What's the point if all you can attract is uglies or w****s?

[superfrankie]

Man, I know what that feels like. Wearing a hat is such a double edged sword. Sure you feel more comfortable out in public to the point where you can function but you get so used to it that it feels unbearable to go out without it. Keep us posted on this one, alright?

The problem is that I have since I first started balding felt the need to have a hat/cap on my head and it really has got to the point were Im terribly uncomfortable whitout it. But that is also because when Im taking it out I have been abused for it many times. One day last summer when I showed the "real me" I was at my cousin`s place together with him and his friend and his friend´s girlfriend. I could smell that something was in the air, and I was right: a few seconds into my chat with his friend he pointed at me with his fingers, (and I mean POINTING). And he said afterwards: "Dude, youre loosing your hair", in an almost humiliating way. Note that his girlfriend stood there with him when he said it. I was just stunned. Completely stunned. One of the most horrible moments of my life really. It felt like a big punch in the face and crutch at the same time. Ever since then I have suffered from serious social phobia. Well to tell you the truth, its not fully based on that moment since ive experienced other similar scenarios before. Its frightening that almost always when I dont hide myself under a cap I get comments and abuse so this is not something that is in my head. Baldness is not in my head - Its the harsh reality people respond to. Sometimes I get those gazes that makes me feel unhuman to people around me.

Nowadays if I can show my self whitout a cap on the streets it would be the most challenging thing to accomplish Ive ever experienced before. I just feel so f*****g pointed out. I may be exaggerating a bit like we all do but the strange looks from people is there. Its just a fact. Im not making these up since Ive experienced it. This is definitely not helping you to feel normal. How can you feel normal when people are staring at you like your some kind of alien? I know Im pessimistic now but who shouldnt after what Ive been through? Maybe the guys on slybaldguys.com shouldnt who completely lives in denial about the negativ effects of hair loss. Some even say back there its the best that has ever happened to them. I even got banned from that site when I didnt agree with all of them for example that not all people look good with the sly clean shaved look.(ITS TRUE!!) To them every guy who shave his head wear up the style. Even though you skinny as f*** or look like youve eaten 134 turkeys on the holidays. WTF!!!???? Who are these people? Is there something called over-positive?

...I promise you UM. I will keep you all updated on my situation.

ps! sorry if some things doesnt make sense. Its late at night here in Scandinavia and Im tired

 

[uncomfortable man]

Man, I know what that feels like. Wearing a hat is such a double edged sword. Sure you feel more comfortable out in public to the point where you can function but you get so used to it that it feels unbearable to go out without it. Keep us posted on this one, alright?

The problem is that I have since I first started balding felt the need to have a hat/cap on my head and it really has got to the point were Im terribly uncomfortable whitout it. But that is also because when Im taking it out I have been abused for it many times. One day last summer when I showed the "real me" I was at my cousin`s place together with him and his friend and his friend´s girlfriend. I could smell that something was in the air, and I was right: a few seconds into my chat with his friend he pointed at me with his fingers, (and I mean POINTING). And he said afterwards: "Dude, youre loosing your hair", in an almost humiliating way. Note that his girlfriend stood there with him when he said it. I was just stunned. Completely stunned. One of the most horrible moments of my life really. It felt like a big punch in the face and crutch at the same time. Ever since then I have suffered from serious social phobia. Well to tell you the truth, its not fully based on that moment since ive experienced other similar scenarios before. Its frightening that almost always when I dont hide myself under a cap I get comments and abuse so this is not something that is in my head. Baldness is not in my head - Its the harsh reality people respond to. Sometimes I get those gazes that makes me feel unhuman to people around me.

Nowadays if I can show my self whitout a cap on the streets it would be the most challenging thing to accomplish Ive ever experienced before. I just feel so f****ing pointed out. I may be exaggerating a bit like we all do but the strange looks from people is there. Its just a fact. Im not making these up since Ive experienced it. This is definitely not helping you to feel normal. How can you feel normal when people are staring at you like your some kind of alien? I know Im pessimistic now but who shouldnt after what Ive been through? Maybe the guys on slybaldguys.com shouldnt who completely lives in denial about the negativ effects of hair loss. Some even say back there its the best that has ever happened to them. I even got banned from that site when I didnt agree with all of them for example that not all people look good with the sly clean shaved look.(ITS TRUE!!) To them every guy who shave his head wear up the style. Even though you skinny as f*ck or look like youve eaten 134 turkeys on the holidays. WTF!!!???? Who are these people? Is there something called over-positive?

