser in terms of the girls department, but after hairloss, BAM! My confidence went straight to the drain and since then I became a person with VERY low self-esteem. I became a moody person, always sad but not all of the time. Life is really tough for us.