Did You Acknowledge Hairloss Right Away Or Did You Live In Denial/delusion For A While?

[Baldhurts]

well doesn't sound that bad with a f*****g 9/10 by your side.

Getting dates or going out and meeting a woman means absolutely dick all man, please get that through your head, it's about the end result which most likely ends in nothing. There are other factors like social skills and personality and keeping them interested which is something I have always struggled in. I'm an introvert and I am shy.

Just because you go out with a broad doesn't mean she will f*** you.

 

[Xander94]

Getting dates or going out and meeting a woman means absolutely dick all man, please get that through your head, it's about the end result which most likely ends in nothing. There are other factors like social skills and personality and keeping them interested which is something I have always struggled in. I'm an introvert and I am shy.

Just because you go out with a broad doesn't mean she will f*** you.

I would be fine with just going on a date to eat being alone is aweful

 

[SmoothSailing]

Getting dates or going out and meeting a woman means absolutely dick all man, please get that through your head, it's about the end result which most likely ends in nothing. There are other factors like social skills and personality and keeping them interested which is something I have always struggled in. I'm an introvert and I am shy.

Just because you go out with a broad doesn't mean she will f*** you.

OK, but try and imagine not even being able to go out with girls on a date. And you are also sh*t socially, shy and introverted. You don't even get the chance to f*** up a date with your social retardedness. Not trying to trivialize your problems, all our problems seem trivial to some people. Just saying it's a complete different problem when you can't even get the dates.

 

[shookwun]

I would be fine with just going on a date to eat being alone is aweful

Your fate

 

[Baldhurts]

OK, but try and imagine not even being able to go out with girls on a date. And you are also sh*t socially, shy and introverted. You don't even get the chance to f*** up a date with your social retardedness. Not trying to trivialize your problems, all our problems seem trivial to some people. Just saying it's a complete different problem when you can't even get the dates.

Ok that's fair and I'm not referring to you, but how do other guys know they CANT get dates? Do they try, do they put themselves out there? Do they exert all their options? Maybe they do or maybe they don't, but if you don't f*****g try at least then how do you know without a doubt 100% ?

 

[Xander94]

Your fate

Although you would like to I would never be that pathetic.

 

[Xander94]

Ok that's fair and I'm not referring to you, but how do other guys know they CANT get dates? Do they try, do they put themselves out there? Do they exert all their options? Maybe they do or maybe they don't, but if you don't f*****g try at least then how do you know without a doubt 100% ?

What are we supposed to do man? Go and ask women out without even knowing them that would get us at best slapped. You claim to be shy and introverted, yet you get girls numbers without even asking them ffs, and your here to tell us we aint trying hard enough.

 

[SmoothSailing]

Ok that's fair and I'm not referring to you, but how do other guys know they CANT get dates? Do they try, do they put themselves out there? Do they exert all their options? Maybe they do or maybe they don't, but if you don't f*****g try at least then how do you know without a doubt 100% ?

True, I think there's almost an epidemic of guys who believe they are incel but with a large amount of effort they could do ok. I actually get dates, consider myself a 6 but far from as good looking as you, even if I had NW1. So guess on your and shooks rating I'd be 4. And also only 5'9. I can get average looking girls with a large amount of effort, and I'm happy with that. If I hit NW3+ I'm fucked though, genuinely.

@Xander94 Correct me if I'm wrong but you are 6ft, NW1.5, unless you are genuinely ugly I think you are probably not incel material at all. You have never said you're ugly that I've read. are you?

 

[shookwun]

What are we supposed to do man? Go and ask women out without even knowing them that would get us at best slapped. You claim to be shy and introverted, yet you get girls numbers without even asking them ffs, and your here to tell us we aint trying hard enough.

He doesn't have trouble attracting women autist boy. L-earn 2 R-ead




Leave him alone, he's good looking! poor soul is being patronized by an incel

 

[Baldhurts]

What are we supposed to do man? Go and ask women out without even knowing them that would get us at best slapped. You claim to be shy and introverted, yet you get girls numbers without even asking them ffs, and your here to tell us we aint trying hard enough.