...I promise you UM. I will keep you all updated on my situation.

ps! sorry if some things doesnt make sense. Its late at night here in Scandinavia and Im tired

That's alright, I hear you loud and clear....resoundingly so I must say. This is exactly what I've been trying to explain the psychological impact that this accumulative abuse can have but some of the "over-positive" people on here just refuse or are incapable of understanding just how profoundly it can affect us...to the point of feeling obligated to hide so we may avoid the inevitable harsh judgements that are slung upon us. Hatprisoner is someone else who I know relates to us on this specific topic. It is tough and you can't really understand it until you go through it yourself just how fucked up it really is. Good post Frankie.

 

[Bald Dave]

they are prone to cheating simply cause they can have whatever guy they want whenever they want. Seriousy...that must be difficult, to stick with one guy in that situation. If I felt super handsome I would find it hard to stick with one woman, just because I know I could hook up gorgeous girls whenever I feel like it. Too bad thats not the case anymore due to my NW5.

and remember: Never lower your standars when it comes to woman. NEVER accept that. It is very harmful to ones self-esteem. If I cant get the girls I used to get before my hair loss now, then I rather live in celibat for the rest of my life. You will never feel better about yourself if you settle for uglier women. Only go for girls you actually feel attraction for.

just to make things clear.

Exactly. I am only going to girls I am attracted to. The personality is just as important obvoiusly, but you need to be physically attracted first, bottom line. Ill never be with someone that Im not attracted to either.

I agree that you should never go for a women that you don't find attractive but then again attraction isn't always about looks. Sure if you look at a pretty blonde girl you might get attracted to her but what if she doesn't have the personality to match? What if you find yourselves with nothing to talk about because you've got nothing in common? What about if she is a complete b**ch and behind your back she is screwing other guys?

I work in an office and I see attractive married women flirting and getting with guys in the office and i truly feel sorry for their husbands. No guy deserves that!

 

[Smooth]

To them every guy who shave his head wear up the style. Even though you skinny as f*ck or look like youve eaten 134 turkeys on the holidays. WTF!!!???? Who are these people? Is there something called over-positive?

Rofl my excat same thoughts. what a bunch of retards, i read a thread there about a guy saying how going bald effected his dating life (for the worse) then you get these guys telling him its all in his head and its all about confidence and how they get more *** since they went bald ...lol the best part is that the guy who was "bitching" looks 10 times better then the guys who gave him advice... they are like a bunch of chickens; like a mob going after the first idiot to sell them some positivity....
(btw, i bet my arse that Bald Dave is a member there :hairy: )

 

[Smooth]

superfrankie, you are young and there things you do about your hair loss, if you already hit the "no returning point" (nw5-6) forget about meds (imo) they wont grow back a lower norwood, just shave it, work out maybe, to build some confidence by compensating for your lack of hair, i dont think it will help you much with girls your age range ... the younger they are the more stupid and superficial they come (usually!), i think going with older chicks could work great for you, opposed to what Dude wrote, i find that older chicks really dont care about that sort of things, so dont overthink it, just meet with her focus on having fun, if she likes you (regardless to your hair {and i know she will}) .... :hump:

 

[Bald Dave]

To them every guy who shave his head wear up the style. Even though you skinny as f*ck or look like youve eaten 134 turkeys on the holidays. WTF!!!???? Who are these people? Is there something called over-positive?

Rofl my excat same thoughts. what a bunch of retards, i read a thread there about a guy saying how going bald effected his dating life (for the worse) then you get these guys telling him its all in his head and its all about confidence and how they get more *** since they went bald ...lol the best part is that the guy who was "bitching" looks 10 times better then the guys who gave him advice... they are like a bunch of chickens; like a mob going after the first idiot to sell them some positivity....
(btw, i bet my arse that Bald Dave is a member there :hairy: )

No I am not a member. I can understand many people thinking that the reason they can't get any is because of their lack of hair because i use to think like that before finally seeing the light. We all no deep down that baldness isn't the real reason why they can't get any and if most of the people got their hair back tomorrow they would find some other excuse i.e my nose is too big, my ears stick out, im too short, im ginger etc. You will go through life making excuses instead of making the most of what you got. Nobody's perfect and these attractive stunners have their faults as well.

