Woman Cancels $30,000 Wedding For Mysterious Reasons

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it is nice to date and feel someone likes you and everything...

Women are so casual about this. "I had this nice piece of fruit".

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Looks like the guy dodged a bullet right there. If that girl had second thoughts about marrying him now. Imagine if they had been married for 20 years.
 

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But think of the children.

here are my thoughts on kids and genes;

You cant predict what is going to happen...If someone wants kids they should just have them and not try and produced genetically perfect children as the condition to having them. Especially if you love someone its like wouldnt that be the way you want to have kids? with the person you love and married? Weird conversation they had.

With hair loss at least we are lucky enough and aware enough IF a child started to get this symptoms we would be able to spot it early and address it best that can be...to stay aware of research etc and mentally prepare them if the worst was to happen so they can better deal with it.

I have shitty genes for hair loss--but I would hope my parents would not have skipped having sex that night 9 months before my birth just because i would face hair loss and it would effect me as it is.
I still glad i exist I mean it feels like a burden and i might have to get a weave one day or take risks with my health for medications...but not to ever have existed? i mean I am glad i have existed and done some really amazing things in my life.
Granted I say this KNOWING I had fantastic hair my 20s and my 30s so not comparing situations with anyone else..
 

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men behave like the males of pair bonding species where couples look alike. they are programmed to get attached to (love) a female who looks like them.

women on the other hand, behave like the females of tournament species, they go for the bigger taller more brutal male.

Yeah but we have a lot of posters who are open about wanting women who are of a different look/coloring ethnicity or culture even then their own.
 

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Yeah but we have a lot of posters who are open about wanting women who are of a different look/coloring ethnicity or culture even then their own.

ofcourse there are, but you don't see men marrying taller girls than them. society will be against it.
 

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ofcourse there are, but you don't see men marrying taller girls than them. society will be against it.

That point does not make logical sense to me in what we are discussing.

Men (a lot of them) prefer a woman either their height or smaller because it feels more dominate to have a woman who is smaller then them..they feel it looks better and I know personally it is a sexy feeling when man is taller then me or bigger framed them me...and I think for men it is opposite is true.

So not sure why this is your example you are using.
 

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here are my thoughts on kids and genes;

You cant predict what is going to happen...If someone wants kids they should just have them and not try and produced genetically perfect children as the condition to having them. Especially if you love someone its like wouldnt that be the way you want to have kids? with the person you love and married? Weird conversation they had.

You can't predict with 100% certainty, but you can heavily influence the odds.

Also, its not about how you (the parents) feel, about your love and all that. It's about the future child and its happiness

I have shitty genes for hair loss--but I would hope my parents would not have skipped having sex that night 9 months before my birth just because i would face hair loss and it would effect me as it is.
I still glad i exist I mean it feels like a burden and i might have to get a weave one day or take risks with my health for medications...but not to ever have existed? i mean I am glad i have existed and done some really amazing things in my life.

It's not you versus no child. It's you versus another human being that was never born because your parents had sex rather than your mom getting sperm banked.

And if you're thinking along these lines, think of all the human beings that will not exist because you have been choosing not to allow their existence (aka not have kids)
 

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You can't predict with 100% certainty, but you can heavily influence the odds.

Also, its not about how you (the parents) feel, about your love and all that. It's about the future child and its happiness



It's not you versus no child. It's you versus another human being that was never born because your parents had sex rather than your mom getting sperm banked.

And if you're thinking along these lines, think of all the human beings that will not exist because you have been choosing not to allow their existence (aka not have kids)

We can broadly expand the morals of choosing or not choosing childrens in general existence BUT I think that is way too broad and gets off the generally based topic of how much genetics looks should play into having a planned for child with your mate.

to have a planned child with your mate I think personally my opinion as someone with hair loss I would prefer to exist with my flaw then not to have been created.

I am not sure why you are broadening it to be a topic that is going far far beyond the scope of the material presented.
 

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After what I've read diet only really matters if you're malnourished. Even with the perfect diet it's almost only genetics that determine your height. Perfect diet and sleep through all your years of growing might give you an inch in developed countries.

I think you just lucked out. I'm f*****g shorter than my dad. Imagine your life if you were too.

If your doctor determine you'll have a short son you have to beg for HGH. His future depends on it.

im shorter than me dad. pisses me off too. i did some weightlifting when i was an early teen (stupid f****r), and ate pretty much dogshit my entire childhood. i always thought that had some connection with me not being that tall. but maybe it was just genes. my mums family are all relatively short/average. my dad and his dad are tall. i fell in the middle somewhere at 5'10/11.

how tall are you patrick? how tall is your dad?
 

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That point does not make logical sense to me in what we are discussing.

Men (a lot of them) prefer a woman either their height or smaller because it feels more dominate to have a woman who is smaller then them..they feel it looks better and I know personally it is a sexy feeling when man is taller then me or bigger framed them me...and I think for men it is opposite is true.

So not sure why this is your example you are using.
exactly, that's what i find not pure.
a short man is a turnoff for women, but a shot girl is not a turnoff for men.
women mate higher, men mate mostly with their lookmatches.

this shows that what women want from men is protection and ressources (if we're still at the jungle). it's like using him as a tool. a hired gun, a free bodyguard. it's funny even after the invention of martial arts and civilisation they still thing we're still living in the jungle.
we see it in the tournament primates, females share one dominant alpha male ... UNTIL a new alpha takes over the lead, and they will all ditch the loser of the fight and go with the victor (much like human history).

men mate like pair bonding species, they need to get attached to a female (love) in order to get her ressources when she's pregnant.
women do not need to get attached (love) a man, because replacing a man with a higher ranking male will be benificial for her.

men love women, women USE men.


 
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im shorter than me dad. pisses me off too. i did some weightlifting when i was an early teen (stupid f****r), and ate pretty much dogshit my entire childhood. i always thought that had some connection with me not being that tall. but maybe it was just genes. my mums family are all relatively short/average. my dad and his dad are tall. i fell in the middle somewhere at 5'10/11.

how tall are you patrick? how tall is your dad?
Sunchyme, What Norwood is your dad now and when he was the age you are now? Did you get your good looks from his side or mom's( or like you say mum's) side?
 

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im shorter than me dad. pisses me off too. i did some weightlifting when i was an early teen (stupid f****r), and ate pretty much dogshit my entire childhood. i always thought that had some connection with me not being that tall. but maybe it was just genes. my mums family are all relatively short/average. my dad and his dad are tall. i fell in the middle somewhere at 5'10/11.

how tall are you patrick? how tall is your dad?
I'm 6', my dad is 6'4. My genetics fucked me, baldness from dads side of family, skin from mothers, height from mothers, frame from mothers. If I got my dads height, coloring and frame then hair from my mothers side I would never have came to this forum. My uncles and grandparents on mothers side all full heads in their f*****g 70s and 50s..... FUUUUUUCK!!
 

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Sunchyme, What Norwood is your dad now and when he was the age you are now? Did you get your good looks from his side or mom's( or like you say mum's) side?

i would say hes nw4/5 at 60. gradually thinning from around 30 or so. very respectable baldness. his own baldness is a mystery too. his dad and both grandads are all nw1s well into old age. so f*** knows where he got his from

most of my genes come from my mums side. my looks, my height, my skin, my f*****g gay baldness. all from her family
 
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