Xander, it's a numbers game dude. Do you go out at all? You may be a certain women's type. Some girls just think I'm good looking and that's it. Some users here said I was slightly above average, then iv had hair blues say many times that I am "hot". You just never know. Not every single woman has the same type of man that they like or think is attractive. I could be wrong, but that is just my experience. Take it for what it's worth.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

True, I think there's almost an epidemic of guys who believe they are incel but with a large amount of effort they could do ok. I actually get dates, consider myself a 6 but far from as good looking as you, even if I had NW1. So guess on your and shooks rating I'd be 4. And also only 5'9. I can get average looking girls with a large amount of effort, and I'm happy with that. If I hit NW3+ I'm fucked though, genuinely.

@Xander94 Correct me if I'm wrong but you are 6ft, NW1.5, unless you are genuinely ugly I think you are probably not incel material at all. You have never said you're ugly that I've read. are you?

I'm a nw3 and i'm not fucked - you just have to learn to style it and use toppik in weak areas.

 

[Xander94]

@Xander94 Correct me if I'm wrong but you are 6ft, NW1.5, unless you are genuinely ugly I think you are probably not incel material at all. You have never said you're ugly that I've read. are you?

I am at best average looking Diffuse Nw1,5. But I have beta mentality and Im stuck in a country where women are very cold and distant feminists. I get way more matches on tinder when I dont show my f*****g face on my profile picture.

 

[Xander94]

Xander, it's a numbers game dude. Do you go out at all? You may be a certain women's type. Some girls just think I'm good looking and that's it. Some users here said I was slightly above average, then iv had hair blues say many times that I am "hot". You just never know. Not every single woman has the same type of man that they like or think is attractive. I could be wrong, but that is just my experience. Take it for what it's worth.

Its not a f*****g numbers game, well maybe it is if you are willing to try hundreds of times. It's either you got the face or you f*****g dont.

 

[SmoothSailing]

I'm a nw3 and i'm not fucked - you just have to learn to style it and use toppik in weak areas.

We've had this conversation before

Different people are differently suited to balding. Baldhurts, for example, is not largely affected by his balding.

I've little masculine features, large forehead regardless of balding, very much not suited to bald look, many people have told me this also.

You're probably somewhere in between.

I am at best average looking Diffuse Nw1,5. But I have beta mentality and Im stuck in a country where women are very cold and distant feminists. I get way more matches on tinder when I dont show my f*****g face on my profile picture.

Yes it's hard for average guys these days, hard is not impossible though. I'm definitely worse off than you but have had some decent success.

 

[Roberto_72]

Ok that's fair and I'm not referring to you, but how do other guys know they CANT get dates? Do they try, do they put themselves out there? Do they exert all their options? Maybe they do or maybe they don't, but if you don't f*****g try at least then how do you know without a doubt 100% ?

So here you go again.

 

[Baldhurts]

So here you go again.

What do you mean Roberto

 

[Roberto_72]

What do you mean Roberto

You are using again a lexicon that suggests the rest of us are morons, whereas the only difference is that you were blessed with very good looks, not diminished by baldness.

 

[Baldhurts]

You are using again a lexicon that suggests the rest of us are morons, whereas the only difference is that you were blessed with very good looks, not diminished by baldness.

I didn't even say that Roberto. I can't even tell you how many times iv seen short/average/below average/ etc etc etc etc etc with very beautiful women. It can and will be done. You have to try though.

 

[Xander94]

I didn't even say that Roberto. I can't even tell you how many times iv seen short/average/below average/ etc etc etc etc etc with very beautiful women. It can and will be done. You have to try though.

Yea well if you devote your life to it maybe. I have no intention of doing so I have wasted enough of my time with women.

 

[JohnsonDDG]

We've had this conversation before

Different people are differently suited to balding. Baldhurts, for example, is not largely affected by his balding.

I've little masculine features, large forehead regardless of balding, very much not suited to bald look, many people have told me this also.

You're probably somewhere in between.



Yes it's hard for average guys these days, hard is not impossible though. I'm definitely worse off than you but have had some decent success.

Fair enough - I feel I look kinda okay balding but I still don't like it