 

[Smooth]

Dave, are you the one who got laid at 27 and had only one girlfriend? i might be mistaken .... just wondering.. because i remember something.

 

[Bald Dave]

Smooth, i was 26 actually haha. It had nothing to do with my hair but was more to do with my lack of confidence and my hair made me have low self confidence which is what i've been trying to explain to you. Hairloss does effect you mentally but it will only stop you from living your life if you let it!

 

[Bald Dave]

Dave, are you the one who got laid at 27 and had only one girlfriend? i might be mistaken .... just wondering.. because i remember something.

BTW, I've got a women now so it doesn't matter when i got laid and the fact is i got laid to someone special rather than a cheap wh***!

 

[Smooth]

What im saying is that you are not exactly the first place to come to when it comes to dating (no pun intended) ofc confidence play a huge role here, but saying its 100% confidence is being naive, good looking girls WILL HOOK with good looking guys, and confidence could oonly get you so far, i know for myself that when i was younger, before i joined the army, i was the shy good looking guy (or atleast above average) i perfectly remember how girls used to eye me, sometimes just approach, i can tell you that this is not the case anymore, its far from it, i can see it still happens (girls hitting with guys) in bars and clubs and guess what?! they only go for the "good looking" guys, ie guys with heads full of hair... now just let me add something here, a guy the age of 18-28 (imo) IS NOT (!!) looking for a girl to marry, we need that period just to have fun, and many girls this age are the same... this the frustration, that they wont hook up with you based on the fact that you losing your hair (talking here about nw3+), they have the power, they know it and they get to chose.
Dave, you are specifically looking for one girl to stick with for the rest of your life apparently, and you are right when it comes to THAT, but a guy 21yo is not the same, he doesnt give a f*** about ltr, he wants to have fun, and deserves it, going out with fiends picking up some chicks, hooking up, next day same routine (ie playing with girls/having fun)...lack of hair is a HUGE drawback when it comes to that, and confidence will only play part sealing the deal.

argh long posts - i hate those :S....hope i made my point clear with my "broken english"...

 

[Bald Dave]

What im saying is that you are not exactly the first place to come to when it comes to dating (no pun intended) ofc confidence play a huge role here, but saying its 100% confidence is being naive, good looking girls WILL HOOK with good looking guys, and confidence could oonly get you so far, i know for myself that when i was younger, before i joined the army, i was the shy good looking guy (or atleast above average) i perfectly remember how girls used to eye me, sometimes just approach, i can tell you that this is not the case anymore, its far from it, i can see it still happens (girls hitting with guys) in bars and clubs and guess what?! they only go for the "good looking" guys, ie guys with heads full of hair... now just let me add something here, a guy the age of 18-28 (imo) IS NOT (!!) looking for a girl to marry, we need that period just to have fun, and many girls this age are the same... this the frustration, that they wont hook up with you based on the fact that you losing your hair (talking here about nw3+), they have the power, they know it and they get to chose.
Dave, you are specifically looking for one girl to stick with for the rest of your life apparently, and you are right when it comes to THAT, but a guy 21yo is not the same, he doesnt give a f*ck about ltr, he wants to have fun, and deserves it, going out with fiends picking up some chicks, hooking up, next day same routine (ie playing with girls/having fun)...lack of hair is a HUGE drawback when it comes to that, and confidence will only play part sealing the deal.

argh long posts - i hate those :S....hope i made my point clear with my "broken english"...

Smooth, I understand what you are saying. I sometimes forget that not everyone on this board is looking for a girl to settle down with and that some people are only in their early 20s. Apologies for that.

Yeah I agree that when you are in your early 20s you wanna have fun and have your pick of the hot girls. When you get nearer to 30 you start to calm down and although i still like going out clubbing i don't do it as much now.

I understand that young girls do like to go for a guy more their own age and they can get put off by a guy with lack of hair by thinking he his older so i do undertand where you are coming from

 

[superfrankie]

but a guy 21yo is not the same, he doesnt give a f*ck about ltr, he wants to have fun, and deserves it, going out with fiends picking up some chicks, hooking up, next day same routine (ie playing with girls/having fun)...lack of hair is a HUGE drawback when it comes to that, and confidence will only play part sealing the deal.

Thanks for describing excatly how I feel today. I see a period when all my other friends have fun and enjoying life. Its hard to express how it feels to not feel youre a part of that anymore. I cant describe in words. In fact, no words can describe the pain.

