Did You Acknowledge Hairloss Right Away Or Did You Live In Denial/delusion For A While?

shookwun

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I was living in reclusion but not anymore. Iv been at my BJJ academy training 5 days a week, putting in more effort to socialize, iv been reading a bit, but as we all know getting out of that mentality is always a transition it's not done overnight. You know that already.
it takes time.
 

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What is your height and weight?
 

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No, that's not what I'm trying to do. I'm in the same boat as almost everyone here I am losing my hair that is why I have come here in the first place.

I didn't try and go out with this girl, when I saw her the first time my first thought was not a chance in the world so I won't even look at her.

And thirdly, @shookwun will even agree with me when I say my physique is nothing amazing. I am athletic and tall and that's it, again, go on instagram and look at some of the guys like Steve cook, Sadik, Jeff seid, David laid, these guys have tremendous physiques and me standing next to them I would look like a twig.

I'm always the first to put myself down, there is no bragging done here. I like this forum and the people here otherwise I wouldn't give advice or anything else. Pretty simple.
People see it as bragging because they are in a worse situation than you.

There's two main types of people:

1. those who see someone who is better than them and they admire and learn
2. those who get bitter and jealous and whine.
 

shookwun

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No, that's not what I'm trying to do. I'm in the same boat as almost everyone here I am losing my hair that is why I have come here in the first place.

I didn't try and go out with this girl, when I saw her the first time my first thought was not a chance in the world so I won't even look at her.

And thirdly, @shookwun will even agree with me when I say my physique is nothing amazing. I am athletic and tall and that's it, again, go on instagram and look at some of the guys like Steve cook, Sadik, Jeff seid, David laid, these guys have tremendous physiques and me standing next to them I would look like a twig.

I'm always the first to put myself down, there is no bragging done here. I like this forum and the people here otherwise I wouldn't give advice or anything else. Pretty simple.
You have a great physique, and almost every one outside of the gym will be impressed. However, in comparison to other like minded gym goers like my myself I would consider it nothing special.


Who cares what I think though. I have been training for seven years.



When it comes down to it, women, and men who don't train will think you are in crazy condition, and shape.
 

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People see it as bragging because they are in a worse situation than you.

There's two main types of people:

1. those who see someone who is better than them and they admire and learn
2. those who get bitter and jealous and whine.


I don't know. I know one thing though, I'm not better than anybody on this forum. Most of us are all fighting our own battles. I just try and do the things I enjoy and be happy with what little time I have on this earth.
 

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No, that's not what I'm trying to do. I'm in the same boat as almost everyone here I am losing my hair that is why I have come here in the first place.

It might not be what you are trying to do, but it's how it's coming across (at least to me). I know you are here because you have hair loss, I'm not trying to tell you otherwise.
 

shookwun

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I don't know. I know one thing though, I'm not better than anybody on this forum. Most of us are all fighting our own battles. I just try and do the things I enjoy and be happy with what little time I have on this earth.
What you have going for you is that rugged masculine appearance, all though I would imagine your actual personality, and archetype is within the beta category. I would say on an aesthetic level you're about a 6-6.5, but on average you elicit a higher sexual response from aforementioned reasoning.



Do you have any former pictures of yourself with hair?


It might not be what you are trying to do, but it's how it's coming across (at least to me). I know you are here because you have hair loss, I'm not trying to tell you otherwise.

It comes across like that, but i dont believe thats the case.

everyone sounds amazing on paper or even in a social discussion until you dissect there actual experiences. realizing that they spilled either many years into one collaboration or almost everything good that's happened in a few hours of speech or couple of sentences.

if I remember correctly BaldHurts posted this one chick who lusted for him, turns on it was from over a year ago. he also ended up slaying some random big hooter hottie.


Put the numbers together, and it's almost nothing our of the ordinary. Anyone who goes out, meets people and is social can easily shag someone once a month.
 

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Put the numbers together, and it's almost nothing our of the ordinary. Anyone who goes out, meets people and is social can easily shag someone once a month.
Correction: anyone who is average or above. If you are a 3 or a 4 then your only hope is drunk chicks at 3am
 

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What you have going for you is that rugged masculine appearance, all though I would imagine your actual personality, and archetype is within the beta category. I would say on an aesthetic level you're about a 6-6.5, but on average you elicit a higher sexual response from aforementioned reasoning.



Do you have any former pictures of yourself with hair?




It comes across like that, but i dont believe thats the case.

everyone sounds amazing on paper or even in a social discussion until you dissect there actual experiences. realizing that they spilled either many years into one collaboration or almost everything good that's happened in a few hours of speech or couple of sentences.

if I remember correctly BaldHurts posted this one chick who lusted for him, turns on it was from over a year ago. he also ended up slaying some random big hooter hottie.


Put the numbers together, and it's almost nothing our of the ordinary. Anyone who goes out, meets people and is social can easily shag someone once a month.


No, I have been buzzing my head since I was very young maybe 19/20 and my hairline has always been the same as it is here:

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And I agree with your post 100% actually. I agree with the rating at a 6, everything else is spot on 100%
 

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No, I have been buzzing my head since I was very young maybe 19/20 and my hairline has always been the same as it is here:

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And I agree with your post 100% actually. I agree with the rating at a 6, everything else is spot on 100%
I think you are a solid 7 and would be an 8 if you were a fullhead
 

shookwun

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Correction: anyone who is average or above. If you are a 3 or a 4 then your only hope is drunk chicks at 3am
Well, seeing as most men are average once a month is nothing extraordinary. It would involve sparingly using social media, and going out once -twice a week.

I have had brief instances where in a two week span I went out every weekend, utilized POF, and tinder and ended up sleeping with 7 women in two weeks.
 

shookwun

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No, I have been buzzing my head since I was very young maybe 19/20 and my hairline has always been the same as it is here:

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And I agree with your post 100% actually. I agree with the rating at a 6, everything else is spot on 100%
could also see you being a solid 8 if you had a full head of hair grown out.


your very lucky to be able to have such features, as the balding will have only slight impact and hindrance on your rates.
 

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I think you are a solid 7 and would be an 8 if you were a fullhead


As much as I would love to see myself with a full head this is what I have to play with and that's the way it goes, I'm learning to accept it more as the days go by.
 
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