...I just want everyobody to know that I work out, I have a great body. Its toned and fit but it doesnt matter cause the girls dont care about my body. If they dont find my face attractive it doesnt matter at all. I dont know what to say.

 

[superfrankie]

[quote="uncomfortable man":1um6usf2]Man, I know what that feels like. Wearing a hat is such a double edged sword. Sure you feel more comfortable out in public to the point where you can function but you get so used to it that it feels unbearable to go out without it. Keep us posted on this one, alright?

The problem is that I have since I first started balding felt the need to have a hat/cap on my head and it really has got to the point were Im terribly uncomfortable whitout it. But that is also because when Im taking it out I have been abused for it many times. One day last summer when I showed the "real me" I was at my cousin`s place together with him and his friend and his friend´s girlfriend. I could smell that something was in the air, and I was right: a few seconds into my chat with his friend he pointed at me with his fingers, (and I mean POINTING). And he said afterwards: "Dude, youre loosing your hair", in an almost humiliating way. Note that his girlfriend stood there with him when he said it. I was just stunned. Completely stunned. One of the most horrible moments of my life really. It felt like a big punch in the face and crutch at the same time. Ever since then I have suffered from serious social phobia. Well to tell you the truth, its not fully based on that moment since ive experienced other similar scenarios before. Its frightening that almost always when I dont hide myself under a cap I get comments and abuse so this is not something that is in my head. Baldness is not in my head - Its the harsh reality people respond to. Sometimes I get those gazes that makes me feel unhuman to people around me.

Nowadays if I can show my self whitout a cap on the streets it would be the most challenging thing to accomplish Ive ever experienced before. I just feel so f****ing pointed out. I may be exaggerating a bit like we all do but the strange looks from people is there. Its just a fact. Im not making these up since Ive experienced it. This is definitely not helping you to feel normal. How can you feel normal when people are staring at you like your some kind of alien? I know Im pessimistic now but who shouldnt after what Ive been through? Maybe the guys on slybaldguys.com shouldnt who completely lives in denial about the negativ effects of hair loss. Some even say back there its the best that has ever happened to them. I even got banned from that site when I didnt agree with all of them for example that not all people look good with the sly clean shaved look.(ITS TRUE!!) To them every guy who shave his head wear up the style. Even though you skinny as f*ck or look like youve eaten 134 turkeys on the holidays. WTF!!!???? Who are these people? Is there something called over-positive?

...I promise you UM. I will keep you all updated on my situation.

ps! sorry if some things doesnt make sense. Its late at night here in Scandinavia and Im tired

That's alright, I hear you loud and clear....resoundingly so I must say. This is exactly what I've been trying to explain the psychological impact that this accumulative abuse can have but some of the "over-positive" people on here just refuse or are incapable of understanding just how profoundly it can affect us...to the point of feeling obligated to hide so we may avoid the inevitable harsh judgements that are slung upon us. Hatprisoner is someone else who I know relates to us on this specific topic. It is tough and you can't really understand it until you go through it yourself just how f***ed up it really is. Good post Frankie.[/quote:1um6usf2]


I must say UM. I have followed you quiet a long time here and you have my sympathy and fully respect. I know youre not exaggerating under any circumstances about how you feel cause I know how it feels myself now. In fact, I feel youre the only one on the planet right know that fully understand how I feel. Youre a smart and a wise man. Your concept of reality is not distorted even though some guys (with NW1 or 2) in here or your shrink or whatever is telling you otherwise. They dont know how it is to get these accmulative (good word) abuses. They dont know how it feels to be pointed out. F%¤k them!!!!.

If you get abuse almost everytime you take your hat/cap of, its not that strange to feel obliged to hide, or is it? Thats the only way to avoid the "inevitable harsh judgements that are slung upon us" (excellent desciption UM).

Finally I have found someone who knows what Im talkning about. Someone who understands me. You are describing the harsh reality in such a true way. When your alone about the feelings you start to feel youre making this up in your head, even if thats not the case.

 

[SmileBam]

You must have very low self esteem to say this.Hair loss is a big problem,but is not the end of the world.Dress well,work your body,be joyful and confident,and everything wi'll be ok.

 

[Hope4hairRedux]

You must have very low self esteem to say this.Hair loss is a big problem,but is not the end of the world.Dress well,work your body,be joyful and confident,and everything wi'll be ok.

This is the standard counter argument to 'hair loss fucks my life up' argument.

First of it does depend. But I personally disagree. Smooth made a very interesting and refreshing point that I feel rings great truths. People go on and on about 'confidence', but it is such an overated element.

Bottom line as smooth said, girls will approach and fancy good looking guys, shy or confident. If your confident but bald like an egg and ugly, what hope do we have? Honestly lets be serious. A girl does not give a sh*t how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly you need to have some inner belief and conviction in your ability. But this isnt going make girls like you. Its just going to give your more energy to keep on looking. The people with no inner strength are the ones who go bald and then retreat socially, aka dudemon. Even so, thats understandable in its own way. Girls arent wired that different from guys. We both look for attractive mates, simple as. Obvoiusly there are slight differences but its more or less the same. How many guys hee would go out with an ugly girl just because she had 'confidence'?

Bottom line is that generally speaking women dont dislike baldness per se, but most bald guys become far less attractive without hair, and thats why it sucks. There are a lucky few white guys that seem to weather the storm quite well and still look quite good, but they are few and far between. If your average, perhaps confidence will help somewhat. But in general it doesnt matter how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly workout, eat right, dress well. But dont expect these things to really raise your attractivness that much, they will help slightly.

Sometimes when I think of the cruelty and vanity of the human race it makes me so sad. We are living in this rat race and theres nothing we can do about it, other than stay in it or drop out.

 

[Bald Dave]

You must have very low self esteem to say this.Hair loss is a big problem,but is not the end of the world.Dress well,work your body,be joyful and confident,and everything wi'll be ok.

This is the standard counter argument to 'hair loss fucks my life up' argument.

First of it does depend. But I personally disagree. Smooth made a very interesting and refreshing point that I feel rings great truths. People go on and on about 'confidence', but it is such an overated element.

Bottom line as smooth said, girls will approach and fancy good looking guys, shy or confident. If your confident but bald like an egg and ugly, what hope do we have? Honestly lets be serious. A girl does not give a sh*t how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly you need to have some inner belief and conviction in your ability. But this isnt going make girls like you. Its just going to give your more energy to keep on looking. The people with no inner strength are the ones who go bald and then retreat socially, aka dudemon. Even so, thats understandable in its own way. Girls arent wired that different from guys. We both look for attractive mates, simple as. Obvoiusly there are slight differences but its more or less the same. How many guys hee would go out with an ugly girl just because she had 'confidence'?

Bottom line is that generally speaking women dont dislike baldness per se, but most bald guys become far less attractive without hair, and thats why it sucks. There are a lucky few white guys that seem to weather the storm quite well and still look quite good, but they are few and far between. If your average, perhaps confidence will help somewhat. But in general it doesnt matter how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly workout, eat right, dress well. But dont expect these things to really raise your attractivness that much, they will help slightly.

Sometimes when I think of the cruelty and vanity of the human race it makes me so sad. We are living in this rat race and theres nothing we can do about it, other than stay in it or drop out.

It all depends on the individual. Yeah women will look at a guy and think he is attractive or not but like the saying goes one woman's junk is another woman's treasure! The bottom line is that you aren't gonna be every woman's cup of tea. Some will fancy you and some won't. Its as simple as that really! To say that a women is going to choose a guy with a NW1 over you just because you are bald is rediculous. Lots of women love baldies

Also, like i've already stated in another thread - women don't care about looks as much as men do hence why confidence is a major turn on to a woman. I agree a man won't go for a confident ugly girl but we are men and we go for looks! Thats the difference between men and women!

 

[Hope4hairRedux]

You must have very low self esteem to say this.Hair loss is a big problem,but is not the end of the world.Dress well,work your body,be joyful and confident,and everything wi'll be ok.

This is the standard counter argument to 'hair loss fucks my life up' argument.

First of it does depend. But I personally disagree. Smooth made a very interesting and refreshing point that I feel rings great truths. People go on and on about 'confidence', but it is such an overated element.

Bottom line as smooth said, girls will approach and fancy good looking guys, shy or confident. If your confident but bald like an egg and ugly, what hope do we have? Honestly lets be serious. A girl does not give a sh*t how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly you need to have some inner belief and conviction in your ability. But this isnt going make girls like you. Its just going to give your more energy to keep on looking. The people with no inner strength are the ones who go bald and then retreat socially, aka dudemon. Even so, thats understandable in its own way. Girls arent wired that different from guys. We both look for attractive mates, simple as. Obvoiusly there are slight differences but its more or less the same. How many guys hee would go out with an ugly girl just because she had 'confidence'?

Bottom line is that generally speaking women dont dislike baldness per se, but most bald guys become far less attractive without hair, and thats why it sucks. There are a lucky few white guys that seem to weather the storm quite well and still look quite good, but they are few and far between. If your average, perhaps confidence will help somewhat. But in general it doesnt matter how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly workout, eat right, dress well. But dont expect these things to really raise your attractivness that much, they will help slightly.

Sometimes when I think of the cruelty and vanity of the human race it makes me so sad. We are living in this rat race and theres nothing we can do about it, other than stay in it or drop out.

It all depends on the individual. Yeah women will look at a guy and think he is attractive or not but like the saying goes one woman's junk is another woman's treasure! The bottom line is that you aren't gonna be every woman's cup of tea. Some will fancy you and some won't. Its as simple as that really! To say that a women is going to choose a guy with a NW1 over you just because you are bald is rediculous. Lots of women love baldies

Also, like i've already stated in another thread - women don't care about looks as much as men do hence why confidence is a major turn on to a woman. I agree a man won't go for a confident ugly girl but we are men and we go for looks! Thats the difference between men and women!

I honestly think thats BS. When it comes to what we percieve as good looking and not good looking, peoples perceptions are more or less the same. Attraction is to do with shape and symettry. Scientific studies show this. Thats why if you got 100 people to each come into a room and look at two people who you had personally selected, choosing one you thought was ugly and a good-looking one, 99% of people would probably correlate with what your perception of good/bad looking was.

Attaction is hard-wired into our DNA. Its genetic, biological, and evolutionary. Its bullshit to say that every women would have a completely different opinion about someone balding. lots of women love baldies? The obese ones? great.

Its also BS to say that women dont 'care' about looks as much as men. It is evolutionary! We want to pick good looking mates because it correlates with health! Get that into your pea brain and stop making so many tired generalisations.

 

[Bald Dave]

Ok fair enough you win! Good luck in getting those ugly girls :whistle:

 

[Gene_Fighter]

Is the original author of this thread ever going to reply? Epicetus let's hear an update!

 

[SmileBam]

You must have very low self esteem to say this.Hair loss is a big problem,but is not the end of the world.Dress well,work your body,be joyful and confident,and everything wi'll be ok.

This is the standard counter argument to 'hair loss fucks my life up' argument.

First of it does depend. But I personally disagree. Smooth made a very interesting and refreshing point that I feel rings great truths. People go on and on about 'confidence', but it is such an overated element.

Bottom line as smooth said, girls will approach and fancy good looking guys, shy or confident. If your confident but bald like an egg and ugly, what hope do we have? Honestly lets be serious. A girl does not give a sh*t how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly you need to have some inner belief and conviction in your ability. But this isnt going make girls like you. Its just going to give your more energy to keep on looking. The people with no inner strength are the ones who go bald and then retreat socially, aka dudemon. Even so, thats understandable in its own way. Girls arent wired that different from guys. We both look for attractive mates, simple as. Obvoiusly there are slight differences but its more or less the same. How many guys hee would go out with an ugly girl just because she had 'confidence'?

Bottom line is that generally speaking women dont dislike baldness per se, but most bald guys become far less attractive without hair, and thats why it sucks. There are a lucky few white guys that seem to weather the storm quite well and still look quite good, but they are few and far between. If your average, perhaps confidence will help somewhat. But in general it doesnt matter how 'confident' you are. Obvoiusly workout, eat right, dress well. But dont expect these things to really raise your attractivness that much, they will help slightly.

Sometimes when I think of the cruelty and vanity of the human race it makes me so sad. We are living in this rat race and theres nothing we can do about it, other than stay in it or drop out.

I'm just saying that if you complain to much about,it will make more harm.Yes,out there is not a perfect world.We care about us personally more than others.IS TRUE,THIS IS THE WORLD WE LIVE IN.But we must carry on...because there are womens that can overlook that u don't have hair...if you're an optimistic and a fighter. But this doesn't means we can accept hair loss.We must fight against it,because is f*****g hilarious without your hair.Peace.